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I love south park I prefer the older ones though. My fav episode is hooked on monkey phonics season 3. That opening 3 minute sequence always has me in stitches even though it probably isn't lmfao funny. Starving marvin season 1 is another classic one
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I haven't broke anything in rage for a while. The last time was a year ago (within 5 months of recovery)when I ripped up loads of clothes my perp had paid for over the years. I no longer have any clothes which he bought. I don't rip my clothes up whi
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before killing joke, before black sabbath, way back even before the ventures... my number one favourite band was... i loved this show.
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Hey, great thread! How'd I miss this before? Everything below is pre-CSA, and a great distraction from the problems with my parents. D.C. Comic Books Superman, Lois Lane, Jimmy OlsenSuperboy, Lana Lang, Ma & Pa KentThe FlashThe Green LanternAqua
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Originally Posted By: si How is a seven year old supposed to deal with those feelings? How is a four year old supposed to know how to handle a sexual relationship? This truly is the lowest point of my life. There is no way that child can handle whi
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Just because you don't see anything happening, doesn't mean that God isn't working.
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When you feel like you're drowning in life, don't worry. Your lifeguard walks on water.
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Originally Posted By: siIt is a low point in my life because I'm set to graduate college next year without any debt at all. I interned at the Attorney General's office in my freshman year of college. I'm a role model to my siblings, and will be the f
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you gotta love this.
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The last time it happened was the lowest point in my life. I can't even call it abuse. He was moving onto someone else, and leaving me behind. After roughly two years, I didn't want him to leave. I was an outcast among my other peers because of what
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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Hey all, Been awhile since I've been on but one thing I noticed recently it's that men i am ok around but women, well they scare the hell out of me. The only female I am actually comfortable, excluding family cause them I'm comfortable around them,
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Male Survivors
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You triggered me victor: Cap'n Crunch Stepmother's french toast Dad squeezing orange juice (I just found the original Silex juicer on eBay!) Lost in Space Voyage to the Bottom of the Sea The Man from U.N.C.L.E. The smell of the campfire in my
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Joe: Your story is sad and clearly told. I am glad that you have found this place to speak about what happened. It can be difficult to find people who understand the effect on young boys of these experiences. At first, it just doesn't seem like it
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Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
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Jaifian, it's good to hear that you do well most of the time. I appreciate the phrase "riding them out" concerning the flashbacks. I am still learning how to do that. Unfortunately, those flashbacks seem to sneak in and drag us back
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Family and Friends
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Thank you for all of your responses. I am really glad that I found this site. A little update. Husband is UTTERLY calm. He basically doesn't want to talk about it anymore but he answers some of my questions which I have a million of them...but I did
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Male Survivors
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you know what i used to really love? cereal. cereal with a story. cereal with a theme. cereal with a song. cereal with a cool mascot. cereal with a great commercial ad campaign. cereal with trademark shape, bright color, artificial flavou
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: takingitslowSo I'm lying in bed can't get her out of my head as I'm just love struck thinking about her what it would be like to lie next to her in bed. And then within a couple minutes of picturing her face and long black hair
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Dear DavoSwim, thanks for reminding me about one of my few happy childhood memories. of course it has to do with television. i was a huge apollo 11 fan. watching the moon landing was a pivotal moment of joy and wonder. bought the toys, flag
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Introductions
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Welcome Kyrob, You are in good company here. We are men in all shapes and sizes, all walks of life, all ages, all orientations, and from several different countires. But the one thing that unites us is our childhood experiences, and how that affecte
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Male Survivors
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i am really uncomfortable with hugs. i do the hug where and when expected. to avoid looking uncomfortable, i end up feeling uncomfortable. with females it feels fake, or sexual. always inappropriate. don't like the smell (perfume, hairspray, b
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Originally Posted By: DolphinsFan76I am trying to figure this all out 25 years after my abuse's occurred. Welcome Dolphinsfan, Many of us waited years before we had the strength, and perhaps desperation, to disclose our childhood sexual abuse. You
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Welcome kyrobo07, we had different stories but mine is similar to your in some ways. Even though everyone's story is different, we have shared hurts and can help each other. Here you can find support, and healing is possible. Welcome Brother!
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: cant_remember That victim advocate letter is from what year? I think it's 1988. It's not in front of me right now. It was only a few years after I remembered it. Puffer
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Male Survivors
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Well done victor! Hugs ARE more intimate and difficult than porn, you're right. Hugs indicate that we can become vulnerable to someone we trust. Porn does not ask for that. Hugs can mean we want to reach out and support another, porn does not care ab
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i feel so much the same as you, puffer.
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