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Jump to new posts Re: Ralph Waldo Emerson by tommyb @ 02/04/16 06:45 PM

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Jump to new posts Talked to my wife.... by tna2016 @ 02/04/16 05:43 PM

I finally mustered the courage to talk to my wife on my sexual abuse (by my eldest sister at age 9) and about my relationship with my father. I read a book (Victims no Longer, Mike Lew) and felt the urge to talk to someone. I am happy that 'that some
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Jump to new posts Re: Lost in Translation - idiomatic words by 30something @ 02/04/16 04:24 PM

Great share! Thanks.
Jump to new posts Re: appreciate this community by 30something @ 02/04/16 02:17 PM

"The treasure warrants the hunt" - thank you for this, @victor-victim.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Letter to ourselves (Trigger warning please) by Brian Cardoza @ 02/04/16 12:12 PM

William, Read my post on perspective and realize that you're human our attackers took our innocence but they did not take our humanity. Of course your angry and of course you feel guilt associated with it and that is good because it shows you're hu
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: triggering! by victor-victim @ 02/04/16 08:12 AM

this one is just as disturbing... on many levels. 16 y/o German girl talks
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Jump to new posts incredible courage by victor-victim @ 02/04/16 03:58 AM

had to share this woman's courage and amazing attitude. inspirational interview: A BRAVE HEART: The Lizzie Velasquez Story -
Jump to new posts Re: Garrison Keillor by victor-victim @ 02/04/16 03:15 AM

so glad you two appreciated it. thanks for the feedback, guys. (Sterling) (Skyshark) p.s. Dear Skyshark... did you see these? SkyShark1 SkyShark2
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Told a friend, mistake I think by LinEar @ 02/03/16 10:15 PM

Glad to hear of that support system that you do have, Trew. Welcome.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: New Book by charty @ 02/03/16 08:29 PM

You're welcome, John.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Fear is My Enemy by SmartShadow @ 02/03/16 07:40 PM

((Kevin)), ((Iaccus)) and ((Michael)), it can get better you are not alone in this. Truth is death is not the real answer. Life is the answer. The question is how do we get out of the traps we are in, to get to a better place and protect what we hav
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts 'Loss of control' or 'Revenge' by victor-victim @ 02/03/16 06:20 PM

A woman who stabbed an accused paedophile to death in east London has had her three-and-a-half-year jail sentence more than doubled. S__S___, 32, was found guilty of the manslaughter of M___P___, 77, after learning he had been charged with sexually a
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Jump to new posts TRIGGER! - 7 Criminals Arrested - 1 Dead - by victor-victim @ 02/03/16 06:04 PM

"In the worst nightmare, from the very deepest recesses of the mind, at the darkest hour of the night, few can have imagined the terrifying depravity which you men admit." "What you did is contrary to all nature and humanity and you e
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Finally, I am asking for help with this.... by abused9 @ 02/03/16 11:25 AM

Logan I feel your pain for sure. I don't know how to help you. I'm new at this, and have only been dealing with my CSA situation for a month and a half. I wish you hope through your struggle to heal. Like you and many of us here I'm struggling also.
Jump to new posts Re: Guess I should say a bit more by abused9 @ 02/03/16 11:10 AM

Thank all of you for your support. I have talked to some of you in chat. I'm fortunate to have been directed to this wonderful place, and to meet everyone I have met here and everyone I will meet here throughout my journey.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Regarding Intimacy TRIGGER WARNING by Rich1967 @ 02/03/16 10:52 AM

Powerful as usual. For me it brought up my struggle with identity issues. I have always wanted and needed male affection and intimacy BUT having that all tied to my sexual abuse made it seem like it would never be possible UNLESS I identified as ga
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling triggered by Obi @ 02/03/16 10:33 AM

Thanks Lee. It may have hit me harder than normal because I know I have been under a lot of stress lately. Such a sad story.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: H has now started Twink Porn- Worried by traveler @ 02/03/16 09:37 AM

This is not a justification or excuse for child porn - but an observation from my own experience. First - I think there is a lot of truth in what SmartShadow has written above. I want to add my own experience to give support and maybe an individual
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts an exercise to end suffering? by victor-victim @ 02/03/16 01:00 AM - regardless of our spiritual beliefs, we are all seeking enlightenment and an end to our suffering. - we shouldn’t try to escape difficult times. Rather, sufferin
Male Survivors
Hears to thriving...a much better way to live one's life for sure!
Jump to new posts Re: Ode to my avatar by OCN @ 02/02/16 04:37 PM

Quote:Love and cherish him ... he deserves it ... and you deserve to have him back! Nice Sharky! Thnx for sharing
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: for some reason the time is not correct by Sven @ 02/02/16 04:30 PM

Glad it's been resolved.
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Jump to new posts Re: Am I the only one who does this by traveler @ 02/02/16 03:38 PM

Originally Posted By: SmartShadow My abuse and trauma is not something that happened to me. It something that is happening to me. I am not a survivor of abuse, rather I am in an ongoing state of surviving. This takes so much energy and time away from
Jump to new posts Re: Ripples by Shyshark @ 02/02/16 03:19 PM

I love the last line Free. Well done.
Jump to new posts Re: the play's the thing by Shyshark @ 02/02/16 03:16 PM

It is never too late to go back for him MarkK ... and he is a very forgiving little boy ... and a very patient one. He is strong ... are you strong enough? He loves you. He waits.
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