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#122350 - 11/07/06 06:01 PM
Work is hard
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Moderator Emeritus MaleSurvivor
Registered: 08/16/05
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Loc: Moscow, Russia
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Work is hard, said Alexey. And he is right.
Work gets hard guys.
Funny thing is that relaxing is no less hard.
Alexey
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#122351 - 11/07/06 06:10 PM
Re: Work is hard
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Alexey,
boredom takes some doing also, like I have all this time on my hands and not doing so much with it, relaxation is one of the hardest things to master,
ste
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#122352 - 11/07/06 07:22 PM
Re: Work is hard
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Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
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alexey - i am sorry things are tough right now - it's strange - i hope there is not offense by how i reply - but i am reminded by your style of writing - of a book i bought at a booksale on the street - it was an old library book - that was a russian play called "he who gets slapped" -
for some reason - your style here reminds me of it.
hang in there alexey - it's good to see you-
mark
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#122353 - 11/08/06 02:39 AM
Re: Work is hard
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Registered: 08/07/04
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(((((Alexey)))))
same feelings here...
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#122354 - 11/08/06 06:09 PM
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Registered: 08/16/05
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Mark, Hi. It is weird that you mentioned that very book. I can't identify it with the Russian original, but the problem of being slapped disturbs me. Very weird, I have been slapped at work and it provoked strong negative feelings and emotions. Maybe many survivors have this problem? You? Thanks for reply, Ste, TJ Jeff. Alexey
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#122355 - 11/08/06 06:11 PM
Re: Work is hard
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they slapped you?
that is illegal isn't it?
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#122356 - 11/08/06 06:19 PM
Re: Work is hard
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it was not painful. It was just a slap from behind as a pal does. One time it was different, but the person who did it apologized.
Alexey
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#122357 - 11/08/06 06:27 PM
Re: Work is hard
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/19/03
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this is not good - they should not be touching you. this is my opinion - i was once punched at work - and i was not happy when she did it -
i was not in the moood to get into a lawsuit -
but - this person and the company - did not have the right to do this to me -
nor is it good policy -
it's ok to set your boundary alexey -
take the person aside - and say - can you please refrain from doing that -
then you've done your job of not humiliating them - and you set your boundary - clearly -
sorry man -
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#122358 - 11/08/06 06:28 PM
Re: Work is hard
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/19/03
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Loc: Pasadena, CA
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this girl who was my superior -
was having a bad day -
someone - i think a client - had left a disheveled mess in one area -
and she accused me of it - and before i knew it she punched me for doing something - i had no idea about.
not good -
she was an asshole and crazy.
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#122359 - 11/08/06 06:35 PM
Re: Work is hard
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/19/03
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Loc: Pasadena, CA
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sorry to go on - this incident was so random
i was thrown that someone would punch me - for no reason in front of others -
i was gentlemanly - and she looked incredibly sorry - and had guilt on her ugly spectacled rat face -
and i could have sued big time.
but was too busy with life - and it's not my nature - though the money would be nice!
right now - but whatever it's not my thing.
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