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Jump to new posts Re: Any success stories? by Mishka95673 @ 07/01/15 11:31 PM

Hey Target! As much as I know that currently John will lie to me about financial things, I also know for sure that he loves me, wants to be with me, and I don't have to worry about some other woman...he's faithful to me. He continues to make progres
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 11:30 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWZwIpvGQXw Vancouver 2010 Olympics Opening Ceremony "Every year around May, I start to get inundated with requests to perform "We Are More" for Canada Day. When I originally performed it f
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 10:27 PM

thanks, guys. as a native born canadian, i do not celebrate this date, but i do appreciate that you congratulate. we live on occupied land. but i do not hate. i prefer to educate. aboriginal nations of canada http://41.media
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 09:43 PM

Originally Posted By: Chase Eric We may be our brother's keeper, but we aren't his maker. amen, brother!
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 08:24 PM

Originally Posted By: KMCINVA There are many people out there who dismiss CSA and the effects it has on the victim/survivor. We do not need to fall into that camp by not supporting each other. this is so true. the paradox is that we need to beh
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by Chase Eric @ 07/01/15 08:13 PM

Worth repeating... Originally Posted By: KMCINVAThere are many people out there who dismiss CSA and the effects it has on the victim/survivor. We do not need to fall into that camp by not supporting each other. Perfectly said. Originally Posted By:
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by Sven @ 07/01/15 08:11 PM

To get back on topic.. Just a few cool articles http://www.mtv.com/news/2198321/stonewall-inn-rally-marriage-equality-signs/?xrs=s.fb_up_s.is http://www.upworthy.com/19-fantastic-reactions-to-gay-marriage-being-legalized-across-america?c=ufb1
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Jump to new posts Any success stories? by target687 @ 07/01/15 07:52 PM

I'm in the need for a success story. Of any kind...if anyone has one. Something positive. (I'm just daydreaming of a day that we will be good. Hard work and bumps yes, but the trust and him being happy for the most part sounds like a mexican vacati
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by Obi @ 07/01/15 07:20 PM

Sven, the post I made shouldn't have to be brought up at all because this site should be about supporting each other, lifting each other up. However, there are many instances of people cutting each other down. It shouldn't be happening but it is. h
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Jump to new posts Re: shame by Mark954 @ 07/01/15 06:58 PM

hey HDOO1 i just wanted to say that i see alot of wisdom and strength in ur post ..it's says alot about you .i genuinly think ur guy is very lucky to have you in his life..
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Relationships with women by dark empathy @ 07/01/15 06:30 PM

Oh God Gaat, I can't even answer at the moment. I've just spent five solid hours on the phone to L who phoned me, and we just completely got engrosed with each other, swapping thoughts, stories, everything! we went on so long sinse neither of us wan
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Jump to new posts Re: Undesirable trash by don64 @ 07/01/15 06:29 PM

Hi Magellan, I have been trying to teach myself for years, with varying degrees of success, that confusion is a very healthy process. It is a sign that my whole being is transitioning from a place that doesn't work for me to a place of new conclusi
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by Sven @ 07/01/15 06:06 PM

I'm not sure why this thread has to be used to vent about that, but oh well.
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Jump to new posts Re: shame by target687 @ 07/01/15 05:36 PM

I can relate SITM. I noticed I used to compare way too much. My friends were married and had doting husbands, and literally no issues. I mean their problems seemed average and how to deal with every day life. Not trust, and the things I was havin
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Judith - thanks for all of the info! Also I really got a little relief out of the statement that for some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography...etc etc. Everything you've bull
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by Sven @ 07/01/15 05:14 PM

woohoo!
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Jump to new posts Happy Canada Day by Jwmcd2 @ 07/01/15 05:13 PM

To all our Canadian Brothers!
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Apologies for the insanely delayed responses! I'll start with Mishka Just in case I offended you or your relationship in ANY way; I am sorry. My questions that may have seemed accusatory were merely out of trying to learn and explore different aspec
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by Obi @ 07/01/15 04:48 PM

Sven, yes, everyone here has their issues, but that is no excuse to make others here feel like crap, tear them down and so on. Differences of opinions can be discussed without cutting each other down. this is a site for support. let me say it agai
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Jump to new posts Re: Equality by KMCINVA @ 07/01/15 04:44 PM

I strongly believe we all need to support each other. How we react,feel and respond to the abuse will be different for each of us. We need open our hearts that someone is in pain and reacting the only way they know how. There are many people out th
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Jump to new posts Re: Relationships with women by gaatt @ 07/01/15 04:39 PM

Hi Dark Empathy, I hear you and I hear that it is difficult. I don't have any ready made answers and I can't really give any clues as to how to be close to a woman. That department isn't working well for me either. I choose to ignore it and move on
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Jump to new posts Re: Enabling/supporting by target687 @ 07/01/15 04:30 PM

Ah, this has taken me SO long to get back to! I wanted the time to "think" and respond without feeling rushed. Yes, dog situation-I am able to set that aside. But we both are stuck in some sadness from it, naturally. Wow, how a week goe
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Equality by Sven @ 07/01/15 04:28 PM

Yeh. Everyone here has issues. It's bound to get nasty sometimes. I guess I try to look past that and figure out wich people I do have a connection with. Chat changes all the time as well, as regulars change... But I'm glad to have this site.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: low points by iaccus @ 07/01/15 03:33 PM

((Bey)) thank you for being who you are, you convey hope and strength to us even when you are down. you can beat this!
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Wow. Haven't been on MS in what feels like a week due to busy life and catching up getting in the way. Today, I hit a funk. I hopped on here, and saw this. Tears are streaming down my face now, as this post and it's responses reminded me of so muc
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