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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 04/16/15 01:38 PM

i cant thank you enough for these words. I am going thru fucking hell! okay. now I am wearing a tie. uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu. good gor for you G-man. yea. anyway. I want a job. I stay at home I was lying naked (sorry. I am very unattractive any
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Jump to new posts You are all amazing! by Still @ 04/16/15 01:37 PM

Dear F&F Folk, I have been reading of your pain, horror, sadness, grief, depression, angst...for many years now (but only when I can handle the risk and challenge). Without qualification, you are ALL amazing people regardless of your final deci
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Was porn part of the ritual of your abuse? by Still @ 04/16/15 12:55 PM

I didn't truly realize how much of a nuclear-grade trigger this is for me. I happened-back to read new posts. I'm nauseous and flashing those porn images from more than 40 years ago. I can Still see the kids' faces. Feeling total anger and disgust.
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Cops Too? Yes! Cops too. by Still @ 04/16/15 12:43 PM

Fairfax County police officer arrested for child pornography The police will protect us...right? LINK
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Jump to new posts 3 Little Pigs by Still @ 04/16/15 12:41 PM

Police: 9-year-old sexually assaulted by 3 men since 2010 Three Manassas men are behind bars and a... his child.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Dealing with Loss by Obi @ 04/16/15 12:31 PM

Thanks, guys. Appreciate it. visitation was last night and the funeral is today. I am unable to go because I don't have the money to make the trip out there. I am feeling really empty, sad and lost.
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Jump to new posts Nasty Pig! by Still @ 04/16/15 11:27 AM

Mom loses 5 kids over sex party with daughter's friends A 35-year-old Georgia mother has lost custody of her five children after being arrested for allegedly hosting a party for her teenage daughter and joining in the festivities, which featur
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Jump to new posts Re: Input requested - survivor curious sex with men by Mishka95673 @ 04/16/15 10:34 AM

Acorn and Esposa, Thank you both for your wise input. I was a little uncertain about the health of his desire to actually carry out the fantasy and a teeny bit uncertain about where to draw the boundary with his curiosity. Acorn, thank you for sugge
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There is tons of posts on this topic. You can do a search and see a bevy of info. Also, I would encourage you to post TRIGGER WARNING on posts like these so that people are prepared for the nature of the question. That said, I am with Acorn. Fant
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Lost years by takingitslow @ 04/16/15 09:44 AM

I'm nearly 27 been in recovery for about 4 years. The last 4 years I have made lots of progress but it is hard to measure, the progress is mainly the internal re-wiring of my thought process. I am still yet to achieve my goals of finding a suitable c
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Jump to new posts Re: Input requested - survivor curious sex with men by Acorn2Oak @ 04/16/15 09:28 AM

Hi Mishka, male CSA survivor here: first may I say I really value and respect you via your many wise posts on here. That said: On the one hand, fantasy is fantasy and perhaps worthwhile to contemplate and discuss as fantasy only. On the other, you
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: other spiritualities by Castle @ 04/16/15 09:28 AM

Originally Posted By: WalkingSouthReligion is the garbage of spirituality. Religion does great damage in most cases. Spirituality on the other hand is what I think you are recognizing within yourself, but it cannot be defined within the strictures
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Jump to new posts Re: Lost years by Acorn2Oak @ 04/16/15 09:11 AM

JScott, my comments may only echo others, but can definitely relate. Off and on, have spent much time regretting, grieving the loss of my childhood and wondering what might have been. I imagine that's normal under the circumstances and a worthwhile p
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Jump to new posts Input requested - survivor curious sex with men by Mishka95673 @ 04/16/15 08:55 AM

TRIGGER WARNING!!! Input requested from survivors and supporters. My survivor is Sagittarius like me - we love to explore new things. In talking about things to explore, he once again proposed a threesome last night, he and I and a second male. i c
Poetry
Jump to new posts Carl Cone - Hardened Heart by victor-victim @ 04/16/15 03:29 AM

The Hardened Heart Broken and battered Shell shocked and shattered Finding you nowhere when moments had mattered Chafed by its cage Engrossed with its rage Tumultuously tossed in its most brittle stage Dying to know Desperate to glow Beating a melod
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: THE END OF SSA-Easily Overcome by woodenshoes @ 04/15/15 11:02 PM

1lifenow I'm glad to see you follow what you feel. Some of us do struggle from what happen to us. We have to remember it doesn't define who we are inside. You have to be comfortable in your skin. All the best Ws
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Jump to new posts Re: Back For a Visit by woodenshoes @ 04/15/15 10:54 PM

Jude Good to hear there is life after abuse. Thank you. Ws
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: broken by Bluedogone @ 04/15/15 09:56 PM

Thank you tguy, The words by-pass my intellect, and go straight to my emotional core.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Dealing with Loss by Bluedogone @ 04/15/15 09:35 PM

Since I'm a little bit older than moose I can really understand your thoughts on this. I don't think it's a feeling of selfishness at all. Just a realization that anyone's passing is a very real part of life. And the fact that we just hate to give
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: broken by tguy @ 04/15/15 09:12 PM

thanx shyshark this one means alot to me
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: broken by Shyshark @ 04/15/15 08:42 PM

A heart breaking read ... filled with tragic imagery ... painfully beautiful.
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 07:52 PM

dear sterling, you should know... great job of letting it flow. turn the edit down to zero. pump the volume up to ten! if it feels good, do it again. caution: wear protective gear. here is toxic atmosphere. danger: it's a free thought zone.
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Last secret of the Holocaust: Child rape by victor-victim @ 04/15/15 07:29 PM

it is the worst form of opportunism. chaos and war as a distraction. camouflage for predatory pedophiles. adding insult to injury.
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Jump to new posts Re: Last secret of the Holocaust: Child rape by JayBro @ 04/15/15 06:51 PM

I remember reading about this in the autobiographical novel "Night" by Elie Weisel, however, as I recall he did call the abusers "homosexuals", perhaps being of the mindset at the time he wrote it that homosexuality and pedophilia
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Jump to new posts Re: Trying to calm down - he lied again by Mishka95673 @ 04/15/15 06:27 PM

Blog entry! So that is what a flashback feels like! How unpleasant. My poor man tried to say something teasing yesterday and in the past when he said "that", there were times when he was accidentally texting it to me rather than to some gi
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