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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Me at age 11.. please add yours by Suwanee @ 10/27/14 09:06 PM

Jump to new posts Re: lawyer jokes by Nothing Man @ 10/27/14 07:24 PM

If you ever testify in court, you might wish you could have been as sharp as this policeman. He was being cross-examined by a defense attorney during a felony trial. The lawyer was trying to undermine the police officer's credibility..... Q: 'Office
Jump to new posts Re: New England Seminar by Still @ 10/27/14 07:06 PM

U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts reality TV prone to pedophiles? by traveler @ 10/27/14 04:54 PM Unfortunately - it is not just "reality" TV that has this problem - and not just girls who are the victims.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Don't know what to think by Jay1159 @ 10/27/14 01:25 PM

I think this is a great fist step OCN. It has to be on your own terms. It feels shaky because it is not something you are used to doing. I think it was courageous of you to write the letter in order to let him know what your thoughts are as well a
Survivor Stories
Jump to new posts 27 years of silence ends now (**Triggers**) by highflight @ 10/27/14 11:24 AM

Wow, this got long...and still it's vague. There is a section that has triggers both start and end of that section are marked. I have been a registered member for almost 6 months now, and am finally reaching the point of feeling comfortable formal
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Creative Full Stop by Bloom @ 10/27/14 10:43 AM

Thank you all so much for your feedback. I feel like each of you gave me very useful information to consider as I go forward with creativity. Don, I think it's very helpful for you to identify that rage component. I hadn't known what to make of that
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Not dealing with it (again) by KMCINVA @ 10/27/14 08:03 AM

Bardo Excellent. The journey may have ups and downs and turns. When I began I thought I went from step A to step B and so on. It was not quite that linear. I would be all over the place. You cannot always plan what will happen. Memories will res
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Perp maybe found? by Still @ 10/27/14 12:52 AM

Originally Posted By: wiresguy1Why should I care and what gives me the right to pursue this man and ruin his life? ... Has anyone else dealt with this situation? What gives you the right to pursue this man and ruin his life? ... His life is alread
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Drugs as Suicide Alternative by Still @ 10/27/14 12:39 AM

Originally Posted By: MagellanLife is a punishing experience for those who can't share a piece of their heart with another person. The post from which this line above came is packed-full of painful truths. You hit them all 100%, dead-on. Your des
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Jump to new posts Re: Show your pets by JW1230 @ 10/27/14 12:36 AM

My best four-legged friend in the world is the guy on the right. He has seen me through some really rough times! (I was dog-sitting the other guy; he's pretty cool as well!)
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Originally Posted By: Obii know it works from photobucket. copy the direct link from photobucket then start a reply post in the thread. click on "switch to full reply screen" button at the bottom. then click on the link that looks like a p
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Listen to Jehovah God by SamV @ 10/26/14 11:10 PM

Isaiah 48:17,18: 17 This is what Jehovah says, your Repurchaser, the Holy One of Israel: I, Jehovah, am your God, The One teaching you to benefit yourself, The One guiding you in the way you should walk. 18 If only you would pay attention to my com
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Songs for survivors by Sven @ 10/26/14 07:24 PM "Secrets" I need another story Something to get off my chest My life gets kinda boring Need something that I can confess 'Til all my sleeves are stained red From all the truth that I've said Come by it honestl
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Jump to new posts Re: Nightmares by TW16 @ 10/26/14 04:17 PM

I obviously have been sexually abused, and as a kid, I had received death threats from an adult. And before that, another kid had tried to kill me by chocking me at school. I have never talked to anybody about this. After the guy threatened to kil
Male Survivors
Hi Freeman, Thanks for your very complimentary and supportive post. I gotta tell you I feel everyone's journey is unique to each person, and that talking about one being more severe than another doesn't really address how anyone actually feels abou
Male Survivors
First off, it is not my intention for you or anyone else to leave ms. second, I think it is great that you are expressing your thoughts. However, I feel that I should also express my thoughts. We can agree to disagree.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Persisting Sex Problems by pete1973 @ 10/26/14 10:03 AM

JW1230 you just totally made me realize something else that has lingered in my mind but never really accepted until now that I would try to ejaculate as quickly as possible when the sexual act I was involved with reminded me of the abuse or I was rev
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Does ssa feelings ever go away ? by pete1973 @ 10/26/14 08:41 AM

I have been in counseling and therapy now for over a year and a half, first abuse was at 11 and second at 18 followed by a suicide attempt and have alwys found since I hit puberty I had ssa and a huge penis fixation. My first abuse was allowing the g
Jump to new posts Re: My Story by sorryson @ 10/26/14 08:29 AM

Bardo that is wonderful news. I hope you find connection with your therapist. I know when I first starting going to my doctor and counselor I was scared and afraid to tell him what happened. They were able to make me comfortable. Slowly I shared a
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bad Night Upcoming Family Group Session by Bardo @ 10/26/14 07:30 AM

Can you remember a time when you were even half happy? It sounds to me like you are making real progress. I know it is hard, and I have enormous respect for you in taking this journey. Keep moving forward!
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Jump to new posts Re: Didnt get a DUI by JW1230 @ 10/26/14 07:15 AM

Inside, I lost a close family member to a drunk driving accident. In addition, I grew up in a very chaotic, alcoholic home which lead to a lot of my difficulties today. I ended up abusing alcohol for many years to numb the pain and memories of my
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Under aged sexual exploitation or art by ShortedDiode @ 10/25/14 10:58 PM

Originally Posted By: StillThat book IMO, was blatant Child Porno. I saw it in our so-very-cool new shopping mall, in that oh-so-very chique and hip Book Store. I remember those day in America. I was 14 when I saw that freakin book. All I could thin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: my avocado tree by ShortedDiode @ 10/25/14 10:42 PM

Congratulations on the Avocado tree bearing fruit, Don. I hope it continues to do so for many more seasons to come. If you were doing something enjoyable like picking up some new music and you're moving too fast for the state of your physical healt
Jump to new posts Re: Picking Up the Pieces by une.vie.d.espoir @ 10/25/14 10:15 PM

You are in a good way of thinking, By experience keep up to most fgood friends around you that understand what did apen to you. Heres are alot, Welcome. Jean-Pierre
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