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Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Brotherly Love by nltsaved @ 01/20/15 11:54 PM

I feel ya brother and fam we all are
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Question Why do I feel like he is here by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 11:48 PM

good read. http://www.socialworktoday.com/archive/032311p20.shtml some mention of Evicting the Perpetrator. "Survivors often find themselves repeatedly engaging in self-damaging or self-defeating behaviors, involving addictive behaviors o
Male Survivors
Anything that spreads awareness is a good thing as long as it is done in the right way. Let's hope this works out!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: so tired of being abused by "helping" people by Publius @ 01/20/15 09:49 PM

I'm sorry what is going on with your group. While I understand the importance of group members being stable for meetings (i.e. sober, calm, etc.) I think the conditions you described are both excessive and invasive. I truly sympathize with the need
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Input from Survivors Requested :-) by sorryson @ 01/20/15 09:20 PM

From what I read here you have received good advice. I was one of the lucky ones to have someone like you in my life. She has been there for me. She came from a family that never judged others or made fun of others. Her parents always taught her t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Question Why do I feel like he is here by sorryson @ 01/20/15 09:08 PM

Everyone thank you. It makes me know I am not loosing it. I thought I was going crazy hearing and feeling him. I never knew how memories stay with us even though we do not accept them. I am starting to accept them. Thank you for being here for me.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Brotherly Love by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 08:58 PM

very nice. behind beyond our pasts, we find a bond that lasts. a love that never dies, above forever skies. thank you for sharing. arronb. your words still have value, your message is still true. your feelings still come through. your lov
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Thank you brothers... by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 08:36 PM

a fine tribute! as we take the long march together, sunwolf, i am happy to have you walk with me. we may be years and miles apart, but we share tears and smiles and heart.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Your life in Six Words by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 08:10 PM

i always want a little bit... extra!
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Your life in Six Words by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 07:46 PM

remember you are here by choice. abandon all hope, ye who enter. no one here gets out alive. that was fun. do it again.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: so tired of being abused by "helping" people by Shyshark @ 01/20/15 07:44 PM

I took a little break from here ... I think it's a common thing, and healthy to let yourself alone for a while. This can be a very stressful place even if you are not actively involved in anything. Let's face it ... a lot of what is written and read
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: rave review by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 06:34 PM

thank for your thoughts, tbkkfile. the police are involved and they are taking care of it. it would seem that our local union is broken. thanks for the peace, strength and support. much needed and appreciated. i am almost certain that i will
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: rave review by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 06:29 PM

thank you for those excellent sentiments, Daryl X. i have passed them on to other bully targets. very uplifting and encouraging. good news, the cops told me that they were going to have a word with the aggressor. a gentle reminder about civi
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Decadence+Innocence=Existence by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 06:26 PM

you/re welcome, manipulated. i write these for you guys.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: You Bastard by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 06:23 PM

hatred, anger, fury, rage and wrath! red hot and razor sharp.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: 24 Stages of Growth for Survivors of Incest by Rich1967 @ 01/20/15 06:19 PM

Even though it says incest it really does seem to work for the trauma caused by any type of sexual abuse. I've felt damaged for sure. My wife and I joke about both of us being damaged goods. She wasn't abused but NO ONE is perfect and I've yet t
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: You can take off your mask by Shyshark @ 01/20/15 06:04 PM

... and there you are my traveler friend just around the bend not far many to whom this all makes sense we who see through your defense that there be ... Courage behind the mask.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: mask - unmasked by Shyshark @ 01/20/15 05:53 PM

Courage lies beneath the mask ... and though it seems an impossible task ... and maybe just too much to ask ... it may be time to take a different tack and get the monkey off your back and let some see ... a little more of who is me through just a c
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: You can take off your mask by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 05:35 PM

what a beautiful feeling you convey here. warmth, comfort, safety, security. thank you, hopeandtry.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: mask - unmasked by victor-victim @ 01/20/15 05:32 PM

great poem. the parade. the masquerade. the charade. the part i played. "Whoever looks into the mirror of the water will see first of all his own face. Whoever goes to himself risks a confrontation with himself. The mirror does not flatte
Male Survivors
i love a good laugh got contacted by one of the facilitators - the one i'm having the problem with. he tells me the ROI is: "only be able to access information regarding your attendance at therapy - not any private info in the sessions"
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Appt setter at MD office - no accommodation 4 CSA by Mishka95673 @ 01/20/15 03:48 PM

What a world we live in, one filled with broken expectations and fulfilled hopes. Yesterday I was finding my very ill (respiratory infection and ear infection) man a new doctor and making an appointment for him with her office. The person on the phon
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: 24 Stages of Growth for Survivors of Incest by Nothing Man @ 01/20/15 03:18 PM

Damaged goods is how I often feel about myself.
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Autism / Aspergers by Becoming Other @ 01/20/15 03:14 PM

As far as I am concerned, if someone does not display the traits that get labeled as Autism / Aspergers, then it just means that they will not become a Muggle. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muggle I call them Muggles, but everyone else calls them Ne
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by Nothing Man @ 01/20/15 03:10 PM

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