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Jump to new posts Re: I can't stop being angry :( by dark empathy @ 04/17/14 03:44 AM

Hi Magellan. Yes, I am back and writing a reply. You know I share similar feelings of anger and isolation, heck I even expressed them on this forum in a not good way. However one thing I'm coming to realize is that there is a point when you have do
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Am I Gay? Part 4 by justplainme @ 04/17/14 03:42 AM

Originally Posted By: Jed777In the fall of 1974 I decided to go to see, "A Very Natural Thing." It was a movie that portrayed homosexuality in a positive way. I identified with the main character who had been in religious training. I took t
Jump to new posts Shrinks by kcinohio @ 04/17/14 02:01 AM

Walking home after work Just want to stop and sit On the sidewalk right here Because I am in the pit Of despair, not from job That I managed to complete Barely there, but got by Quiet, dead on my feet. As I sweat through the rest Make it home and c
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: strangers help by Publius @ 04/17/14 01:04 AM

I am sorry to hear how unsettling this has been for you especially the panic attacks (I've only had one but the mere fear of another is enough to get me anxious). I am sure it feels difficult having so many strangers, people you are not sure you can
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Love is more than a feeling by nltsaved @ 04/17/14 12:54 AM

Love is so much more than a feeling, I am learning that love is a choice. People say they fall in and out of love because they are depended on a feeling and when the feeling is no longer there than they choose to terminate the relationship. When one
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I can't stop being angry :( by Publius @ 04/17/14 12:54 AM

I agree with everyone here and am happy to hear you giving voice to those feelings. All too often the modus operandi of survivors is to dismiss their progress while focusing on what they have yet to achieve. It sounds to me like your recovery has p
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: This American Life: Interview With A Pedophile by pufferfish @ 04/17/14 12:52 AM

I have a book: Conversations With a Pedophile, By Amy Hammell-Zabin. The book is also available in a Kindle edition Yes, I've read it. I don't think his name is e
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts strangers help by OKIE MIKE @ 04/17/14 12:48 AM

I recently Had some damage to my home. Do to Branch coming off a tree and hitting the roof. I have had to hire people to repair the damage . Having strangers around my home and in my home has caused several panic attacks . This just sucks
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: The Bar Keeps Moving by md4e @ 04/17/14 12:47 AM

This is my first post..even tho I've been reading for a year..I read so much that seems to be coming staight from my soul. This is how I feel so much of the time, only I say I never know when I cross "the line". It seems like I'm forever re
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: finally self-acceptance by pufferfish @ 04/17/14 12:43 AM

That's another problem with having DID. You don't know which self to love Puffer
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Things boys discover by pufferfish @ 04/17/14 12:41 AM

Originally Posted By: pufferfishWe lived in a two-story house. My bedroom was on the 2nd floor. I periodically dropped a lit firecracker from the window. 919. My goal was to one day pee from the window. Now let's psychoanalyze that!!! Puffer
Jump to new posts Re: Trying to Start by Rich1967 @ 04/16/14 10:13 PM

Good luck Buff! I will look forward to your check-ins Nothing wrong with having some faith. So happy to hear you spoke in public. I think that needs to happen more. We need to speak out more and share our stories. I am sure you have helped o
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Am I Gay? Part 4 by victor-victim @ 04/16/14 08:54 PM

am i gay? i have never been able to answer that question honestly or accurately. i stopped caring about labels. to ourselves, we are our thoughts. to others, we are our actions. have i had a challenging journey arriving at a responsible sex
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Forgiveness & the toughest 16 inches *trigger* by I Want 2 Thrive @ 04/16/14 08:41 PM

Thank you Victor. Much to think / pray on.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: healing through forgiveness by I Want 2 Thrive @ 04/16/14 08:39 PM

Originally Posted By: victor-victim it became obvious that I NEVER HAD THE JOB IN THE FIRST PLACE!! Crying so hard right now... Remembering the line repeated so often when everyone thought my pain was JUST a drinking thing... "Let God, let
A smile is a great thing. As a child I had a smile people would comment on. I was able to keep it going through most of my life. Sometimes it was real and other times I was hiding a pain that no one knew. There were periods when I could not smile.
Jump to new posts Re:'s real and I'm messed up..... by victor-victim @ 04/16/14 08:28 PM

welcome, g35dw888, powerful intro. i totally relate to your words... Quote:I've decided to recover and she thinks it's just a tactic to get her to stay like another manipulation tool. I don't feel like that's what it is. But I don't know what t
Jump to new posts Re: My Dark Passenger by victor-victim @ 04/16/14 08:19 PM

thanks for the update. now that the investigation has reached the criminal, we can only hope that his crimes will stop. that is the first priority. the next most important thing is identifying and locating his other victims and getting them th
Jump to new posts Re: New member by victor-victim @ 04/16/14 08:07 PM

Originally Posted By: mikegback again after a couple of weeks, how you guys doing? inside out, upside down, spinning round, head in the clouds, feet on the ground. my kids are killing me with stress and worry but i love them more than life. wai
Jump to new posts Re: I'm Still Here by victor-victim @ 04/16/14 07:58 PM

welcome to, BluegrassGhost, you have found a good place to share your burden, and maybe even leave some excess baggage behind, thereby lightening your load and decreasing your drag coefficient.
Jump to new posts Re: Of all they took, miss my smile *****TRIGGERS***** by victor-victim @ 04/16/14 07:47 PM

your story was hard for me to read, but i am glad you shared it. i always get strong emotions when i hear about this stuff first hand. there never seems to be much justice or closure in reality. whatever happened to thomas and his crew? although
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