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HIV/AIDS
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I'm jealous cuda. You do the Big Snoopy Dance...but I have the Woodstock position. K?
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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i thank you for showing courage. my heart is pounding from reading your statement. thanks for sharing it here. honesty is the key.
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Male Survivors
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love this song. it's the words you long to hear.
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U.S. & World News
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Male Rape Survivors Tackle Military Assault in a Tough-Guy Culture By Bill Briggs, NBC News contributor Amid the legislation and indignation sparked by the military's sexual abuse crisis, male rape survivors are stepping forward to remind officials
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U.S. & World News
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the usual attack on victim credibility. Howard Weitzman, just doing his job.
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Poetry
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this has strong visuals, like a mini twilight zone episode complete with irony and surprise ending. well done.
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Introductions
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Hey bcb00, So sorry to hear what happened to both you and your brother. But, welcome to MaleSurvivor. This is an amazing resource in terms of hearing other people's stories and struggles, and eventually posting your own if you decide to. It was my
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Off Topic
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Quote:Permission to ask for help.to love yourself and to hate who did what to you! to remember we are here for each other- never to be alone! My favorite!! Thanks Goran. Sam
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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Re: "
by lapchinj
@ 05/16/13 03:22 PM
Hey SonOfaSoldier, Sorry you find it necessary to be here but we are all brothers here. You will find caring individuals that are willing to help you. All you need is to get comfortable here and join in. You will find friendships you never had befor
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Male Survivors
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I saw it, and that was crazy to think that happy little boy and the person behind him.... wow...
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Introductions
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I know the pain you are talking about...I act out in very much the same way as you. I can see a lot of my actions in your words.
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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i, too will be listening to this audiobook. no doubt you will finish before me. i have never read this book. did not know much about it. this iscussion here has inspired me to check it out. always on the look out for a good book.
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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Originally Posted By: lapchinj....I can't have sex with her and I hate it when she whispers in my ear that she loves me so much and that she can't live without me. Nobody in my whole life said that to me, nobody.... I'm sorry but I have to rephrase w
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Family and Friends
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Hello, all. This is my first time on a website like this. Reason being is I'm seeing a guy who confessed to me that he has a hard time being open to someone because of having been a victim. He was victimized once as a young adult, and has never sough
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Spirituality and Survivors
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This is simply not true. 41 years old, devout christian as a child. Thrown to the wolves, neglected, ignored, bullied, and then developed homosexual feelings against my own dreams of being a good devoting christian. I've had a long and tortured lif
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Male Survivors
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I don't like mirrors or photos of myself too, for different reasons. Crossed eyed. I look at myself in the mirror and see 2 decrepit eyes looking every which way other but back at me. It's disturbing and disorienting. And when I choose to look at t
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Male Survivors
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Thanks Lancer, "past couple years it's been the ways she totally fucked up any chance I'd have for intimacy, solid career moves, etc." Ditto. I started becoming aware of her shortcomings much earlier on as well, but it has only been in t
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: PoorsoftThey went way over the top, you had every right to be angry about it too. Their reasoning is no justifaction to treat you as if you were guilty. Don't take it personally, I'll be honest with you if I saw someone aimin
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: JudeI'm kind of remote from mostof you guys, but would like to have some real face2face someday. I met a guy in AA who shared with me that he had CSA in his past, so I thought I might have found a buddy. But when I tried a fol
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Male Survivors
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Sorry to hear you can't control the flying. I get flying dreams at least once a week, and IT IS BOSS!!! I have gotten better and better at it the more I do it. It's almost like my subconscious mind looks at all the problems I'm faced with and says &q
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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jupiter
by victor-victim
@ 05/16/13 12:45 AM
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Spirituality and Survivors
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your words are wings with which you will fly. i congratulate as you liberate.
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Poetry
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i can hear you. i am not no one. i can feel you. go on. scream.
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Male Survivors
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I've been the same for my entire life. Sex to me was "robotic". I just performed. I now know it was because during my abuse, I "performed"...I had to or else. I learned to detach myself emotionally obviously because of the hor
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Poetry
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---------- The UPS ---------- LIVIN' IN THE SHADOW OF ANNIHILATION causes me no stress PANDEMONIUM RUNS THE NATION i ain't depressed THE RISE AND FALL OF CIVILIZATION leaves me unimpressed SITTING PRETTY IN A SH!TTY SITUATION i couldn't care l
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