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Jump to new posts Re: symbiotogram by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:44 PM

Jump to new posts Re: Looking to rebuild from my past. by Michgem @ Yesterday at 09:09 PM

Thanks, makes sense. I found two meditations and both hit home. These two days are just that, two days. I need to stick to the plan agreed to on Monday. Even when things happen stress wise, right after another each one in it's self is just that.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Physical and Psychological Conditions from CSA by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 06:10 PM

By the way, I completed the letter to my doctor who treated me for the syncope. Off it goes tonight. I hope he responds because I would appreciate his insights into trauma, syncope and possibly the PVC's. I gave him an abridged version of the abus
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Pain by Mishka95673 @ Yesterday at 04:41 PM

HD, you have needs. Set aside the CSA for a moment, set aside the love for a moment, and ask yourself what your response would be if anyone else was not fulfilling your needs. If it was anyone else, how long would you continue to allow a situation wi
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Amy Chua, "Tiger Mother" by Becoming Other @ Yesterday at 04:40 PM

When it was just the Tiger Mother book, it sounded like the husband Jed didn't really stand with her and was doing things to mitigate her actions. Now with this new book, it is clear that Jed does indeed stand with her. Listening to him, he goes ri
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts vacillating emotions by iaccus @ Yesterday at 04:28 PM

The last two days I found myself with vacillating emotions. I seem to swing from intense joy and excitement to deep depression within hours. I am very excited about the prospect of my son returning home for the first time in two years this weekend. A
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Jump to new posts a busy life or a lousy life? by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:23 PM

i think it's both
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: my first support-oriented "video" by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 04:13 PM

Hey MarKK I've been trying to come up with a response but can't quite get it right. The videos sang to me ... even though there were no words. I couldn't relate to any of the violent parts ... thankfully it was not part of my experience, at least no
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Just got to dump. by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:05 PM

sending you my love and support. whatever you decide, you must protect your self at all times. yes, it is likely that this person is continuing to assault children. will your actions stop him? you don't know that. are you to blame if you do no
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Exercise Motivation Team by txb @ Yesterday at 03:30 PM

Last week didn't go so great, but somehow I gained 0.5kg, (about 1lb) so I was really happy with that! Things are massively stressful right now. I have 2 assignments due in the next couple of days, one I haven't even started yet, and most of my day
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: does anyone suffer from paranoia? by txb @ Yesterday at 03:17 PM

I just read this article about paranoia this morning. I have paranoia, but I don't think it's linked to CSA. I feel like I always had this. Mine is about being watched. People (I don't know
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: A song to help with depression by Tryingtolive @ Yesterday at 03:07 PM

No problem
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: DBT/Borderline Personality Disorder by txb @ Yesterday at 03:01 PM

I'm glad you are doing ok. I'm totally stressed and pushed for time right now but I wanted to respond to this because I have done DBT before. I really hated it! I suppose it was not for me. I mainly just wanted someone to listen to me and tell me s
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Abuse as a child possibly linked to adult illness by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 02:13 PM

Great read. I believe it is true. Abuse and trauma leaves the victim in a state of confusion and stress unless treated.
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by myrlin @ Yesterday at 11:27 AM

Toilet Man to the rescue! (Of what????)
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 08:47 AM

Keep talking, Goran. Letting it out is a good step toward healing. I wish you peace, healing and happiness. Mike
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Does This Ever Get You Annoyed? by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 08:44 AM

Abusers seem to come in all forms. That's why it is hard to trust anyone, at least for me.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Question/s by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 08:22 AM

Tanis, part of the problem I have experienced is that the emotions can be so overwhelming that dealing with them becomes a fearsome and daunting task that is better not done lest control be lost. It is easier to suppress the memories and maintain a
Jump to new posts Re: Growing Pains by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:43 AM

“The heart that breaks open can contain the whole universe.” ~ Joanna Macy love your poem. so few words. so many feelings. no wonder the heart hurts. it's ready to burst. so hard to contain all the joy and the pain in so small a verse.
Jump to new posts Re: A quick introduction by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:31 AM

dear GoodKiwi, welcome to MS.ORG. i really hope we can help you feel better. there is so much good information and references here. your story is indeed unlike others i have heard, although chloroform is likely a common trick out there. sad
Jump to new posts Re: Rabbit Hole Once More by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:09 AM

great poem, lionking. you made me feel everything. this is dedicated to you. i've been down there too! going down the rabbit hole. it's a bottomless pit. don't stain your soul with the slime and $#¡T. be careful down there. if you take the
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Me and a classmate by TW16 @ Yesterday at 03:43 AM

Thanks guys. Since posting my last message on this subject, I have spoken with my classmate and we have decided to start over and take things slowly and not rush into a sexual relationship. Even though I want to have sex with him, I am still not 10
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by lapchinj @ 03/03/15 11:44 PM

Thanks NM Peace, Rainbows, Love, Healing & Hope <3 XOXO Jeff
Jump to new posts Re: insecurities and bullies by Shyshark @ 03/03/15 08:12 PM

I'm glad it touched it you sorryson ... and hate that you understood it so well.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: is this normal as a CSA survivor ? by Tryingtolive @ 03/03/15 04:02 PM

so confusing
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