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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: What's Really Important!!!! by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 04:32 PM

Kind of sums it up a bit.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Stay Focused by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:29 PM

excellent. thanks.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Stay Focused by nltsaved @ Yesterday at 04:24 PM

I will be uploading more later All the sermons in one place
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: cant shake off feeling like a fraud by Bardo @ Yesterday at 04:24 PM

Here's how bad it is: I was chatting with a fellow MS member early this morning, and we were talking about this sense of guilt/fraud about our abuse. I was 11 when mine occurred, so yeah you can see how I might feel involved (although we know its not
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Thank you brothers... by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 04:09 PM

Damn ... sorry sunwolf ... That was supposed to be preceded by my telling you how much I liked your poem. It's great.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:07 PM

when i was not a christian, christians never bothered me. since i became a christian, i have lost all my former associates. some think i have lost my mind, others just feel uncomfortable about it. friendly fellowship has been difficult to find. l
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Does This Ever Get You Annoyed? by little big man @ Yesterday at 04:07 PM

I have a freind who , when I told her my mother and grandmothers molested me, she went right away to kindness and understanding for my abusers. If I had said a man raped me they would have hate not kindness for the abusers. I was forgotten. Minimized
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: cant shake off feeling like a fraud by PMGNT @ Yesterday at 03:58 PM

I like the way you describe the feeling of being a fraud -- well said. I feel it too, but when I read other people's descriptions, like yours, I immediately think "Well that's not a fraud!" I don't understand. Maybe the problem is that as
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Is there a God? by little big man @ Yesterday at 03:56 PM

I enjoy meditating and keeping my mind silent
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Where is God in the Midst of the Suffering? by little big man @ Yesterday at 03:55 PM

Buddhism's eightfold path is the way out of suffering as it says in the four noble truths. If your thinking makes you suffer this path teches you how to do something about it. All suffering begines btween the ears. How we think, stories we make. wha
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by little big man @ Yesterday at 03:50 PM

I too don't handle authority to well. I get scared. Thats why I cant go to college right now. The adminitraion is a big authority figure to me. I get scared. I don't handle been vunerable well.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Thank you brothers... by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 03:49 PM

We are legion. We walk the same road ... but not always together ... not always shoulder to shoulder ... hand in hand. There are always those who come behind us ... and those who follow them ... a never ending line. Those at the front wear down the
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by little big man @ Yesterday at 03:48 PM

I like Buddhism also becuase I dont need to go th a church. Two kinds of power self power and other power. There is no authority or someone to pray to.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by little big man @ Yesterday at 03:46 PM

Sorry. yeah in Buddhism we say there are 85,000 paths to enlightenment. Whatever works for one. Me I needed meditation and the teachings about my thinking. I like Buddhism becuase we are not supoposed to run down other religions, you can be a buddhis
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Not any female...my Mom...and my attraction by PMGNT @ Yesterday at 03:46 PM

My mother was my problem, as well. I don't remember her as attractive, but I remember all the men who said she was. They'd be envious of me, because I was close to her so often, as if a woman's attractiveness was still a big plus in the case of the s
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by little big man @ Yesterday at 03:42 PM

Did you ever consider how much Christians hate and insult people of non god religions also.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Legacy by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 03:26 PM

you have given me some heavy thoughts. i am now wondering how much of my actions and efforts to publish my works has been a subconscious effort to rewrite my public image as "victim". no matter what i have done, no matter how much fame
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Normal by vrocotamy @ Yesterday at 03:20 PM

Not in general, but I am still occasionally made uncomfortable by the rhetoric surrounding gay men, male-male sex, etc. on these forums. It's less when people talk about their own experiences with confusion around sexual identity, than when people in
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prejudice towards non christians by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:57 PM

i never realized how much christians are disliked until i became one. all the same, i have not had much success in meeting christians that i can really relate to, since i became one. there are a few, but not enough. as you say, many of them are
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Of Billows The Spiteful by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 02:53 PM

Very evocative ... May I make a point? He never gets all you have ... and he will never finish you off.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Where is God in the Midst of the Suffering? by Serious Dave @ Yesterday at 02:45 PM

Hi Coach, I am rather new. Nice to make your acquaintance, circumstances excepted. Sorry to pile on, but I don't think God ever abandons us. "I will never leave you nor forsake you." I do think we FEEL that way at times, though. I lik
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: OH storm wind by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 02:44 PM

You didn't need to do that ... but it is a bit more clear. Sometimes it's good to have to read something more than once. If the piece doesn't challenge you to some degree the reader simply assumes that he gets it ... but he often doesn't get it all.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: OH storm wind by bluesky @ Yesterday at 02:32 PM

Thanks Sharky I whent over it and fixed it up I wrote it a 2 AM. Bluesky
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Is there a God? by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:26 PM

i enjoy praying and worshipping.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Legacy by toddop @ Yesterday at 02:13 PM

I have been thinking a lot about the child pornography aspects of my abuse lately. And I had a dawning realization today that the images and videos of my abuse will very likely exist in this world long after I have physically died. That these visua
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