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Thanks! Ken
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Male Survivors
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Hey Bert Sorry to join in late. Like the others have said you have come to the right place. Based on my experience I would say it is totally normal. I have been here over 8 months I guess. Before I started dealing with the CSA I had pretty much shut
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Male Survivors
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Hi Poorsoft. A lot of this sounded like some of the things I at times have wished I could say to my own mother. Just last weekend I left a post regarding my mom's mishandling of my CSA disclosure and the responses I got showed me that many of us her
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Introductions
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thanks for dumping. that's the best thing to do with garbage. this is a good place to dump it. i am in a similar state, bringing me back here. i feel better after a good dump. keep talking if you have to.
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Hey Puffer. Good to see you. Victor, Was that supposed to help me? It didn't. Not at all. I just dumped some on the new guy's forum.
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Male Survivors
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Been busy and just seeing these two posts, thanks for the feedback and point of view. I wouldn't change a thing about the steps Ive taken. Turns out, I am the one kicking ass. Turns out, I am the one firing back, competently I may add. I have resear
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I'm needing to dump. I've not looked at this stuff for years. Something came up recently, opening me up. I was at my 12 step meeting 2 nights ago, feeling down, but I thought it was from feeling dejected by my wife. We've been separated 2 years n
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Things have been really bad with my husband since last year, after we had a baby. Triggered to acting out, cheating with a lot of women, drinking, disappearing, quitting school and just hell. Our beautiful son is 16 months old. I'm going to Al Anon a
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Male Survivors
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Hi Bert. Well, I don't know for certain if you need to find a new therapist but I do know for certain you need to find a new roommate. This dude sounds like a real asshole and I'd get the hell out of that situation as soon as I possibly could if I w
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Male Survivors
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Hi Bardo. I read your post. I'm sorry you had to go through some of the things you went through with your family. If you don't mind my asking, are you still going to therapy and/or to any kind of support group? Also, you say you've been diagnosed wi
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Hi All, *trigger warning* I've been hesitant to post here as this a completely new foray for me in my healing (I'm currently in therapy for the 4th time in 5 years, but have never been in a male survivor group). As a result, I've long felt like a
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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Thanks bud for posting these...both are great songs!
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Male Survivors
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As usual, I stopped talking when I was with nT at the last session. I wanted him to know it began early in life, so I told him. I told him how I remembered turning around as I was led down that path to the wooden building and seeing my brothers sti
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Welcome, Gummy. You have come to a safe place where people will understand your experiences. Your T is correct... and I am glad he snapped something in you to cause you to begin to think differently. So very good to meet you, my man. bill
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I think I know what you mean. Until you begin to open up, the wall stands and nothing moves forward. If your T does not make you feel safe, it may not be the right fit. My T makes me feel safe, no judgment, no preconceived ideas of who I am. He lis
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True, touching, and very uplifting. Thank you for sharing!
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Male Survivors
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why do I feel imotional really imotional reading your guys comments??? Is this part of healing iam I gonna be a crying type of girly drama!!! Lol I don't like this healing thing how do I proceed??? Help thank you in advance just want to know if its n
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Male Survivors
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Iam seen a therapist! Its now about 6 months and its as it was still the first day everyday I go. As if iam never going to get better it makes me feel weird like I walk out of there feeling like a child again with anxiety gloomy puppy eyes etc. And t
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Couldn't explain it any better Eric Chase! Its amazing how you could find a short cut on how to see a dramatic event on my eyes its exactly how I tried to cancel all those memories couldn't handle it anymore until I seen a therapist! Its now about 6
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Male Survivors
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http://www.erowid.org/chemicals/ibogaine/ibogaine.shtml this is the best resource for further information about ibogaine I have found. I'd also like to mention that many people who don't know their ass from their elbow have started businesses arou
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I also found out without my husband telling me. I tried to approach him, as smooth as I could, to let him that I loved him and he was safe now. He called me crazy, got angry, made me feel horrible. Then I found out that he had a son with the woman th
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Mag, When you take this realization into your dream state, you will find your team rallying around your coach. Cant
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It is still difficult for me to believe that Pbert53 is gone. It has now been four days since I found out. Now that he is gone, I feel alone because he was the only one who I really could talk to about my csa, especially since he lived closest to m
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hey Eric dude feel free to contact me any way you want. I don't know if I can help, but I do care. man sometimes it is just too much. but if you need to just ramble Im your guy jeff
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Family and Friends
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I agree that to talk openly but in general terms about how this would not be an issue to you might bee the best plan. personally had someone confronted me early on I would have been terrified to think that ANYONE could see and find out about my story
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