I'm hoping that this comes together for you. I'm about to try organizing a group here, in NW Oregon. I've heard that some guys have driven a couple of hours to be with their group, once per week, once every two weeks, whatever they have decided the frequency would be. I'll let you know if I discover any "tricks to the trade," so to speak, in finding others who would be interested.
One woman therapist advertised an 8 week mens group with subject matter and everything and no response. I don't know if it would have made any difference if the leader/therapist would have been male, but it was discouraging to know that it didn't fly in this area with over one million men.
Maybe we should engage Ken Singer in this endeavor, maybe he's got some ideas.
"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."