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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Old dog,new trick by justplainme @ 05/24/15 06:56 PM

Great insight Nothing man. Thank you.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Interesting quick article...kids/sleepovers by target687 @ 05/24/15 06:12 PM

So sorry to hear about that Mischka. Esposa - I was the same as your kids. Preffering to be at home. And yes, I think it's so important for kids to understand all of this stuff that goes on in this world (obviously not to the extent an adult kno
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Jump to new posts Re: A hero of mine by Sven @ 05/24/15 05:51 PM

car crash i heard
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: trauma trauma by victor-victim @ 05/24/15 04:42 PM

sleepwrestling nocturnal sports. i love your style, bey. always a pleasure to read your writes.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ 05/24/15 04:07 PM

i am worried and frightened. surgery scares me. irrationally. statistically. i have a mortal fear and physical revulsion regarding sharp objects penetrating my flesh. it does not matter that the intentions are good. i do not like edges or poin
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: God forgiving my perps by victor-victim @ 05/24/15 03:41 PM

dear tbkkfile, i was working on an answer, but others have done that for me. thank you, nltsaved and still, for putting my thoughts into words. i think the same way, more or less. my story of forgiveness is here for all to read. it is full of
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Take Back My Image by BuffaloCO @ 05/24/15 02:45 PM

Thanks and I totally understand. Maybe start with your image of who you are now, today, one who survived even through "they" maybe hoped you would not. Today you are working on moving forward, one step at a time. That already means you
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Duggars and the minimization of Incest & Abuse by Chase Eric @ 05/24/15 02:05 PM

The entire Huckabee FaceBook post was about circling the wagons around Josh Duggar. His victims were only mentioned in the context of how that defined Josh and what Josh had to overcome. My spirit just deflates to read comments from those - many of
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by lapchinj @ 05/24/15 01:03 PM

The car is a catch 22 type of situation, damned if I do and damned if I don't. I have to mention that my father never hit me and as a matter of fact I've been trying to think of a time where he yelled at me but nothing pops up. I know that he was ne
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: God forgiving my perps by Still @ 05/24/15 01:01 PM

Originally Posted By: tbkkfileMatthew 6:14-15 14 For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you 15 But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. So the onus is on me a
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Healing Circle - Cancelled Sun, May 24 by Anomalous @ 05/24/15 12:43 PM

Hi Guys, The Healing Circle is cancelled for this evening, Sunday, May 24, 2015. Anomalous
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Duggars and the minimization of Incest & Abuse by Ever-fixed Mark @ 05/24/15 12:32 PM

Hey Jude, It's been bothering me that the focus isn't on the survivors of the abuse, but at this stage they haven't been identified (one going so far as to have a judge expunge the police report with their identifying information) so it's hard to as
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Take Back My Image by lapchinj @ 05/24/15 11:43 AM

Hey BuffaloCO This last post of yours shows a lot of hard work on your healing in order to get to a point where you weren't triggered making that video. I love the way you worded it, this is a really huge step in your life. You shine with optimism w
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Jump to new posts A hero of mine by Still @ 05/24/15 10:30 AM

U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: My oped in reply to Louis CK monologue by Still @ 05/24/15 10:27 AM

Does anyone here have the contacts and industry swag to get a sit-down with Mr. CK? Chris Anderson would be most diplomatic and constructive in setting a right-course.
Family and Friends
Good article
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feelings of guilt and shame by iaccus @ 05/24/15 10:24 AM

I am with you brother!
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Great article strengthening couple's relationship by Mishka95673 @ 05/24/15 09:34 AM

http://www.getrelationshipsright.com/tryingagain/
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Husky's Piano Lounge by bey @ 05/24/15 09:34 AM

Beautiful (and I kind of like the sound quality!)
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Take Back My Image by BuffaloCO @ 05/24/15 09:21 AM

Sorry but that would not be possible. Someday maybe, I'll make one that I could share here. Thing is though, recording that I did not trigger even once. We can take back our image because it never belonged to them in the first place. Healing is p
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Old dog,new trick by Nothing Man @ 05/24/15 09:20 AM

This sounds a lot like the 12th step of AA, bringing the possibility of sobriety to those alcoholics who are still drinking. Bringing the news that healing is possible to those survivors of CSA not only helps them but also is therapeutic to the brin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Old dog,new trick by justplainme @ 05/24/15 08:22 AM

Sometimes it feels after recovery that you end up right you were before, a great part of leaving pain behind comes from outgrowing your problems, not in a chronological type of way, but the way you would clothes that don't fit, you just don't fit int
Poetry
Jump to new posts trauma trauma by bey @ 05/24/15 08:10 AM

We fall asleep backs to each other Perched on either edge of the bed Curled around our traumas We push and push against them Until they are small enough to fit in our mouths We each fall asleep with our trauma Tucked in our cheeks Poking it with our
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feelings of guilt and shame by manipulated @ 05/24/15 07:46 AM

After waking up recently hearing my perpetrator's voice in my room saying again "See, you like it" because of my physical reaction, (he has been dead for more than a decade), I understand how guilt and shame burst strongly on us as we begin
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