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Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Why do I find father figures attractive ... by Tryingtolive @ 05/20/15 12:39 PM

Typically any old guy who somewhat looks like my father .. I'm attracted to .... My relationship with my father has really never been good ... I don't find young males attractive... ... My question is could this be from my abuse or is this just me.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hello again by Tryingtolive @ 05/20/15 12:17 PM

Thank you all for your responses
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by lapchinj @ 05/20/15 09:55 AM

I just wanted to thank everyone here for their help with this car shit. I finally have the car and what I was afraid of is happening, I am at their mercy by taking the car. I initially brought my parents up here so I could help them in their elderly
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Not Quite Healed; Family Secrets by KMCINVA @ 05/20/15 08:22 AM

Thank you. I listened to part 1. It is nice when you have someone who is there to listen. At the beginning when the husband said what his wife said when he disclosed his abuse "I don't understand this...but I love you and I am with you" p
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Sitting here thinking by bluesky @ 05/20/15 08:06 AM

Dude If you want to rant that's fine but in truth I did not hear any only your pain and that is not ranting. You are saying Im in pain can someone recognize that and yes we do. The abuse that happed to you did not happen because you were messed up i
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Venting mostly, but how do I keep going? by Adaylight @ 05/20/15 06:59 AM

Hello, I have been in a very tumultuous on again/off again 7 year relationship with a man that is a survivor of child sexual abuse (abused by a man, but complicated by the fact that the mans girlfriend was always in close proximity when the abuse oc
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: radio program by GoodKiwi @ 05/20/15 06:03 AM

Iíve just started therapy. It's free through a menís group so I canít complain but heís not a CSA specialist and doesnít always Ďget ití. He would rather work forward from the present whereas Iím trying to make sense of the past. Weíve had some amazi
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: The Gatekeeper by victor-victim @ 05/20/15 04:16 AM

what did you just do to my mind? you started me out as a ragged bag of jagged pieces, dragged my bones through the twilight zone, and then you ended me on a high note and WHOLE tone. i am exhausted. empty. spent. from your trip i have returne
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Not Quite Healed; Family Secrets by victor-victim @ 05/20/15 04:03 AM

i like it. hope you like it, too. Authors Cecil Murphey www.cecilmurphey.com and Gary Roe www.garyroe.com explain how they found emotional healing from childhood sexual abuse and how a wife can come alongside her husband who's experienced si
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: The Gatekeeper by Judd @ 05/20/15 03:50 AM

Carrots
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When gay partners aren't on the same page by don64 @ 05/20/15 01:21 AM

Hi kc, That you are going back into counseling says very clearly that this is important to you. That, to me, is very healthy. Whether or not you tell your partner you are in therapy is your own call, in my opinion. And, I can see the wisdom in no
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Sitting here thinking by don64 @ 05/20/15 01:05 AM

Hi Dude, Ranting is VERY healthy. Never apologize for ranting here. Just my opinion. Sending you love and support, Don
Sexual Identity Issues
I just joined this site and this thread, as old as it is, has helped me tremendously.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When gay partners aren't on the same page by banterings @ 05/20/15 12:14 AM

kcinohio, it is a fair question to ask him his expectations of the relationship. I don't know each of your ages, but there may be a different perception among older people that the equality of marriage would never be reached and this is "the eq
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Sitting here thinking by banterings @ 05/20/15 12:09 AM

Dude, I hope that you are feeling better. Rant all you want!
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: Dream Expired by betrayed boy @ 05/20/15 12:02 AM

dam that was wild takes a set of brass ones for that, I been riding 45 years or so got pretty crazy on some back roads but nothing like that very cool vid.
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: Dream Expired by betrayed boy @ 05/20/15 12:02 AM

dam that was wild takes a set of brass ones for that, I been riding 45 years or so got pretty crazy on some back roads but nothing like that very cool vid.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts When gay partners aren't on the same page by kcinohio @ 05/19/15 11:32 PM

Currently in the best primary relationship I've ever had (and lengthiest). While my partner has made significant arrangements for the longer term with us together ongoing, we aren't exactly on the same page when it comes to the gay marriage thing. I'
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by victor-victim @ 05/19/15 10:27 PM

go go goran! 8 pages and still going. losing your baggage. nothing but garbage. dump the whole load. leave it all behind. empty out your mind. ahead lies the road.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: please welcome me back by victor-victim @ 05/19/15 10:24 PM

welcome to you too, Nomadic. hope you find some comfort here. good health to you.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Sitting here thinking by victor-victim @ 05/19/15 10:21 PM

Originally Posted By: DudeSorry for the rant never fear, we're here to hear. don't be sorry, Dude. rant until you can't! you're not being rude.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Sitting here thinking by Bluedogone @ 05/19/15 10:08 PM

Hey Dude, Rave on. There's no better place to vent than here. I suppose everyone here has vented at one time or another, will vent, or wants to vent. It's not so much we wallow in gloom and despair, it's just one of the many ways, we know so well,
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hello again by Dude @ 05/19/15 09:56 PM

I'm probably not in the right mood to respond but I feel that I have to. I have been in those shoes before. I still look back at where I was headed and where I am now and feel like I've screwed everything up. The 'if I would have' questions no longer
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Consent explained with a cup of tea by victor-victim @ 05/19/15 09:51 PM

History of R. v. E The Case The complainant, a 17-year-old woman, met Mr. E in the parking lot of an Edmonton mall while she was with a friend. The three had a brief conversation, in the course of which he indicated that he might be interested in
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Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by Sterling @ 05/19/15 09:45 PM

Darren my dad wants you! he wants to have sex. so now you can be special. go bozna go. I dnt don't want you g. to him. I don't want to know you. I wont ever like you. I never want sex. to toh have . o wont pnot if . I ma gay. you can
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