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Jump to new posts Re: Feeling hysterical and out of control by don64 @ Today at 03:45 AM

Hi Acorn2Oak, I don't understand why people don't like puns atoll either. Makes no sense to me. I look forward to checking out calmclinic, and I do like tapping and have for years, I just forget about it. Thanks for the reminder and thanks for yo
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling hysterical and out of control by don64 @ Today at 03:40 AM

Hi Lee, You are right on target!. The choir and church are very healthy additions to my life, and I decided very quickly there was no way I would let them go from my life. I moved out of victim mentality by Monday morning. As my thinking cleared
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling hysterical and out of control by don64 @ Today at 03:11 AM

Hi Lostc, Thank you for your support and caring. That is always what is most helpful to me. I look forward to checking out moodgym. Thanks for being here for me. Don
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling hysterical and out of control by don64 @ Today at 03:07 AM

Hi Freeman, As is usual for me, my difficulties are always thinking difficulties, and rarely have anything to do with physical reality. As my thinking cleared up today I moved out of victim mentality and, thinking clearly, made two changes to my bu
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Angrey at myself for the past by smc1972 @ Today at 02:21 AM

Sorry to not have responed sooner to everyone's post. I appreciate the advice and support this is all still confusing and difficult for me. It is the conflicts inside that are the hardest and is what I struggle with. I will say now that I have used s
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by Bluedogone @ Today at 01:19 AM

Well said Mishka, very wise advice. If I had realized your last two posts were on their way to the forum I would have kept my thoughts to myself.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by Bluedogone @ Today at 12:58 AM

I think we'll have to take the same approach you suggested for you and AlexBoyd and we should not communicate on the board any longer. But I strongly disagree with a couple of your statements. "a lie is still a lie." Is quite an oversimp
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: In his best interest to know? by Mishka95673 @ Today at 12:27 AM

If a counselor is the same thing as a therapist, I would suggest that it is better for the therapist to manage the exploration and the associated timeline. I would also suggest it is better to face it now because it is likely to eventually emerge and
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by Mishka95673 @ Today at 12:21 AM

Alex and WGU, If I might offer a perspective. Alex, what you described with your parents is terrible. I can relate. My mother didn't work outside the home and my father gave her all the money he earned. When he wanted $5 for a ball cap, it was like
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Jump to new posts In his best interest to know? by Hope4better @ Today at 12:12 AM

I am afraid to share too many details, but here goes everything. A person cannot remember large blocks of childhood. We know around 9, he started a consensual sexual relationship with another 9-10 year old boy (he was on the receiving end), leaving h
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by Mishka95673 @ Today at 12:06 AM

Hi WGU, I see you are using this thread the same way I used mine..to vent emotions before taking a cold look at what is going on. Your 9:48 post is just venting...as a woman, I can read between the lines. Vent, dear friend...I will take all with a gr
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Universal Soldier by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:41 PM

Engaging and Disengaging Morality An important research in the area of psychology that can enrich our perspective on the relationship between morality and violence concerns the co-called moral disengagement. The neglect of moral conduct is wid
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Trying to calm down - he lied again by Mishka95673 @ Yesterday at 11:31 PM

Hey WGU, May of last year the account was so overdrawn and without deposits for so long I told him to stay the hell away from me, that I never wanted to hear from him again. I said horrible things to him, to make my point. I told him that I hated hi
Introductions
Jump to new posts Not sure if I should post here or friends & family by wfs3189 @ Yesterday at 11:06 PM

Let me tell you a little about myself and why I ended up here. I am a gay man 42 years old. I realized about a year ago that just about every relationship I've been in, as well as several that I pursued, were with men who were victims of CSA. I fir
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by BuffaloCO @ Yesterday at 11:02 PM

I am troubled that many in the Christian community reject those with our past. I've experienced it but I also know that Jesus was hurt by church people too. As he is a documented historical figure written about in the Roman records of the time, say
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Dissociating, wtf happened? by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 09:33 PM

Sven stop fighting it. I have learned the memories will not come back. Idrove myself crazy trying to remember. The doctors and T due to my degree of dissociation, fugues, told me to accept things may have happened but the memories are lost. Once I
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts is recovery possible by amcoffee @ Yesterday at 09:17 PM

Sorry about the negativity vent but... I've been a survivor for over 20 years. It's hard to put in to words how much of my life is recovery from PTSD. I sometimes try really hard to double and redouble the efforts of good habits and right minded e
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Great group of men by AlexBoyd @ Yesterday at 09:17 PM

Today has been a very emotional day for me. I finally wrote my story and posted it on the survivors' forum. Once it was posted I felt very vulnerable and exposed. The sincere expressions of support today from members have really moved me. I realiz
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: DAD/SON Incest Sexual Fetish by JayBro @ Yesterday at 09:07 PM

I am just discovering this post and WOW it is quite relevant to me. My abuse occurred all throughout my teen years (beginning at 13 or 14) with hundreds of men online who used me in child porn, and afterwards I experienced two rapes and other reall
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Anger and Emotions by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 09:00 PM

Paul I am sorry you are in such a tough place right now. I can tell you it is part of the healing process. I too was angry and I found myself angry at others who were doing to others what was done to me. I learned you can walk a horse to water but
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by newground @ Yesterday at 08:51 PM

my wife was the first person I ever told and it probably saved my marriage. I had hidden it for five years of marriage and there was so much she just didn't understand all the crazy and the hypervigelance and the rage so often over nothing...well t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by iaccus @ Yesterday at 08:50 PM

wow thats awesome Chase Eric
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: I am back.. 8 years later by wfs3189 @ Yesterday at 08:41 PM

I am sorry that you are in pain. I joined Al-Anon last September and it really helps people in our situations. You may need to let your brother stay in his prison until he lets you know he wants your help. It will be very hard but he's probably waiti
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by Chase Eric @ Yesterday at 08:23 PM

The first person I told was my best friend - we were best friends since we were ten and I trusted him more than anyone else. I could not say it, so I wrote it. I gave it to him and told him to find some quiet, undistracted time and read it. He wen
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Jump to new posts Re: Reality Check by Still @ Yesterday at 07:48 PM

we killed the gofundme campaign.
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