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Poetry
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wow. i have lived like this for many years. i could maintain alienation for very long time periods. it was easy, painless, but desperate and lonely. it was mostly illusion, because something always seemed to sneak though my shield. something
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: BraveFalconOriginally Posted By: Jacob SOriginally Posted By: travelerOriginally Posted By: BraveFalcon889: Mixing every soft drink together in the same cup at a fast food place tastes AWESOME! (Now, for bonus points, can anyon
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Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
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I have a hard time believing anyone could truly "get out of" a true gun-to-head situation, but for a gun of their own. I'd sooner call BS. Everybody likes to make out like they're more than they actually are. What you lived was reality.
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Originally Posted By: takingitslowI love south park I prefer the older ones though. My fav episode is hooked on monkey phonics season 3. That opening 3 minute sequence always has me in stitches even though it probably isn't lmfao funny. http://stre
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Male Survivors
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one of my abusers hugged me way too much. it's him i feel every time i hug a male. especially the whiskers. revulsion.
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Poetry
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nice and crispy cynicism. cautionary criticism. always appreciated. a rare flavour. one i savour. enjoyed it.
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Poetry
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this is very painful. i feel this way sometimes. it is hard to let the memories flow. i always feel the need to delete. thanks for making me think.
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Poetry
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beautifully crafted. powerful message. healing through forgiveness. trigger warning http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=432551#Post432551
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Male Survivors
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no wonder you have a hard time dealing with it. you were there!! i have a hard time dealing with it, and i only read the post.
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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extreme TRIGGER warning * this is horrible. research: http://www.williams-thomas.co.uk/ http://theneedleblog.wordpress.com/
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Male Survivors
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I am sorry for your pain. It truly does suck that the past can control our life. Few understand our pain-the memories, the body memories and the sounds or words come alive as we try to sleep, they creep into our subconscious, robbing us of the sleep
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Male Survivors
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I haven't broke anything in rage for a while. The last time was a year ago (within 5 months of recovery)when I ripped up loads of clothes my perp had paid for over the years. I no longer have any clothes which he bought. I don't rip my clothes up whi
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you gotta love this.
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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Hey all, Been awhile since I've been on but one thing I noticed recently it's that men i am ok around but women, well they scare the hell out of me. The only female I am actually comfortable, excluding family cause them I'm comfortable around them,
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Family and Friends
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Thank you for all of your responses. I am really glad that I found this site. A little update. Husband is UTTERLY calm. He basically doesn't want to talk about it anymore but he answers some of my questions which I have a million of them...but I did
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Dear DavoSwim, thanks for reminding me about one of my few happy childhood memories. of course it has to do with television. i was a huge apollo 11 fan. watching the moon landing was a pivotal moment of joy and wonder. bought the toys, flag
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Introductions
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Welcome Kyrob, You are in good company here. We are men in all shapes and sizes, all walks of life, all ages, all orientations, and from several different countires. But the one thing that unites us is our childhood experiences, and how that affecte
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Introductions
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Originally Posted By: DolphinsFan76I am trying to figure this all out 25 years after my abuse's occurred. Welcome Dolphinsfan, Many of us waited years before we had the strength, and perhaps desperation, to disclose our childhood sexual abuse. You
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: cant_remember That victim advocate letter is from what year? I think it's 1988. It's not in front of me right now. It was only a few years after I remembered it. Puffer
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: victor-victim "telling the truth" became as easy as breathing. Heh. Funny. To quote my father's recent statement to me: "You lie like you breathe"
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Sexual Identity Issues
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I'm a bit surprised so few of you know anything about OCD. I had very severe OCD and HOCD as a child. I thought it was lately en vogue to feature it on reality shows and crap like that. Hmmm. I guess word hasn't gotten out as much as I thought. Anyw
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Male Survivors
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: victor-victimin a way, i did "grow up" when my father disappeared for ten years. a frozen moment. this arrested development caused me to never "grow up". sex and violence made me more than a child. i alre
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Male Survivors
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Hi Traveler, Yea, abusers usually do work really hard to project outwardly the opposite of what is going on inwardly. They are more concerned about who they are publicly than who they are privately. Some abusers really believe the lies they projec
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Male Survivors
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Hey ThisMan, Just wanted to say that I hope your new T works well with you. If you'd like, I would be interested in hearing how your meetings are progressing. Mac
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