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Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Other religions than god centered. by don64 @ Yesterday at 02:29 AM

Hi Little big man, This is a spiritual forum for everyone. I am sorry you are not getting the respect and support you and everyone deserve for the right to choose what, who, and how you worship, or not. This site is not only for Christians, and is
Jump to new posts Re: Your life in Six Words by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 01:38 AM

My goodness Victor ... The middle part of that second to last one is pretty grim. I hope you don't believe that. ((((v-v)))
Jump to new posts Re: Brotherly Love by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 01:31 AM

Sadly a family is not what we make of it ... it's made of that over which we have no control. In other words ... we're stuck with it. This family we choose ... and this family chooses us. In other words ... no other words are needed.
Jump to new posts Looking for a survivors of CSA Group NJ by bluesky @ Yesterday at 12:39 AM

Looking for a survivors of CSA group in south or central NJ. If any body has info can you let me know thanks. Bluesky
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Some times there is a happy ending. by bluesky @ Yesterday at 12:32 AM

I was very inspired by this story. It gives me hope that there are good people in this world and we need more like them. Bluesky
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Songs for survivors by gettingstronger @ 01/25/15 09:58 PM

As long as a song doesn't encourage you to harm yourself, or you only listen to it when you're not in a state to do so, I think it could be really good. I've cried like hell to certain songs, especially Meat Loaf's "Objects in the Rear View Mir
Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
Jump to new posts Re: My Karma trying to understand **may Trigger** by bluesky @ 01/25/15 08:50 PM

Thanks for posting. IT is sad that this is how it is. I just want to say that it feels like I'm being drained of my strength when I need it the most. I am trying to just take each moment for what it is and say to my self it not your doing you did not
Jump to new posts Re: The shepherds wronged their lamb by Shyshark @ 01/25/15 08:41 PM

This is very beautiful lionking ... good good poem even though it's a bad bad subject Welcome to MS Sharky
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by BuffaloCO @ 01/25/15 08:33 PM

It's sad to me that some of the Christian faith have not treated you well and I am sorry for that. If someone pushes faith on you and it makes you uncomfortable, report them, you have that option. If someone asks me what I believe I will tell the
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: What's Really Important!!!! by Nothing Man @ 01/25/15 04:32 PM

Kind of sums it up a bit.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Stay Focused by victor-victim @ 01/25/15 04:29 PM

excellent. thanks.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: cant shake off feeling like a fraud by Bardo @ 01/25/15 04:24 PM

Here's how bad it is: I was chatting with a fellow MS member early this morning, and we were talking about this sense of guilt/fraud about our abuse. I was 11 when mine occurred, so yeah you can see how I might feel involved (although we know its not
Jump to new posts Re: Thank you brothers... by Shyshark @ 01/25/15 04:09 PM

Damn ... sorry sunwolf ... That was supposed to be preceded by my telling you how much I liked your poem. It's great.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Is there a God? by little big man @ 01/25/15 03:56 PM

I enjoy meditating and keeping my mind silent
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Where is God in the Midst of the Suffering? by little big man @ 01/25/15 03:55 PM

Buddhism's eightfold path is the way out of suffering as it says in the four noble truths. If your thinking makes you suffer this path teches you how to do something about it. All suffering begines btween the ears. How we think, stories we make. wha
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Normal by vrocotamy @ 01/25/15 03:20 PM

Not in general, but I am still occasionally made uncomfortable by the rhetoric surrounding gay men, male-male sex, etc. on these forums. It's less when people talk about their own experiences with confusion around sexual identity, than when people in
Jump to new posts Re: Of Billows The Spiteful by Shyshark @ 01/25/15 02:53 PM

Very evocative ... May I make a point? He never gets all you have ... and he will never finish you off.
Jump to new posts Re: OH storm wind by Shyshark @ 01/25/15 02:44 PM

You didn't need to do that ... but it is a bit more clear. Sometimes it's good to have to read something more than once. If the piece doesn't challenge you to some degree the reader simply assumes that he gets it ... but he often doesn't get it all.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: really tough by Serious Dave @ 01/25/15 02:06 PM

SeekingGood, I am glad that you are seeking and that what you are seeking is Good. I absolutely loved "The Road Less Traveled". I re-read it here-and-there. That book straightened out my thinking on a lot of things and led to much self-
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: This is why i hate religion by little big man @ 01/25/15 01:44 PM

Personally I don't believe in a god and am unsure Jesus ever exhisted, but then, I come from a non judeo-christian or abrahamic religion. It seems never in awareness that there or other religions than god centerered ones. And we are not the devils wo
Jump to new posts Recovery Tools and my progress by little big man @ 01/25/15 01:12 PM

Hi Everyone. I have not been on this site in awhile. I have combat fatigue from my abusive childhood and fell apart after cancer when I was 33. My PTSD became unmanagible. Put on antipsychotics. Obbcessive worrying, worstcase and hypervigilance to pr
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: All I want by Nothing Man @ 01/25/15 09:41 AM

Hi guys, thanks for your response. Part and parcel of the whole story is the widespread bullying that seems to pervade American schools. It can be overt or covert but regardless, either is just as devastating to a young and fragile psyche. I was b
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Facebook *TRIGGER* by victor-victim @ 01/25/15 03:52 AM

this may be old news, but it is the first i have heard about it. it was upsetting to me, so i warn you to read carefully. EXCLUSIVE: Pedophiles Find a Home for Social Networking -- on Facebook The world’s largest pro-pedophilia advocacy group u
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Shame by Robert Karen by victor-victim @ 01/25/15 03:22 AM

"delight" is one thing. perfectly appropriate and harmless. i don't think people are worried about "delight". i have just developed a distrust of ginsberg. he is at the very least, insensitive to the issue. i decided to re
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Sex and Love by vrocotamy @ 01/25/15 02:32 AM

Originally Posted By: ConfuzzedSome days I feel like I know myself very well. Other days I don’t recognize myself at all. I don’t act like the man who wants to be truly loved. I say I want a loving and honest friendship but I pervert my friendships a
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