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Introductions
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Welcome LGV, You are right, we try to collectively heal here. Some slower, some faster. There are no rules about healing, except perhaps that the more you speak the truth, outloud, about what happened to you, the less power it will have over you. Bu
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Male Survivors
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Been busy and just seeing these two posts, thanks for the feedback and point of view. I wouldn't change a thing about the steps Ive taken. Turns out, I am the one kicking ass. Turns out, I am the one firing back, competently I may add. I have resear
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Poetry
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True, touching, and very uplifting. Thank you for sharing!
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Male Survivors
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Couldn't explain it any better Eric Chase! Its amazing how you could find a short cut on how to see a dramatic event on my eyes its exactly how I tried to cancel all those memories couldn't handle it anymore until I seen a therapist! Its now about 6
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Family and Friends
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I also found out without my husband telling me. I tried to approach him, as smooth as I could, to let him that I loved him and he was safe now. He called me crazy, got angry, made me feel horrible. Then I found out that he had a son with the woman th
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Off Topic
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It is still difficult for me to believe that Pbert53 is gone. It has now been four days since I found out. Now that he is gone, I feel alone because he was the only one who I really could talk to about my csa, especially since he lived closest to m
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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hey Eric dude feel free to contact me any way you want. I don't know if I can help, but I do care. man sometimes it is just too much. but if you need to just ramble Im your guy jeff
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Introductions
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hi kilo, you have made a great step in opening the door to male survivor. that may feel terrifying, I know it did for me. but I hope you can bring yourself one step further. I hope that you can bring yourself to take in the help that is available her
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Male Survivors
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Again sorry for the misspelling and unfinsihed sentences!!!
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Male Survivors
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Si I have not been on here for a while.. Reading your post has been so motivating. Thank You. Sometimes we all dwell on the past and hold onto the bad, you are right in what you have said it is our "anchor". I often feel bad that I think I
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Male Survivors
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You, Kind Gentlemen, all brave and strong and courageous are helping me rebuild. Thank you. And mattheal.... what an intro to a thread. And what a special guy. Nice to meet you. (wow, Geoff. you made me cry. )
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Male Survivors
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Awesome Stuff Mattheal....... You really are doing some great work!! Geoff
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Male Survivors
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Hey Magellan, I've been having dreams lately, too. I think your other dreams were positive, but this dream is mixed. It's not a purely positive dream, but it does seem like very healthy subconscious work being done. As you know, all the people in
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Introductions
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Re: Hello
by bodyguard8367
@ 05/22/13 10:32 AM
G-Scott, Wow, Really Brave of you...Glad you are here, Glad you spoke up...looking forward to more interaction. Join us in chat or start up some more convo here in the forums...either way, this is how the problems get solved bro...a little at a t
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Off Topic
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It's not usually one song over and over for me. It's usually just one album. It's mainly because I don't feel like changing the cassette in my car. I'll go a couple weeks listening to the same cassette over and over.
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Family and Friends
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You should learn as much as you can about his challenges but ultimately things will come down to his willingness to get help. Help, by the way, for guy is not always so easy to come by so it may be necessary for him to wade into that slowly. Online
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Family and Friends
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Quote: And warn everyone so that she is not molesting her own children and the students she's teaching (she works at an elementary school) I am surprised he doesn't have a problem with this.
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Male Survivors
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Again thank you everyone. I have a plan and I'm at peace with it from all of your ideas. This will be another step forward now that my motive has changed, a way to keep building up with my family and inside me too.
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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very hard to witness. too real. too close. these men sure have a lot of guts to take it to this level. i can hardly bear to watch this clip. don't think i could watch the entire documentary. i am sure it will help some survivors.
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Male Survivors
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Things I liked: (Yes this is a healthy thing to do) (Not listed in chronological order) Taking trips to the Colorado Mountains Weenie roasts in the mountains Fishing with my grandfather in the Colorado mountains taking boat rides (my avatar was a b
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Male Survivors
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I guess Paul hadn't been posting much in the months since I joined. It's a shame I never got the chance to connect with him. My condolences to this friends and family. It is sad to hear of his passing.
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Male Survivors
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Ken Thanks for the pictures. Some of them I think I saw on facebook. Very pretty. Puffer
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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Originally Posted By: ThisManGuess who has been made responsible for the OK tornado? http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/21...ref=mostpopular you don't even need to read it... promise. Seems logical. (Rolls eyes).
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Male Survivors
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you can always PM someone you trust here, if you are uncomfortable posting it in public forum. sometimes, though, putting it out there works wonders. sounds like you need to talk about it. hope you find the right time and space. i am willing to
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Poetry
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your poem sent me off to the hubble site for a while. i would have gone outside but it is overcast and raining. broght this back for you.
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