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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Fuck this world by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 06:09 AM

Originally Posted By: victor-victimi started by saving my self first! that was only the beginning. then i proceeded saving others.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: exhausted and agitated/anxious by Bardo @ 08/01/15 06:05 AM

Don, It is frankly difficult for me to imagine how you accomplished these tasks in the face of such terror. I have experienced that level of fear and I know how brave your actions were. No wonder you feel raw and exhausted now. I hope and pray that y
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: code words by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 05:59 AM

“Tricks and treachery are the Practice of Fools, that have not Wit enough to be honest.”      ~ Benjamin Franklin “Education is a progressive discovery of our own ignorance.”      ~ Willi
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Beat Sex by don64 @ 08/01/15 05:00 AM

Hi Strive 38/11, I was addicted to glory holes for decades. I finally seem to have worked through this addiction over the past 7-8 years. For me, it never had anything to do with intimacy, in that it never had anything to do with even being acquai
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Fuck this world by dark empathy @ 08/01/15 04:34 AM

The problem with that is that when you literally just have yourself because the collective has already condemned you, "saving yourself" can only go so far. After all, just because lots of other people managed some wonderful meditation and
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I feel like I cant breathe by Strive 38/11 @ 08/01/15 04:24 AM

Victor You make feeling warm inside. Love you
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Me and a classmate by Strive 38/11 @ 08/01/15 04:17 AM

Awesome that you have allowed compassion to yourself and to your your friend. May I suggest live and relish the journey of your feelings. This guu you are experiencing is normal and priceless to those who had it stole from them. The most important
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: exhausted and agitated/anxious by don64 @ 08/01/15 04:17 AM

Thanks, Bob. It's amazing how grounded I feel just reading your post. Feeling a connection in the midst all the anxiety and panic that seems like it may be around for awhile means a lot to me. Sending hugs back to you, too. Don
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Could use someone's input for these questions by dark empathy @ 08/01/15 04:15 AM

@Trying to live, A T is there to serve you! not the other way around, although some therapists don't see it that way. When it works, it's no different in theory from going to see aDoctor if something physically hurt, although unlike with a Doctor
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 04:08 AM

please don't feed the lions
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts One Central Book Resource Post by Strive 38/11 @ 08/01/15 04:06 AM

Hi everyone I'm looking to start another stage of my healing journey. PM me if you with your thoughts on one post with an up to date list of valuable resources.
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 03:48 AM

cowboy bucking a buck suicidal deer deer xxx-ing
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: Deer humor by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 03:36 AM

too funny. can you say "deer in the headlights" ??
Humor
Jump to new posts Deer humor by DavidM-LT @ 08/01/15 02:20 AM

This might not be new to many. But regardless, it's hysterically funny. www.youtube.com/watch?v=CI8UPHMzZm8
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Forgiveness by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 02:17 AM

Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different. ~ Iyanla Vanzant
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 01:51 AM

"The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: A human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him... a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Why Would Anyone Say A Victim is a Liar by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 01:42 AM

“The hardest thing to explain is the glaringly evident which everybody has decided not to see.” ~ Ayn Rand “Most men, including those at ease with problems of the greatest complexity, can seldom accept even the simplest and most obvious truth if it
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Fuck this world by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 01:40 AM

“You begin saving the world by saving one person at a time.” ~ Charles Bukowski so i started by saving my self first!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Beat Sex by victor-victim @ 08/01/15 01:37 AM

"A man who has not passed through the inferno of his passions has never overcome them. They then dwell in the house next door, and at any moment a flame may dart out and set fire to his own house. Whenever we give up, leave behind, and forget to
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts paranoia by Tryingtolive @ 08/01/15 12:01 AM

does it end ?
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: exhausted and agitated/anxious by gettingstronger @ 07/31/15 11:41 PM

Don, Bravo! Facing down these sensations snd choosing not to respond to them is just huge. And you're right-- it's anything but easy. I used to have the most terrible panic attacks regularly, in a variety of contexts, so I know exactly what that
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Could use someone's input for these questions by gettingstronger @ 07/31/15 11:30 PM

If I can weigh in, getting a T can be a good thing. I went through a couple before I found the right one, and she and I were doing well until she retired. Sigh. (My new one is great, btw.) Getting a T involved really is a huge step for taking con
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Could use someone's input for these questions by betrayed boy @ 07/31/15 11:20 PM

hi I was abused from about 6-8 in a foster home I think a competent T would be a huge help after u develop some type of trust, I was lucky I used my current T for couples and sex addiction b-4 so trust was built in already, she's experienced in
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: It gets better (Apple employees) by Strive 38/11 @ 07/31/15 11:19 PM

... --- ... Hope ... --- ...
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Bi married males of a peculiar sort by smc1972 @ 07/31/15 11:12 PM

Iaccus, I have been in a same sex relation before for 14 years which recently cam to an end. For me I did things with females and he never knew and I felt guilt. To me my whole sex life is just messed up. I feel for you and wish I had a simple answe
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