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#122350 - 11/07/06 07:01 PM Work is hard
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Work is hard, said Alexey. And he is right.

Work gets hard guys.

Funny thing is that relaxing is no less hard.

Alexey

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#122351 - 11/07/06 07:10 PM Re: Work is hard
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Alexey,

boredom takes some doing also, like I have all this time on my hands and not doing so much with it, relaxation is one of the hardest things to master,

ste

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#122352 - 11/07/06 08:22 PM Re: Work is hard
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alexey - i am sorry things are tough right now -
it's strange - i hope there is not offense by
how i reply - but i am reminded by your style of writing - of a book i bought at a booksale on the street -
it was an old library book - that was a russian play called "he who gets slapped" -

for some reason - your style here reminds me of it.

hang in there alexey - it's good to see you-

mark

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#122353 - 11/08/06 03:39 AM Re: Work is hard
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(((((Alexey)))))

same feelings here...

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#122354 - 11/08/06 07:09 PM Re: Work is hard
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Mark, Hi.

It is weird that you mentioned that very book. I can't identify it with the Russian original, but the problem of being slapped disturbs me. Very weird, I have been slapped at work and it provoked strong negative feelings and emotions. Maybe many survivors have this problem? You?

Thanks for reply, Ste, TJ Jeff. \:\)

Alexey

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#122355 - 11/08/06 07:11 PM Re: Work is hard
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they slapped you?

that is illegal isn't it?

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#122356 - 11/08/06 07:19 PM Re: Work is hard
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it was not painful. It was just a slap from behind as a pal does. One time it was different, but the person who did it apologized.

Alexey

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#122357 - 11/08/06 07:27 PM Re: Work is hard
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this is not good - they should not be touching you. this is my opinion - i was once punched at work - and i was not happy when she did it -

i was not in the moood to get into a lawsuit -

but - this person and the company - did not have the right to do this to me -

nor is it good policy -

it's ok to set your boundary alexey -

take the person aside - and say - can you please refrain from doing that -

then you've done your job of not humiliating them -
and you set your boundary - clearly -

sorry man -

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#122358 - 11/08/06 07:28 PM Re: Work is hard
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this girl who was my superior -

was having a bad day -

someone - i think a client - had left a disheveled mess in one area -

and she accused me of it - and before i knew it
she punched me for doing something - i had no idea about.

not good -

she was an asshole and crazy.

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#122359 - 11/08/06 07:35 PM Re: Work is hard
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sorry to go on - this incident was so random

i was thrown that someone would punch me - for no reason in front of others -

i was gentlemanly - and she looked incredibly sorry - and had guilt on her ugly spectacled rat face -

and i could have sued big time.

but was too busy with life - and it's not my nature - though the money would be nice!

right now - but whatever it's not my thing.

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