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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Spock as role model?? got your own? by victor-victim @ 03/02/15 03:57 AM

I AM SPOCK!
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Jump to new posts kahr-y-tan: the way of the Vulcan by victor-victim @ 03/02/15 03:39 AM

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Jump to new posts Re: Accountability Partner by traveler @ 03/02/15 03:19 AM

you might try a 12-step program. some are more and some less religious. there is a wide variety - most common being AA - but also some geared more to sexual addictions and other issues. lee
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts does anyone suffer from paranoia? by Tryingtolive @ 03/02/15 02:13 AM

is this a symptom of CSA?
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Jump to new posts Re: ? About abuse by Tryingtolive @ 03/02/15 01:09 AM

Thank you this is a learning process for me
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Jump to new posts Re: Funerals Put Life in Perspective by sorryson @ 03/01/15 08:15 PM

I wanted to tell you Kevin, maybe you can get your children to go to a seminar on PAS or child sexual abuse. They may hear something that hits them. Mama and my brother went to a PAS meeting and recently the Center had a session on parent relationsh
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Jump to new posts Re: Leonard Nimoy - a moment of silence by victor-victim @ 03/01/15 08:14 PM

more spock talk. Spock Rocks! http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=434010#Post434010 http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=444065#Post444065 http://www.malesurvivor.or
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: The bitter pendulum by Shyshark @ 03/01/15 06:24 PM

I know all too well what you are all talking about. I swing on the pendulum too ... but I also ride the Roller Coaster of Bipolar Disorder. It's a hard way to live ... but then again ... what does it matter ... it is what it is ... all we can do is s
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: your advice wanted by iaccus @ 03/01/15 05:31 PM

Thank you for your words genedebs. I appreciate your input.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Accountability Partner by Esposa @ 03/01/15 05:17 PM

Anyone have any ideas on where to find an accountability partner? A non-religious one?
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Rabbit Hole Once More by Nothing Man @ 03/01/15 04:29 PM

Hello Simba. A road to recovery sometimes has potholes in it. We can be distracted from our path but as long as we return to the beam we can continue to heal. Keep working at this. Life will get better. Mike
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How do I do this? (not facing life) by Nothing Man @ 03/01/15 04:20 PM

Hi FH. I am so very sorry to see you in such distress. It is not fair and you do not deserve it. I hope you will seek out help for yourself. You are absolutely worth it. When do we grow up? I think for me it was when I finally realized that in
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 03/01/15 03:00 PM

last night I was watching t.v. show. and I watch me . blagoj is here with me. and then I eat. if I eat his cum. I . "goran why do you have to do this? why do you say sick shit like this? what? says zoran. then you want to sa say have s
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Jump to new posts Re: Rabbit Hole Once More by Shyshark @ 03/01/15 02:48 PM

It's not as bad it seems my young friend. It will pass ... and far more quickly than you think. Sharky (((lion)))
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Jump to new posts Re: your advice wanted by genedebs @ 03/01/15 01:36 PM

Dear iaccus, I got a lot of suggestions from AA people to cut all ties with my parents. My father physically abused us (my mother, my brothers, and myself, my mother had me get naked so her friend the photographer could take pictures. She also bro
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Jump to new posts Re: How do I do this? (not facing life) by fhorns @ 03/01/15 01:18 PM

Yes, someone to save me. I've buried, buried, and buried pain more (it worked for a while).....but........(more denial comes)....(more escapes, more fantasies,....) anything to not face the pain. This was my life. 4 years ago I was unemployed, and
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Rabbit Hole Once More by woodenshoes @ 03/01/15 12:22 PM

((((lionking))))) I hope life gets easier. Ws
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by woodenshoes @ 03/01/15 12:19 PM

Jeff Sorry you are hurting. It is really sad we cant do the things that are so simple and bring kids joy. I hope the pain of our experiences get taken away and we can have some joys in life. Jeff i hope the healing gets easier for you. Ws
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Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by petercorbett @ 03/01/15 12:01 PM

(((Jeff))), The pain never never seems to go away for you, no matter how much you try. But try you must, to eventually come to terms within yourself. Your innocense in all of this, has yet to come through. But, my brother (Jeff))) there is always
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Jump to new posts Re: Leonard Nimoy - a moment of silence by Chase Eric @ 03/01/15 11:57 AM

I intimated his name in my Introductory statement (my signature before is a link to that). Spock was something of an example for me on how to handle myself, and I attribute my ability to remain cool and cerebral in times of emotional stress to him.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How do I do this? (not facing life) by bey @ 03/01/15 11:20 AM

I have been waiting my whole life for someone to save me. Being an adult is scary and it feels like my "adult card" is gonna be taken away as soon as someone gets wise to how not-adult I really am. I totally relate. Is there hope? I th
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Jump to new posts How do I do this? (not facing life) by fhorns @ 03/01/15 10:45 AM

I wish I had a real reason for what I'm writing. I feel so detached......since I feel afraid. This isn't directly about SA. It's about life, trying to face today. I read yesterday "worrying about tomorrow is your gravest danger". As of
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Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by Nothing Man @ 03/01/15 09:47 AM

((((Jeff))))
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: Politicians and their ilk by bluesky @ 03/01/15 09:44 AM

LOL does not mater what political party you vote for there all Devils. Bluesky
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: your advice wanted by Nothing Man @ 03/01/15 09:39 AM

Hello my friend. You are in a tough position in that you are being forced through circumstances to share quarters with one of your perps. Dealing with that is hard, and I can certainly understand where you are because my mother was one of my perps
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