Punch up Ken Singer for a PM about this, the guy has contacts world wide, literally. Today he just told a guy in the Netherlands that he could help him find a therapist. Herkimer can't be any further out than the Netherlands.
Ken belongs to one of those International Associations of Therapists who specialize in boys/men like us. So, give him a PM and let him know of your need. OK?
"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."