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Jump to new posts Re: Cleared My Schedule--It Was A Good Day by Landscape @ Yesterday at 08:30 AM

Sounds like a great day. Congratulations.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Back For a Visit by sorryson @ Yesterday at 04:49 AM

Jude I have read some of you posts and I am so glad you are moving past the abuse. It helps me as I am trying to move on know it can be done. I hope to be where you are one of these days. Thank you for givng us hope and a goal we can achieve. Paul
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I Messed It Up Not Sharing May Not Have Been Right by sorryson @ Yesterday at 04:44 AM

Thank you. It was a great idea. I add another regret. I should have been there for Dad and I should have gotten to know his wife. She is a remarkable woman and Dad deserved someone like her after all he went through from his sexual abuse to how he
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Perp as a real person by Blessedcurse @ Yesterday at 03:20 AM

I had this memory today, or more like many memories with this special detail enlarged. I remember fathers eyes when he looked at me in many different occations as he was selling me och doing stuff to me himself. And I remember how I felt when he look
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: broken by tguy @ 04/16/15 11:21 PM

your welcome blue
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by victor-victim @ 04/16/15 10:05 PM

“When you write down your ideas you automatically focus your full attention on them. Few if any of us can write one thought and think another at the same time. Thus a pencil and paper make excellent concentration tools.” Michael Leboeuf IMAGINEERING
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Was porn part of the ritual of your abuse? by JayBro @ 04/16/15 04:58 PM

*TRIGGER WARNING* I was used in online/cyber child porn and quite often my perps would send me porn, often with themes of abuse if it were role play or fantasy etc. Well, for them it was a "safe" way of living out those/their fantasies beca
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: You are all amazing! by md4e @ 04/16/15 04:19 PM

Thank you so much, some days are so very hard but we love because we LOVE THEM. And this place helps us understand why it can/is so difficult. So thank you!!
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 04/16/15 02:10 PM

im a fucked idiot. I . okay I am dressed and now I open for marty to come and pick me up. I google places . write down info. half an hour goes by. "hey goran , how you doin? hey Marty. ( shit. I don't want to fuck him. I don't sex. I do
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Nasty Pig! by Still @ 04/16/15 11:27 AM

Mom loses 5 kids over sex party with daughter's friends A 35-year-old Georgia mother has lost custody of her five children after being arrested for allegedly hosting a party for her teenage daughter and joining in the festivities, which featur
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Input requested - survivor curious sex with men by Mishka95673 @ 04/16/15 10:34 AM

Acorn and Esposa, Thank you both for your wise input. I was a little uncertain about the health of his desire to actually carry out the fantasy and a teeny bit uncertain about where to draw the boundary with his curiosity. Acorn, thank you for sugge
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: other spiritualities by Castle @ 04/16/15 09:28 AM

Originally Posted By: WalkingSouthReligion is the garbage of spirituality. Religion does great damage in most cases. Spirituality on the other hand is what I think you are recognizing within yourself, but it cannot be defined within the strictures
Poetry
Jump to new posts Carl Cone - Hardened Heart by victor-victim @ 04/16/15 03:29 AM

The Hardened Heart Broken and battered Shell shocked and shattered Finding you nowhere when moments had mattered Chafed by its cage Engrossed with its rage Tumultuously tossed in its most brittle stage Dying to know Desperate to glow Beating a melod
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: THE END OF SSA-Easily Overcome by woodenshoes @ 04/15/15 11:02 PM

1lifenow I'm glad to see you follow what you feel. Some of us do struggle from what happen to us. We have to remember it doesn't define who we are inside. You have to be comfortable in your skin. All the best Ws
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Last secret of the Holocaust: Child rape by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 07:29 PM

it is the worst form of opportunism. chaos and war as a distraction. camouflage for predatory pedophiles. adding insult to injury.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Trying to calm down - he lied again by Mishka95673 @ 04/15/15 06:27 PM

Blog entry! So that is what a flashback feels like! How unpleasant. My poor man tried to say something teasing yesterday and in the past when he said "that", there were times when he was accidentally texting it to me rather than to some gi
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: SMART goals by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 03:45 PM

i finished the course. it was excellent. i highly recommend the book as well. summary to follow.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Continuous Hurdles by JayBro @ 04/15/15 09:47 AM

Hey everyone, thanks for your responses! I think, along with building sympathy for myself, learning to protect myself from triggers (knowing full well how I will react) is something that is really important and something that I find quite challeng
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Getting Triggered When Aroused by JayBro @ 04/15/15 09:28 AM

Hey Bardo and SmartShadow, thank you for your messages! I have found them quite helpful and I need to remember to refer back to them the next time I have another episode of pain and trauma masking into a forced "arousal" which later only
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts A Code for Life from the Book of the Dead by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 05:06 AM

A Code for Life from the Book of the Dead The doctrine of Maat is represented in the declarations to Rekhti-merti-f-ent-Maat and the 42 Negative Confessions listed in the Papyrus of Ani. The following are translations by E. A. Wallis Budge. 42
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Used Porn as a release by 1lifenow @ 04/15/15 04:14 AM

There is nothing wrong with porn. There is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality. Its not either/or. Healthy expression of sexuality is about enjoying and expressing your heart and inner most desires between two consenting adults or viewing
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: mask - unmasked by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 04:10 AM

for you, traveler. Die Maske Des Bösen An meiner Wand hängt ein japanisches Holzwerk Maske eines bösen Dæmons, bemalt mit Goldlack. Mitfühlend sehe ich Die geschwollenen Stirnader, andeutend Wie anstrengend es ist, böse zu sein. Bertolt Brecht
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: 'Paedophilia is natural and normal for males' ... by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 01:43 AM

"Let nothing be called natural in an age of bloody confusion, ordered disorder, planned caprice, and dehumanized humanity, lest all things be held unalterable!" Eugen Berthold Friedrich Brecht The Exception and the Rule
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ 04/14/15 06:37 PM

thanks for the cheers, guys. considering that i was actually injured on jan 5, it has been a bit longer than 8 weeks, but that was due to clerical errors on their part. they tried to slip me in between the cracks, but i am the wrong guy for that jo
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: the call by Shyshark @ 04/14/15 05:48 PM

I now understand so much more ... thank you for sharing with this painful poem. (((Ben)))
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