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Jump to new posts Re: South Park by takingitslow @ 05/18/13 03:58 AM

I love south park I prefer the older ones though. My fav episode is hooked on monkey phonics season 3. That opening 3 minute sequence always has me in stitches even though it probably isn't lmfao funny. Starving marvin season 1 is another classic one
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Jump to new posts Re: mega triggers and bad language- torment + rant by takingitslow @ 05/18/13 03:15 AM

I haven't broke anything in rage for a while. The last time was a year ago (within 5 months of recovery)when I ripped up loads of clothes my perp had paid for over the years. I no longer have any clothes which he bought. I don't rip my clothes up whi
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Jump to new posts Re: Things kids enjoy. by victor-victim @ 05/18/13 03:06 AM

before killing joke, before black sabbath, way back even before the ventures... my number one favourite band was... i loved this show.
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Jump to new posts Re: Things kids enjoy. by Jude @ 05/18/13 02:31 AM

Hey, great thread! How'd I miss this before? Everything below is pre-CSA, and a great distraction from the problems with my parents. D.C. Comic Books Superman, Lois Lane, Jimmy OlsenSuperboy, Lana Lang, Ma & Pa KentThe FlashThe Green LanternAqua
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Jump to new posts Re: Lowest point of my life -Triggers- by peroperic2009 @ 05/18/13 02:22 AM

Originally Posted By: si How is a seven year old supposed to deal with those feelings? How is a four year old supposed to know how to handle a sexual relationship? This truly is the lowest point of my life. There is no way that child can handle whi
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by toysoldier @ 05/18/13 02:17 AM

Just because you don't see anything happening, doesn't mean that God isn't working.
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Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by toysoldier @ 05/18/13 02:11 AM

When you feel like you're drowning in life, don't worry. Your lifeguard walks on water.
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Jump to new posts Re: Lowest point of my life -Triggers- by Jude @ 05/18/13 01:38 AM

Originally Posted By: siIt is a low point in my life because I'm set to graduate college next year without any debt at all. I interned at the Attorney General's office in my freshman year of college. I'm a role model to my siblings, and will be the f
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Jump to new posts Re: Songs that make me feel good by victor-victim @ 05/18/13 12:56 AM

you gotta love this.
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Jump to new posts Lowest point of my life -Triggers- by si @ 05/18/13 12:55 AM

The last time it happened was the lowest point in my life. I can't even call it abuse. He was moving onto someone else, and leaving me behind. After roughly two years, I didn't want him to leave. I was an outcast among my other peers because of what
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts female trust issues still by Aries1984 @ 05/17/13 11:35 PM

Hey all, Been awhile since I've been on but one thing I noticed recently it's that men i am ok around but women, well they scare the hell out of me. The only female I am actually comfortable, excluding family cause them I'm comfortable around them,
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Things kids enjoy. by Lancer @ 05/17/13 11:23 PM

You triggered me victor: Cap'n Crunch Stepmother's french toast Dad squeezing orange juice (I just found the original Silex juicer on eBay!) Lost in Space Voyage to the Bottom of the Sea The Man from U.N.C.L.E. The smell of the campfire in my
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Jump to new posts Re: My experience dealing with it by focusedbody @ 05/17/13 11:18 PM

Joe: Your story is sad and clearly told. I am glad that you have found this place to speak about what happened. It can be difficult to find people who understand the effect on young boys of these experiences. At first, it just doesn't seem like it
Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
Jump to new posts Re: war stories by ThisMan @ 05/17/13 10:24 PM

Jaifian, it's good to hear that you do well most of the time. I appreciate the phrase "riding them out" concerning the flashbacks. I am still learning how to do that. Unfortunately, those flashbacks seem to sneak in and drag us back
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Thank you for all of your responses. I am really glad that I found this site. A little update. Husband is UTTERLY calm. He basically doesn't want to talk about it anymore but he answers some of my questions which I have a million of them...but I did
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Jump to new posts Re: Things kids enjoy. by victor-victim @ 05/17/13 10:00 PM

you know what i used to really love? cereal. cereal with a story. cereal with a theme. cereal with a song. cereal with a cool mascot. cereal with a great commercial ad campaign. cereal with trademark shape, bright color, artificial flavou
Male Survivors
Originally Posted By: takingitslowSo I'm lying in bed can't get her out of my head as I'm just love struck thinking about her what it would be like to lie next to her in bed. And then within a couple minutes of picturing her face and long black hair
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Jump to new posts Re: Favorite childhood stories by victor-victim @ 05/17/13 09:52 PM

Dear DavoSwim, thanks for reminding me about one of my few happy childhood memories. of course it has to do with television. i was a huge apollo 11 fan. watching the moon landing was a pivotal moment of joy and wonder. bought the toys, flag
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Jump to new posts Re: New member by Jude @ 05/17/13 09:37 PM

Welcome Kyrob, You are in good company here. We are men in all shapes and sizes, all walks of life, all ages, all orientations, and from several different countires. But the one thing that unites us is our childhood experiences, and how that affecte
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Jump to new posts Re: Hugs versus porn by victor-victim @ 05/17/13 09:37 PM

i am really uncomfortable with hugs. i do the hug where and when expected. to avoid looking uncomfortable, i end up feeling uncomfortable. with females it feels fake, or sexual. always inappropriate. don't like the smell (perfume, hairspray, b
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Jump to new posts Re: New Member by Jude @ 05/17/13 09:35 PM

Originally Posted By: DolphinsFan76I am trying to figure this all out 25 years after my abuse's occurred. Welcome Dolphinsfan, Many of us waited years before we had the strength, and perhaps desperation, to disclose our childhood sexual abuse. You
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Jump to new posts Re: New member by BuffaloCO @ 05/17/13 09:32 PM

Welcome kyrobo07, we had different stories but mine is similar to your in some ways. Even though everyone's story is different, we have shared hurts and can help each other. Here you can find support, and healing is possible. Welcome Brother!
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Jump to new posts Re: Johnny Gosch doc on MSNBC by pufferfish @ 05/17/13 09:25 PM

Originally Posted By: cant_remember That victim advocate letter is from what year? I think it's 1988. It's not in front of me right now. It was only a few years after I remembered it. Puffer
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Jump to new posts Re: Hugs versus porn by SamV @ 05/17/13 09:12 PM

Well done victor! Hugs ARE more intimate and difficult than porn, you're right. Hugs indicate that we can become vulnerable to someone we trust. Porn does not ask for that. Hugs can mean we want to reach out and support another, porn does not care ab
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Jump to new posts Re: Johnny Gosch doc on MSNBC by victor-victim @ 05/17/13 08:52 PM

i feel so much the same as you, puffer.
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