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Introductions
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i really hope you find good results here. important message: you are not worthless. i repeat... YOU are not worthless. but don't just take my word for it... let's get a second opinion... you are NOT worthless.
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Male Survivors
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I read your anger as I am about to post to another thread how I can't seem to get in touch with my own. My offender didn't stop at dry humps - he went whole hog with me. And my younger sister, too - along with several other girls. Yet I can't find
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Male Survivors
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excellent self analysis. have you tried using left/right hand writing letters to yourself. i find the left hand has a mind of it's own. certainly not the the same output as the right hand, which is my write hand.
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Male Survivors
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indulge, engage, a surge of rage. it always feels good to get it out. unless you smashed your keyboard or computer during the outburst, i would say you did it the right way. congratulations on a successful rant. thanks for sharing it here in
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Progress Forum
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after a particularily unlucky moving day, involving being rear-ended by a big truck with a van full of family, paint, and tools... spending the rest of the day in the hospital... spending the next few months on the couch in pain... i am back to work
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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(((((Jeff))))) I agree with Eric, Glad you are here. Geoff
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Male Survivors
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takingitslow, Yeah...I have had intrusive thoughts of CSA come at me before. In years gone by, I would have said, "before therapy" but the truth is that I began therapy when I was still very young. I was 16 or so when My mom and dad foun
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Male Survivors
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Yeah I use it all the time. Kind of like a stop technique they tell you in therapy but I use it for the same thing pretty much and for other reasons which I replied to your email lifes a dream. Hopefully thats a little more in depth about whats going
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U.S. & World News
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very disturbing. one person can cause so much damage. all it takes is a little evil and a lot of incompetence. dangerous mix. thanks for keeping me informed.
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Sexual Identity Issues
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http://www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/television/2013/05/17/two-stories-rising-above-down-low Great review of upcoming biopic about two young black men working thru sexual identity. From the article : When we meet Coke, he's living in his moth
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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Originally Posted By: BraveFalcon Megadeth, My Darkest Hour.
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Family and Friends
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Thank you, Esposa. I have been reading a bit, and it has helped me out a lot!
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Introductions
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DolphinsFan76, Welcome!! I'm new too. Good luck on your journey and I hope our paths cross again.
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Male Survivors
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Yesterday's victories will not carry you through today. Neither should yesterday's defeats dominate tomorrow.
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Introductions
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Hi all, I just wanted to say I'm so thankful for joining a community of fellow survivors. I am trying to figure this all out 25 years after my abuse's occurred. It definitely hasn't been easy thus far, and I'm thankful that I can now find my voice a
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Introductions
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I just want to say welcome. I am a new member myself. I am just starting my journey of healing and hope the best for you as well!
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Male Survivors
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No. I knew about It long enough and hid the truth from young enough that it sort of never sunk into me that hiding the truth is actually bad. And that's not even with taking into account the denial and self-deception and externalized feigned homoph
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Poetry
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by Life's A Dream
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Male Survivors
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Similiar memories here LAD, I think you know what you were crying about. It was well written and you explained yourself very well. Go easy on yourself man.
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Male Survivors
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Goddamn I really, really hate myself for writing all of that out. I don't know why the fuck I'm even on this site.
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Male Survivors
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I sat on the stairs, at 7 years old, with my cassette player, alone, all by myself, made sure no one else was around, singing along to a Righteous Brothers tape- singing "Unchained Melody" to.... my own father. To me it was a love song abou
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U.S. & World News
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Mercury News story today about Ayres pleading guilty to 8 felony counts. But he's out free until sentencing August 6. Many of his victims have committed suicide since the first phone call was made to police in 2002. I wish they had been here to se
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Male Survivors
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I'm so pissed off right now. As I mentioned in a previous post I'm sort of in love/ infatuated with a room mate. I havent acted out on yet we flirt but I haven't told her. So I'm lying in bed can't get her out of my head as I'm just love struck thin
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Male Survivors
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So, how is it all of you continuous rememberers have this trait that you couldn't wait to grow up, but the two of us on here who have no memories of abuse have the exact opposite trait: we were in perpetual mourning for our childhood as we watched it
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Male Survivors
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When I was young, I couldn't wait to grow up. At the age of four, I asked my mom, when would I stop being called a little boy and be called a boy? When would I be called a big boy? That attitude continued. When I was in elementary school, I couldn'
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