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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by Bardo @ Yesterday at 06:50 PM

Keep at it, sorry for the long road.
Jump to new posts Re: aways take love by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 05:33 PM

That was lovely ... May I add one thing ? Don't overlook the people you think don't like you. It sometimes doesn't reach their lips ... it's in the eyes. A softness that is not usually there ... a look that lingers a moment longer than usual, a slig
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Ten Reasons I Did Not Tell by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 04:42 PM

This was posted on MaleSurvivor FB. Ten Reasons I Didnít Tell By Carolyn Spring 1. No-one asked. Maybe if someone had asked me a direct question, I would have given them a direct answer. But no-one
Jump to new posts Re: Stone walls do not a prison make by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:52 PM

beautiful. thank you. appreciated with gratitude. i had forgotten about this. i remember reading it decades ago. good poetry is timeless.
Jump to new posts Re: Hello MS, I'm back by sportinrucks @ Yesterday at 02:41 PM

thanks, ya'll
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My story ( Triggers) (family abuse ) by Tryingtolive @ Yesterday at 02:22 PM

Anyone have some good books they recommend that i can read online that helped you. I would appreciate it.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Shown videos as a precursor (TW) by bey @ Yesterday at 11:56 AM

i guess i have struggled a bit with this too. my parents never hurt anyone but me, so i was ok with that. the guys taking the video and pictures - there were other kids involved, it wasn't just me hurting. i wanted to be strong enough to stand up
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Pathologize behavior by Robert1000 @ Yesterday at 10:30 AM

Thanks Victor! Keep healing, brother.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: A Question for Spouses/Supporters of Survivors by Robert1000 @ Yesterday at 10:29 AM

Oh, and I took part in the meeting by phone, which was just perfect. Thanks.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: gotta take the trip by Nathan LaChine @ Yesterday at 07:38 AM

Another year is gone and I wanted you to know I will never forget you. Lord only knows where I would be if it wasn't for you. Life has been filled with challenges, adventures, and now love. I have you to thank for all of this. Thank you for helping m
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: "Just Do It" by motmcd @ Yesterday at 06:48 AM

Thanks, Bluesky, for your supportive words. I like your comparative imagery with the car vs. pedestrian. I hope I don't sound like sour grapes. I carefully script and wordsmith every letter I write to be balanced and professional so as to deny my
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: q how does 1 know? by petercorbett @ Yesterday at 05:10 AM

Howdy, my fraternal brother, Learning to love yourself & accepting who & what you are is a very difficult task to say the least. I'm a senior citizen who has just recentely came out from the closet. I'm still legally married but seperated b
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts I want to pour my whole soul out to God. by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:18 AM

My heart seemed to be liquid within me. All my feelings seemed to rise and flow out; and the utterance of my heart was, "I want to pour my whole soul out to God." The rising of my soul was so great that I rushed into the room back of the fr
Jump to new posts Re: Super Golden Friends by peroperic2009 @ Yesterday at 03:46 AM

Jump to new posts Philip Larkin - Kick up the fire by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:22 AM

Kick up the fire, and let the flames break loose To drive the shadows back; Prolong the talk on this or that excuse, Till the night comes to rest While some high bell is beating two o'clock. Yet when the guest Has stepped in to the windy street, and
Jump to new posts Re: Robert Frost - Fire and Ice by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:11 AM

Fire and Ice Some say the world will end in fire, Some say in ice. From what I've tasted of desire I hold with those who favor fire. But if it had to perish twice, I think I know enough of hate To say that for destruction ice Is also great And wou
Jump to new posts The Flaming Heart - Richard Crashaw by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:06 AM

O HEART! The equal poise of love's both parts Big alike with wounds and darts. Live in these conquering leaves; live all the same; And walk through all tongues one triumphant FLAME Live here, great HEART; and love and die and kill; And bleed and
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Caring for yourself / Caring for him by Mishka95673 @ 02/24/15 11:11 PM

There you go again, Bob...showing your awesomeness! Great input
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: 1 in 6 boys ... by Publius @ 02/24/15 09:25 PM

The most conservative numbers I've seen are 1 in 20 boys along with 1 in 5 girls. Back in the fifties it was something like 1 in 1,000,000 so either things have taken a considerable turn for the worse or survivors started finding their voice : P
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Karl Jung and My Shadow by don64 @ 02/24/15 07:17 PM

A Jungian book "Owning Your Own Shadow" has had a powerful and positive effect on my life. Don
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: New Ontario Sex Education Fails by bey @ 02/24/15 05:37 PM

still, what would you say the "grooming through perceived normalization" is? thinking back to my sex ed days in school it was mostly like "don't go in the car with the guy with candy""don't let the babysitter give you a bath
Jump to new posts Re: Fun with puns by Bluedogone @ 02/24/15 05:10 PM

First blond girl: There's nothing better than taking a warm bath in milk. Second blond girl: Pasteurize ? FBG: No, just up to my boobs.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts My Shadow by Still @ 02/24/15 02:47 PM

"Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual's conscious life, the blacker and denser it is. It may be (in part) one's link to more primitive animal instincts, which are superseded during early childhood by the consc
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: "The Body Keeps the Score" by Rich1967 @ 02/24/15 02:28 PM

The video takingitslow posted was amazing...almost done. Too bad work gets in the way or I'd be done by now. I determined that being triggered was somehow putting me back in states related to my abuse a while back but this really makes it clearer.
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