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Jump to new posts Re: Canon 1717 by ig3 @ Today at 05:06 PM

It is important to note that, "sending the letter requesting action on canon 1717 is just a first step, and other actions may be necessary depending on the response." The quote is from Jennifer Haselberger, JCL, PhD, at Canonical Consul
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: MEGA pedo ring at highest levels of UK govt by victor-victim @ Today at 03:25 PM

this has gone on for too long. we must destroy the conspiracy of silence. protect the children of the future. support the survivors of the past. do not
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Listen to Jehovah God by victor-victim @ Today at 03:12 PM

thank you for your input, samuel. more, please. i can never get enough. this forum is one of my favourite fellowships. The lord god said... "For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst." matth
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: the game of THORNS by CheerfulJohn @ Today at 02:35 PM

Thorns have been a subject I have dealt with as art and in my study of scripture. For me thorns are a sign......a good sign of something wrong...a kindness, a warning I even made a thorn 3 foot tall ! My final degree work was a 7 foot air conditio
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: This was the 'worst part of my abuse,' by JW1230 @ Today at 12:40 PM

Logan, I am so sorry that you had to endure this heart goes out to you. The tremendous courage it took to share these difficult, painful experiences you endured is healing not only for you but for all of us here. It helped to remind me
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Learn to bring God into your broken desires by CheerfulJohn @ Today at 11:51 AM

Hi One of the best bits of advice I was given years ago was to take my twisted, distorted desires, usually of things that tried to fill the love needs of parents, to The Maker......Not so easy to do. But it has really worked for me, and I still do
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I back, again..... by Publius @ Today at 11:12 AM

Logan I also recently returned to MS after a long break so I understand how you feel. I wrestled with the question of whether or not it was fair for me to come back after so long or to bring "new" problems to the forefront. Ultimately, I
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Reflection and Being Thankful by Publius @ Today at 10:54 AM

Wonderful posts. I am definitely thankful for the support from my family, friends, therapist, and everybody here especially the staff that keep this site running. None of us are alone in this struggle and the more we come together in mutual support
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Songs for survivors by lostc @ Today at 06:21 AM

one of the many nationalist songs against child abuse (could be triggering)
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My first day of Sobriety by OCN @ Yesterday at 07:46 PM

Originally Posted By: tbkkfileI felt guilty that I'd had a drink again, and felt that I'd let myself and a whole lot of people down. The dilemma is, if I don't say anything then no one knows if I've given in to temptation but I lack conviction becaus
Jump to new posts Re: Fun with puns by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 03:03 PM

Those who jump off a bridge in Paris are in Seine .... A man's home is his castle, in a manor of speaking. Practice safe eating - always use condiments. Shotgun wedding - A case of wife or death. A man needs a mistress just to break the monogamy
Jump to new posts Re: I'm Thankful by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 02:12 PM

Also, I'll be thankful if I can learn to put comments in the proper forum, and not in "Introductions." Sorry
Jump to new posts Re: Greetings & some thoughts by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 09:01 AM

Welcome and thank you for sharing. You are right, no one should experience CSA but it happens. Having a place like MS to share, vent and encourage each other to heal is invaluable. I am glad you found your way here. You have changed your life in so
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Not any Mom...and my attraction by traveler @ Yesterday at 08:22 AM

learning - i was present at a similar episode to what you described. i was working in the men's wear department of a large upscale store. one evening a mom brought in her teenage son to buy khakis. I showed them some and they took several to try on.
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: At that point with Mom by learning2remember @ Yesterday at 02:11 AM

I thnk I know what you are talking about. I agree that our physical behaviour can influence our emotions, but it is not the only factor. In the case of you adn your Mom, I'm not sure which behaviours or emotions you are talking about. In mw own case
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Bill Cosby accused of rape/sexual abuse by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 12:38 AM

please... i can't take it anymore. is there anyone or anything from my childhood left, that is not tainted or corrupt. michael jackson, woody allen, rolf harris... now bill cosby. i don't even WANT to believe the allegations. no wonder peop
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: A ghost story. by Garf @ 11/25/14 11:22 PM

Moose, I am pulling for you!
Jump to new posts Re: You know you're getting older when ... by Bluedogone @ 11/25/14 10:30 PM

Your wife says, "Let's run upstairs and make love." And you say, "You'll have to choose which one, I can't do both.".....When you never buy green bananas.....When you sink your teeth in a steak and they stay there.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Where is the motivation? by OCN @ 11/25/14 08:18 PM

Thanks guys! I know it is a phase and that i need to do some extra work to get out of this. @NM: i really don't feel comfortable with anti-depressants. I have been selfmedicating myself for years with marihuana, but i don't want to get into a new ad
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: teacher abuse case costs LA $100 M+ by Nothing Man @ 11/25/14 05:22 PM

A certain famous comedian has been dogged for years of numerous allegations of sexual assault against young women. For some reason only now are people waking up to this string of charges of rape. Sometimes we cannot believe that a (insert your own
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts the silence continues. the children suffer. by victor-victim @ 11/25/14 01:43 PM

revealing documentary. survivors speak out. very upsetting and triggering. Trafficking of Children in the United States: Documentary Film The U.K. Political Pedophile Ring Scandal is Just The Tip of
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bathroom Challenge by Jay1946 @ 11/25/14 10:20 AM

Originally Posted By: Jed777I went to a conservative religious college. I was essentially shut down sexually as a result of a series of abuse experiences. I was able to pass as sexually abstinent in preparation for marriage, but I was an emotional an
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Al-Anon by catfish86 @ 11/25/14 09:54 AM

I am in AA. There is a symbiotic relationship. The founder of Al Anon was the wife of one of the founders of AA. I sat in on a couple of meetings and was surprised that Al Anon works almost verbatim the same 12 steps. There are several I know tha
Jump to new posts Re: starting a blog by traveler @ 11/25/14 08:44 AM

that does take courage. i commend you. my suggestion is to introduce yourself as you are today. let the reader get to know you. then maybe go back to the circumstances that let to your abuse history and tell the story from there on. another approac
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Don't Tell by Still @ 11/25/14 08:16 AM

Originally Posted By: sugarbabyHe's now stuck with his wife who is now (in her own little corner of the world) turned into the defender of male abuse victims. BUT - telling set him free. With or without me, for the rest of his life he is free. And
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