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Jump to new posts Re: Growing Pains by Banjo596 @ 34 minutes 13 seconds ago

Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Me and a classmate by TW16 @ 57 minutes 54 seconds ago

Thanks guys. Since posting my last message on this subject, I have spoken with my classmate and we have decided to start over and take things slowly and not rush into a sexual relationship. Even though I want to have sex with him, I am still not 10
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 11:44 PM

Thanks NM Peace, Rainbows, Love, Healing & Hope <3 XOXO Jeff
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: does anyone suffer from paranoia? by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 11:42 PM

Yes I think it can come from CSA among other things. I was taken off the street for 2 days and raped by a bunch of men and then dumped someplace with a pocket full of change next to a telephone booth. I still can't walk on a street without being scar
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Pain by WontGiveUp @ Yesterday at 10:41 PM

HD, i I am happy to see you post here. I think about you all the time because reading about your story and your experiences hit home to me so much. You have been an inspiration to me even though you don't even know me. I too am focusing on myself and
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Question/s by Michgem @ Yesterday at 10:24 PM

I have been strong but still allow some of my emotions to show. I am actually staring over as far as being secure. I locked out what happened but the scars brought baggage with me in sexual addiction. In curring the porn and other sexual addiction
Jump to new posts Re: A quick introduction by woodenshoes @ Yesterday at 10:15 PM

Goodkiwi Im sorry for the need. I can tell you there are good resources here. They have saved me from the edge more than once. Talk to people and understand what your feeling. We all have histories but you have to remember we did not cause it. It
Jump to new posts Re: insecurities and bullies by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 08:12 PM

I'm glad it touched it you sorryson ... and hate that you understood it so well.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Physical and Psychological Conditions from CSA by sorryson @ Yesterday at 07:52 PM

That is great you are able to link these conditions to the CSA. I hope it helps you to be at peace and these "conditions" were not made up or a figment of someone's imagination. I believe trauma does strange things to our minds and in turn
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ Yesterday at 06:13 PM

I don't know how toe tell my dad that I love him. I don't know how to let it whatever ... I don't want them. Maybe running is ruining my life. If I could say .... ???? I just wish you had a dad, dad! I wish I could et. tell you that you are a
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Amy Chua, "Tiger Mother" by Becoming Other @ Yesterday at 05:37 PM 'TIGER BABY' STRIKES BACK: What It Was Like Growing Up With A Tiger Mom Read more: http://www.businessi
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: is this normal as a CSA survivor ? by Tryingtolive @ Yesterday at 04:02 PM

so confusing
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts A song to help with depression by Tryingtolive @ Yesterday at 04:01 PM Some of you might like it Here is the lyrics
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: surroundings by dark empathy @ Yesterday at 03:10 PM

Fucking eye fucking contact! can't do it and you don't exist. Fuck humanity and their stupid little rituals and judgements! Then again, you know what they say, prejudice is only human.
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by robwk1988 @ Yesterday at 02:54 PM

Welcome Todd, I just wanted to say how brave you are for posting and we're here for you. If you ever need to talk please feel free to talk to me. Take care bud.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Opinions Please by motmcd @ Yesterday at 12:44 PM

Thanks for replying, manipulated. I really appreciate the feedback on this one. I have been professional in every interaction I've engaged these past 20 years with my diocese; however this last interaction has changed my level of interests in being
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Used Porn as a release by Seekingwisdom @ Yesterday at 11:57 AM

You're a real man in that you have courage to face the porn demon and strength in your desire for change, be proud of yourself!! I have had this porn addiction for most my life and admitting my CSA from both male and female has shedded light on why
Jump to new posts Re: Hi! Id like to introduce myself. by RichNewman @ Yesterday at 09:37 AM

Thank you all so very much for this warm, warm welcome! Richard
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Funerals Put Life in Perspective by sorryson @ Yesterday at 06:07 AM

You are right. I guess it only happens when the time is right. I guess if my Dad had not died we may never had ended up here. My sister always said we needed help and our lives were not our lives, especially our brothers. She knew the impact Mama's
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Abuse as a child possibly linked to adult illness by GoodHope @ Yesterday at 05:45 AM
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Baby-Rape ****TRIGGER WARN**** by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:48 AM

this just saddens and sickens me. i get frustrated and furious. it is amazing that this girl got any kind of protection, and it gives me some small measure of restored faith to see there are people willing to fight to protect this children even
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Caring for yourself / Caring for him by HD001 @ Yesterday at 12:32 AM

A saying I like is "not my circus not my monkeys." It's good to be able to set aside to time to listen and be supportive, even give feedback if it's wanted. For me the hard part is leaving the conversation and not carrying the other person'
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Any suggestion??? by MYTIME @ 03/02/15 11:33 PM

I just want to say thank so much to all of you for your support and input. Its true than even though we are here due to different stories, the effects have a lot in common. I have read all the replies and it helps a lot to hear that things that I h
Jump to new posts Re: Looking to rebuild from my past. by Michgem @ 03/02/15 10:16 PM

Well it is a new week. Had an hour with my counselor. We started out asking how I would grade my self overall last week. I told him a D-. Then we started going over why I felt that way. Long story short he showed me that with all the screwed up
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: The Myth of Autism, by Sami Timimi by Becoming Other @ 03/02/15 06:08 PM

The myth of autism : medicalising men's and boys' social and emotional competence / Sami Timimi, Neil Gardner, and Brian McCabe Basingstoke, Hampshire [England] ; New York : Palgrave Macmillan, 2011 This book is actually quite challenging for me t
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