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Jump to new posts Re: Getting better by concerned_husky @ 49 minutes 29 seconds ago

I'm glad you're getting better. Originally Posted By: beyMaybe being angry is the same as being broken And being closed is the same as being hurt Gold, that.
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Jump to new posts Feel Good by victor-victim @ Today at 01:39 AM

this just makes me feel good. wanted to share something positive. even simon sez it feels good.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Trust by focusedbody @ Today at 12:04 AM

Magellan: One of the difficulties in relationships is when someone "demands" our trust instead of "earning" it. For a long time, I simply thought there was something wrong with me because I didn't trust very much. Then I would
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: This King's Speech by Chase Eric @ Today at 12:04 AM

Thank you, Still, for this fresh and positive story. It's not often I come here to smile. You managed to make me do that.
Jump to new posts Re: Needed to come back, need to continue to heal by woodenshoes @ Yesterday at 11:11 PM

Dolphinboy Welcome back brother. Ws
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: spiritual armour by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 10:30 PM

"his servant said unto him, Alas, my master! how shall we do? And he answered, 'Fear not: for they that be with us are more than they that be with them'. And Elisha prayed, and said, 'Lord, I pray thee, open his eyes, that he may see'. And the
Jump to new posts Joseph Campbell by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 10:03 PM

Just as anyone who listens to the muse will hear, you can write out of your own intention or out of inspiration.      ~ Joseph Campbell
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Does ssa feelings ever go away ? by don64 @ Yesterday at 08:48 PM

I have identified as gay for 46 years now, and am becoming open to the idea that that may not be all that is true for me. I'm fine with being gay, although becoming truly comfortable with being gay still requires work as social and cultural beliefs
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: 3 Little Pigs by unhappycamper @ Yesterday at 06:55 PM

Wow, things are really bubbling to the surface here in the DC area. But I try to remember: At least a news article means they caught the perv(s). John
Jump to new posts Re: Winhamness introduction - massive vent by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 06:53 PM

welcome to, Winhamness. my apologies... i thought i had posted this last time i was in here reading your introduction. i must have missed the submit button when i signed off, sorry. i forgot what i wrote so i will just start over. looki
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Cops Too? Yes! Cops too. by unhappycamper @ Yesterday at 06:52 PM

I see he worked at a high school from 2006 to 2009. Big surprise! I wonder if he had other jobs that put him in contact with teens or children. Oh well, another perv caught! John
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Stockholm syndrome? by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 06:43 PM

Hey Tryingtolive, My understanding of the Stockholm Syndrome is when the victim has a real or perceived fear for his life but slowly, gradually becomes so sympathetic to the perp and what he's doing that he becomes a willing accomplish. I think yo
Jump to new posts Re: The Real Me by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 06:26 PM

Fascinating. Thanks for letting us share it.
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Jump to new posts Re: gerard (jerry) drozda, aka starman77 by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 06:03 PM

Sorry for your loss. Thoughts are with you, his family and Gerard.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Anyone have the same issue? by Dolphinboy @ Yesterday at 06:03 PM

Just being in a conversation is difficult for me, I constantly worry that people will "see through me", so I rather don't speak when in a group. I have worked very hard on my self esteem issues, and my confidence has improved, although grou
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Lost years by Dave PNW @ Yesterday at 05:32 PM

Hard stuff facing our past and recognizing it could have been different. I think some of that is helpful as a part of understanding the depth and impact of the injury caused by the sexual abuse that was done to us. We need to understand the injury to
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Dealing with Loss by Dave PNW @ Yesterday at 05:09 PM

Obi, sorry you lost a friend. I know that bitter and disorienting and painful emptiness. And I know you might not want to hear this just now, but you will feel eventually that the good human connection you made with him, the bond you felt is worth th
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I need advice on stopping flashbacks by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 04:42 PM

I am sorry you are experiencing flashbacks. You mind is telling you it is time to process the past and the abuse. I know how disturbing and scary they can be. It is reliving something you for so long tried to forget. Letting the secret out is the fi
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Waging War on the Autistic Child by Obi @ Yesterday at 04:32 PM

The following is what you wrote. Psychotherapist and Social Workers are not a help. They just want to talk you down and turn you into an object of pity. This amounts to second rape. you have called a sex abuse survivor here on MS, blacken, an abu
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Standing Up for the Family Scapegoats, Trevor Todd by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 03:40 PM

I am also interested in your professional and medical qualifications to cast such judgments. I suspect there are none.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Living next door to my mother (abuser) by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 03:13 PM

Hey iaccus, All I can say is WOW. I brought my parents up from Florida about 7 years ago. I built an addition to my house so they could have their own private life but having my family to help if need be. My father was 100 years old this past April
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How abuse made me unable to accept I'm bisexual by don64 @ Yesterday at 11:39 AM

I am so glad to see this discussion. I have self-identified as gay for 46 years, and recently, after moving out some more old suppressed energy, have wondered if it is just as likely that I may have turned out straight or bi as gay had I not been ab
Jump to new posts Re: "Oh, no - not again!" TRIGGERS? by Obi @ Yesterday at 11:17 AM

Yes, I do have those moments. They become less and less with time from working on my recovery.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: DAD/SON Incest Sexual Fetish by Blessedcurse @ Yesterday at 09:27 AM

This is a really interesting thread. I think it's a good thing to start thinking about own sexual behaviour with an open mind. What is hurting me and what is healing? What do I have to reevaluate when getting to know myself better? To me it is impos
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Jump to new posts Re: Cleared My Schedule--It Was A Good Day by Landscape @ Yesterday at 08:30 AM

Sounds like a great day. Congratulations.
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