I'm sorry that it has taken me so long to respond to you. I can't imagine a crime more despictable...what shits they were, and if they're still living, I can't imagine the hell that they've made for themselves. Where could they go and tell their story and get anything but contempt. They've got to carry their miserable, unforgiveable behavior for the rest of their lives.
Can I dare to say that coming here is a real beginning? If you don't have a therapist, can we be of help in finding one? The pain can lessen. No, it didn't happen to me and I'll never know how you felt, feel. But we're here to listen and care and help you with the burden until it becomes lighter and bearable.
LS, let us in, let us be here for you. What happened to you does not make you any less of a man than you were before. Those bully boy shits will never have a lessened load. Can we help carry yours? Can we say that we'll be here night or day to listen, to try to understand your pain? We're a pretty good group of guys and we try real hard to understand where each of us is with our pain.
Can I tell you that I think that you're one brave guy to tell us of your abuse? Your words are sacred, you know that? We will treat what you have said as just that, sacred words from our new brother.
"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."