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Male Survivors
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Hi Little Big Man Yes, I understand, and yes we create delusions of our power to do things that are beyond us. We (or at least I) thought if I didn't have the power then I was dead meat. Even though my father never sexually abused me (though mo
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Family and Friends
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Hi Pie. I'm glad you have found a better path. I hope a friend of mine will find that sooner rather than later.
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Male Survivors
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Do ever find that your still in denial of the pain? I can tell by the way you post your topic it speaks for itself in its own words. I've been down that road many times in my life where I've tried to find a way to speak up about the pain I've been th
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Introductions
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Thanks for your replies guys. I've got a question. Why is my shame so heavy suddenly? How do I make it go away?
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Off Topic
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I wrote this in a PM to another MSer this morning. This is what's really on my mind, and what's running me. I was comparing myself to him: "Reading other people's stories is easy for me, yet my mind went back to selling myself on the job, ha
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Male Survivors
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I know some people into Shamun Healing this may be way cool. G
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Male Survivors
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Magellan, Dude, That is some awesome Shit. FOR REAL.... Thank you. Geoff
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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Hey man, wow, congratulations on graduation, lol, and plus those are great numbers! You managed trough many things in short: everything started with shingles and complications, low numbers, low energy, new meds, crazy draws, some worries... but slowl
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Male Survivors
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Nope I don't believe that I have mental health diagnosis but by the state and what therapist tells me I do. I believe in wuss you would be amazed how people badly people can manipulate you and you wouldn't even realize it. So in reguards to other peo
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Male Survivors
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Your room mate is abusive and must go. Having someone like that in your life and in your home (home needs to feel safe) is not healthy. Boot him asap. As for your therapist, theres a way you can tell its working. -how much of the time are you talki
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Male Survivors
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mother's day was hard this year. as it is every year. i tried writing a letter to my mother. never did it. congratulations. you have passed a milestone. i wish i could follow your example. thanks for leading the way.
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Male Survivors
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you will become stonger now. stronger than you ever have been before. strong in truth. strong in honesty. strong in reality. strong in indentity. it will a solid strength, built on a firmer foundation. it will be empowerment. infrastucture
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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Hi Aries. Man, it sucks that you have so much trouble around females but at least you feel comfortable around your girlfriend so perhaps that is a start. I personally don't have much of a problem around females in general unless and until it seems l
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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Originally Posted By: JoeSmithThank you Focused, I really appreciate your very insightful and thoughtful comments. I'm totally new to this type of sharing so half the time I think I must be making a complete fool out of myself, or saying too much or
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Male Survivors
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Cant, Geoff, V-V, b, Ken, Matt, Will, Jude - thank you all. your messages kept me going. everything you said helped. it was like a virtual group hug. just knowing you are there is important right now. and as you say - no matter where i am, you're a
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Introductions
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Welcome LGV, You are right, we try to collectively heal here. Some slower, some faster. There are no rules about healing, except perhaps that the more you speak the truth, outloud, about what happened to you, the less power it will have over you. Bu
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Male Survivors
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Been busy and just seeing these two posts, thanks for the feedback and point of view. I wouldn't change a thing about the steps Ive taken. Turns out, I am the one kicking ass. Turns out, I am the one firing back, competently I may add. I have resear
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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Thanks bud for posting these...both are great songs!
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Poetry
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True, touching, and very uplifting. Thank you for sharing!
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Male Survivors
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Couldn't explain it any better Eric Chase! Its amazing how you could find a short cut on how to see a dramatic event on my eyes its exactly how I tried to cancel all those memories couldn't handle it anymore until I seen a therapist! Its now about 6
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Family and Friends
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I also found out without my husband telling me. I tried to approach him, as smooth as I could, to let him that I loved him and he was safe now. He called me crazy, got angry, made me feel horrible. Then I found out that he had a son with the woman th
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It is still difficult for me to believe that Pbert53 is gone. It has now been four days since I found out. Now that he is gone, I feel alone because he was the only one who I really could talk to about my csa, especially since he lived closest to m
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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hey Eric dude feel free to contact me any way you want. I don't know if I can help, but I do care. man sometimes it is just too much. but if you need to just ramble Im your guy jeff
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Introductions
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hi kilo, you have made a great step in opening the door to male survivor. that may feel terrifying, I know it did for me. but I hope you can bring yourself one step further. I hope that you can bring yourself to take in the help that is available her
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Male Survivors
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Again sorry for the misspelling and unfinsihed sentences!!!
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