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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Anyone have these physical symptoms? by LinEar @ 06/28/15 12:15 PM number one issue, by far, somatization of everything.
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Open for business by Jay1946 @ 06/28/15 11:52 AM

Originally Posted By: payne I think that I understand how I got here, but I'm not so sure that I'm entirely comfortable with where I am. Your statement pretty much summarizes how I feel.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Pretty bad few days by Nothing Man @ 06/28/15 11:46 AM

Hi bcl092. I am so sorry you are going through a rough period. We all have them; you are not alone. And many of us have shared a difficult childhood also, so you are also not alone there. It would appear that despite so many setbacks when you wer
Jump to new posts Re: please welcome me back by sportinrucks @ 06/28/15 02:17 AM

Welcome back Victor! I have decided to come back here as well. I'm happy to help you and any male survivor out!
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Is it acting out ? Or is this just me by payne @ 06/28/15 12:32 AM

Yes, I have this problem too. However, in my case it has to be a muscular man and often a black man. Although I experience mother-son incest, I do like looking at it which I don't think I should. I also like lesbian and bisexual porn. My mom divorc
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Every Day Mindfulness by bluesky @ 06/27/15 09:42 PM

Thank you OCN for you compassion it helps. I am doing much better today.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts An article which has profoundly helped me by OCN @ 06/27/15 05:57 PM

This is an article by a Buddhist teacher and perhaps more important a fellow survivor of severe trauma. His name is Eric Kolvig and he has been practicing Buddhism for over 30 years. It has helped me to come to terms with the feelings of loss, grief,
Jump to new posts alphabet soup by MarkK @ 06/27/15 09:56 AM

Absolutely Beside myself Centered and Determined Every step Forward Great Help In lifting my mood Just Knowing if I Look outside Myself I will see Nothing is Out of limits Purposely Quiet Reverent of Self To Understand the Versatility Which leads
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The Subconscious Mind of CSA Trauma Survivor by sorryson @ 06/27/15 08:03 AM

Kevin we are moving slowly. There always seems to be a setback or some event that pushes us in another direction. We are doing our best to stay on course. Strange, Mama and her family were the culprits in this mess and it seems my brother has the mo
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: So Tired by Nothing Man @ 06/27/15 07:50 AM

Hi Mike. I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts and I wish there was something I could do to help you. Please feel free to IM if you'd like to talk. I'm on your side. Mike
Male Survivors
I would personally love a Weekend with teen survivors 13-17 and adults. THE KIDS GUARDIANS WOULD BE PRESENT BUT NOT IN SESSION. A fantasy I know but I think we have as much to learn from them that they do from us
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: What happens when God isn't enough? by Still @ 06/26/15 10:52 PM

God does not command me/us to bring our children into Satan's pit! He does not command us to accept poison that will condemn our earth, society or community to hell. This nation will tolerate itself to Hell in about a year's time.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: My husband, the abused abuser... by Mishka95673 @ 06/26/15 05:55 PM

I relate. One of my best friends who I just adore is on the registered sex offender list. He was having issues with alcoholism at the time and did something like a one time inappropriate touch of a girl under 15 who was staying at the house. He was d
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: woman perp by Sterling @ 06/26/15 05:37 PM

I get. wanting sex. that is it! but I hate me. hi . that is not right. I don't want to hate me . this is heavy. can I make it lighter. I eat . ,that how do I talk instead of eating? what an idiot! it is sorry. you are you.anr I don
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Trouble finding joy by TheBobcatAgain @ 06/26/15 04:56 PM

I'm the same way. You're not alone.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Triggered or just a coward? by Nothing Man @ 06/26/15 02:17 PM

Hi (((Iaccus))) I did not read this until Friday. I hope you made it through the procedure and you did not experience any worry. I can only imagine how difficult that was for you. You are very brave.
Male Survivors
Wow. Thank you so much for your insightful response. I'll be reading this a few times more to let this sink in. Maybe I've been on the right path all along. It's taken this long to start seeing the light at the end of the tunnel? I hope. I ho
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Some Price is Chosen *****TRIGGERING****** by Still @ 06/25/15 01:17 PM

Originally Posted By: KMCINVAI had to pause the video on .......... seen him suffer public humiliation. That is such a compelling angle and story KMCINVA. I'm speechless in re-considering so so much of ... so much of post-abuse stuff.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Out of the blue by traveler @ 06/25/15 10:20 AM

i started to say that there are no musical triggers for me - but after considering it for a few moments, i realized that is not true. i have always hated country music - and now i know why. that was what the step-dad liked. thanks to this thread, i h
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Mixed Feelings - Literally by Rich1967 @ 06/25/15 09:48 AM

I thought we were connecting on some level there I think because in my early years I felt "normal" and loved by her is why I can connect with women. I still don't see women in a sexual way and I know I can see men in a sexual way but I'm
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