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Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: What is Health? by dark empathy @ 04/16/14 02:00 PM

I really admire your thoughts on Indian phylosophy, but to be honest for myself s/xual health is a contradiction in terms, sinse there is nothing to me positive about my own s/xuality at all. I have seen a positive form of communication in ccertai
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: finally self-acceptance by lapchinj @ 04/16/14 01:56 PM

Hey Cosmos I thought I was the only crazy guy that was married but had a hard time explaining to people that it was not sexual. I never told my wife that I was gay although it doesn't seem you did either, just that you had an attraction to men. How
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Sexual charge post trauma by dark empathy @ 04/16/14 01:45 PM

Myself, I have learnt to view the business much more rationally. Mb is my control. I was never shamed by my parents about s/x or my physical reactions, indeed both parents explained quite kindly in quite medical detail when i was 10 what mb was and
Jump to new posts Re: I'm Still Here by BluegrassGhost @ 04/16/14 01:44 PM

Thanks for the kind words and open arms everybody.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How did you feel when you saw a bigger penis? by lapchinj @ 04/16/14 01:10 PM

Hey IW2T It's great when I can put a face to a post and I'm glad you put one up. The smile is great even though it might be a coverup. I don't want to pry but I see you look like you have blond hair like I did. Did you find that you were bullied mo
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Stockholm Syndrome by On The Fringe @ 04/16/14 01:03 PM

I idolized my molester. It took a long time to accept that I thought as a child then. I just locked my thinking on my CSA at age 7. It took a few decades to see things as an adult. That is when recovery began. The truth of my innocence in the cr
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Forgiveness & the toughest 16 inches *trigger* by On The Fringe @ 04/16/14 12:55 PM

Vengeance is mine says The Lord. I have turned it over as any vengeance is for God to do. Not that I forgot.... It helps me not be bitter on a personal level a bit.
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Jump to new posts Re: Trying to understand masculinity by pete1973 @ 04/16/14 12:49 PM

Bobcat, I can relate to your feelings. I am 40 and trying to reconnect with the 11 year old boy that got left behind when he was abused. To me he is still stuck in that room staring out the window, alone and afraid to leave because he doesn't know wh
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: finally self-acceptance by cosmos @ 04/16/14 12:11 PM

jd123 thanx for the undeserved accolades! Rustam the whole injured psyche inside is just “sooooo schizophrenic” it’s not even funny; but so necessary for healing, I never wanted to confront myself I lacked the courage to admit what was done that I
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ***TRIGGER*** Castration fear by traveler @ 04/16/14 11:32 AM

how are you doing now, Randy? i started this thread over 2 years ago and it is so strange to see it come up again. i have definitely progressed a lot since i first wrote about it. i hope you are better now, too? if it is still an issue for you, don'
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Trusting Him Again by learning2luvme @ 04/16/14 10:49 AM

Ok. I know and understand this stage. My offer stands if he wants a rational independent ear to listen. Being a survivor we all here understand better than anybody and we are great listeners. Best of luck to you and your husband. L2LME
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How did you feel when you saw a bigger penis? by I Want 2 Thrive @ 04/16/14 09:52 AM

Originally Posted By: lapchinjEven when I was an adult and I saw one in the showers it just threw me back to my younger years. The bigger it got the only thing it meant to me was more pain, blood and wishing I were dead. AMEN My BROTHER!
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Jump to new posts Re: Trying to understand masculinity by JayBro @ 04/16/14 09:46 AM

Hey Bobcat, I'm 22 and had been struggling very much with this, especially a year ago. What helped for me was to be my "authentic self", and to gravitate towards friends and others with attributes that I admired. In my recovery, I have fou
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Jump to new posts Re: Mud Season by sentry @ 04/16/14 08:08 AM

Hey Jude. That looks like some serious mud you are dealing with there. You could use a good 4x4 to get you through that. Other than the muddy road it looks like you live in a really cool environment. Just so you won't feel too bad about the weather
Spirituality and Survivors
Izzy Many talk about forgiveness. I believe the first person you need to forgive is yourself--the guilt and shame the abuse left me with created this secret, and silence can be controlling and destructive. With much pain and hurt, I began to forgiv
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Jump to new posts Re: Mud Season by Jude @ 04/16/14 06:36 AM

Woke up this morning to 28 degrees and everything covered with a fresh blanket of snow. Its April 16th. AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!
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