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Jump to new posts Re: Introduction by Austin54 @ 31 minutes 55 seconds ago

Thanks Jay, Lots of careful thought and meditation on the past... and looking forward to a better future. I really am convinced that bad or unbalanced relationships with ones parents are a root cause of SSA.. I know it was for me, especially if combi
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Jump to new posts "the gun is not guilty" by victor-victim @ Today at 03:36 AM

sad but trueOriginally Posted By: BluedogoneThat sounds like a plan Originally Posted By: victor-victimmaybe, we should just ban people. they are behind most of the problems in this world. That must be what the people who commit mass killings in sc
Jump to new posts Re: party animal by victor-victim @ Today at 02:58 AM

future looks bright / age of the technobeverage
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Justice??? ** Possible triggers** by kcinohio @ Today at 12:50 AM

Hey Izzy, Sounds like you're making a lot of progress that most guys in similar situations never get the chance to. Hope this proves helpful in the quest to thrive. You've certainly put in the effort to heal here.
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: The nurse in the night by focusedbody @ Yesterday at 10:26 PM

DolphinBoy: The fact that your memory of the event is so clear may help you in the long run with understanding how it made you feel. Although you may recognize what is stuck way back when, there is also the awareness that you now have of what healt
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: a second by Sterling @ Yesterday at 09:33 PM

I think I am attracted to this guy. don't know. I am pissed off about a few things. Why did he . I am so alone. I could tear him apart. I feel like him. this isn't making sense. . I was attracted. but. it might be my dad who is attracted.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: What my psychologist told me by sorryson @ Yesterday at 09:18 PM

I am so very sorry to hear your psychologist said such a stupid thing. You did not deserve to be told that. He should be thrown out of practicing. I know this is too common in the medical profession. A cousin who is a surgical nurse made a similar
Jump to new posts Re: My introduction. by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 07:33 PM

Hi bobafette999 and welcome, I'm glad you found this site, and I hope somehow your boyfriend will also find his way here. Although he may not know it now, he is fortunate to have someone who is loving, caring and concerned that he start on the long,
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: WHEN is it appropriate to tell som1 you like them? by Magellan @ Yesterday at 06:47 PM

Thanks, Dave. I appreciate the sentiment, but the hard facts are these: I've been living in San Francisco for the last 22 years. Gay mecca of the whole planet. Haven't met anyone. I'm just not capable. I'm really incredible dense when it comes to
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: From Here to Eternity? Property and the Dead Hand by Becoming Other @ Yesterday at 03:49 PM

1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys sexually molested within the family, far exceeding what is done by both institutions and strangers, and yet you very rarely hear about specific cases. No criminal prosecutions, no civil suits. It is the perfect crime, a
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: survivor curious sex with men - Trigger warning by banterings @ Yesterday at 03:41 PM

AHHHHHHH! YOU ARE A DOCTOR?!?!?!? Just kidding! Thank you for the clarification. Makes so much more sense. Did you look at my post Trans porn, bisexuality, crossdressing, surviving? What do you think about the idea that correlates the same g
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Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by Sterling @ Yesterday at 02:51 PM

i don't knkow . who my dad is. I feel like bilies dad and I don't want to know you billi so I fuck. off. thse and humiliate bilile and zoran and . I wont ever get to see yo. I hate your name I hate your family name and I wish to die , I hta
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Hey JayBro Thanks for posting the article. I've read and seen documentaries that explain what an investigation consists of with child porn. I would love to be of help along those lines but unfortunately I wouldn't be able to get through the first fe
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hi Guys by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 01:48 PM

Hey Cant Glad to hear from you again Peace, Rainbows, Love, Healing & Hope <3 XOXO Jeff
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: naked to doctor by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 01:42 PM

Hey Goran I know this is a little late for this examination but might be useful if there is to be another and for the public in general. About few years ago I had a big boil "down there" on my bottom. I first went to my family doctor an
Jump to new posts Re: Winhamness introduction - massive vent by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 01:13 PM

I'm so sorry to hear you're in so much pain right now. A divorce is one of those things that can seem just like the abuse all over again. But please remember you are not alone as you deal with this very sad time. The optimism you have about the new
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: stuck dont know where to go by banterings @ Yesterday at 10:17 AM

Mark954, A friend of mine was in the same situation. I was with him when he had his "eureka" moment. He said that when ever he deals with his abuse (tells others, thinks about, tries to resolve, etc.) that it is not him the grown man, but
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by lapchinj @ 05/03/15 11:54 PM

Hey NM I hope that next time never comes even into view. I see that you were in a catch-22 sort of merry-go-round. I would imagine that parents sometimes don't see the effect on a child when moving from one place to another. For them it probably was
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Heartfelt Apology by SmartShadow @ 05/03/15 08:59 PM

Thanks for the repair! Works for me. I was hoping you were ok. It sounded to me like you were having a really bad day. Good to see you taking control and responsibility. I am working on that as well. It was realy good of you to come back around on
Jump to new posts Re: fishing for feedback by victor-victim @ 05/03/15 08:23 PM

thank you for the encouraging words. you are kind man, monsieur manipulated. de votre part, c'est très gentil. may you find the strength to heal, the power to recover, the courage to express, and the freedom for success. danke liebe
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ 05/03/15 08:05 PM

X-RAYS - waiting for results
Male Survivors
I'm very sorry for what you experienced, and what you are going through now, is fairly typical for CSA survivors. If you remove the context - you were young, it was your brother, etc, what you are remembering is this - it felt good, and you enjoyed
Jump to new posts Re: MAY THE 1`ST by victor-victim @ 05/03/15 08:00 PM

May the 1st of our souls be satisfied. May the 1st be with You
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bad Night Upcoming Family Group Session by KMCINVA @ 05/03/15 07:35 PM

Paul Your brother, what a question but a very good one. Sadly many marriages have these issues of family over spouse, be it the husband or wife. Your mother probably did not realize her honesty would generate such a response. It is healthy it is o
Jump to new posts Re: Sleeping Death by bluesky @ 05/03/15 03:19 PM

Thank you for you kind caring words and I am glade that the poem resonated with you. As for the death part I looked at it as the time in my life where the pain was so great I that I buried it until the only thing left was one of two choices death or
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