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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 08/24/15 09:45 PM

i like seeing inspirational quotes. liked me. then they would come and take and. I would keep going back. I never liked my mom and couldn't understand why. I seeyour face ..how can you lie to your wife. how can you have sex with me. how ca
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Conspiracy of Silence by victor-victim @ 08/24/15 09:44 PM

http://www.nytimes.com/2002/02/21/world/...pedophilia.html http://www.examiner.com/article/afghan-pedophiles-and-pederasts-unfettered-by-u-s-nato https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0SO-C-9a7A https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2f13f2awK4 http
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: nightmares still haunt me. by kcinohio @ 08/24/15 09:27 PM

Just echoing that it is a process. Some heal rather quickly, others take more time. Both of those can be legitimate.
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 08/24/15 08:55 PM

searching for episodes of cdn show deal with it. when I cant get what I am looking for. penis is in my head. so what goran. FUCK YOU! touch me a gain . try it. needed a dad. sometimes I think of my anus as a vagina. sorry. need to get t
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Robert Manwill age 11 TRIGGERS by iaccus @ 08/24/15 08:43 PM

I try NothingMan, but its not easy, I am at least in part responsible. take care
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by victor-victim @ 08/24/15 07:58 PM

“Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light.” ~ Norman B. Rice
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: I am tired. by Nothing Man @ 08/24/15 07:10 PM

(((Lionking))) I'm sorry you are stuck in such a negative pattern. I hope you can find your way out of it. Mike
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Robert Manwill age 11 TRIGGERS by Nothing Man @ 08/24/15 07:02 PM

(((iaccus))) You are a good man. You could not prevent this, but you were not the one who perpetrated it either. Please don't beat yourself up. What a moving and tragic poem. Mike
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: does this ever go away? by Nothing Man @ 08/24/15 07:00 PM

I don't know. My wife knows when I am really stressed because I start playing solitaire compulsively on my computer. It sort of drowns out the "noise" of life for me.
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Jump to new posts Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND by gettingstronger @ 08/24/15 06:04 PM

Same here. Always looking for new friends, and it's always ok to vent, rant, cry on my shoulder, and so on. My availability is a little sporadic due to a crazy schedule, but feel free to PM and I'll PM back as soon as I can. Bob
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: does this ever go away? by Tryingtolive @ 08/24/15 05:38 PM

I know what you mean.. Even distracting myself doesnt really seem to work anymore.. weather it be video games.. drawing...
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: does this ever go away? by KMCINVA @ 08/24/15 05:30 PM

Yes it does. It takes time and as you heal you will learn how to think differently, you will begin to see yourself in a different light as a valued individual. I know it is a terrible feeling to be in such a constant state of fear. It takes time an
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Jump to new posts does this ever go away? by Tryingtolive @ 08/24/15 05:27 PM

does the constant state of worrying/fear ever stop..?
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Straw poll by Robert1000 @ 08/24/15 04:46 PM

Anxiety. Sexual stuff. Unwilling to let myself be loved. Being afraid of success. And failure. Yeah. Maybe those are things all people feel. But I definitely feel like that.
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 08/24/15 03:52 PM

LONLY nes how cant talk . may be I am supposed to be . I . am not a faid. of . gay. she had me think I . th, porn. touch m don't want sugar. have nothing to look for. I had only him
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Mine stands for "into giants" - the macrophilia I struggle with.
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Jump to new posts Re: Straw poll part 3 by payne @ 08/24/15 02:59 PM

No, I didn't know what was happening to me at the time was abuse. Mom kept telling me how much she loved me, that I was her little man, and what we were doing was ok.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Straw poll by payne @ 08/24/15 02:45 PM

I put all four because I have never felt like I fit in on this planet which is depressing as is my struggle with my sexuality which also causes anxiety. My therapist and I continue to talk about these things.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Robert Manwill age 11 TRIGGERS by iaccus @ 08/24/15 02:37 PM

Robert, age 11, a trusting and innocent soul How could they do the things they did Those people who claimed the title of parent The bruises and cuts are the least Of the torture you endured At the hands of your creators We met briefly Before the a
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Straw poll part 3 by Robert1000 @ 08/24/15 01:45 PM

I knew it was terrible, but I had no words for it or to describe it, and I thought it was my fault, because that's what the abuser said. I just knew it was horrible. I knew I had been tainted. I knew I had been ruined. And I knew I could never let an
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Anger when teased sexually by gaatt @ 08/24/15 01:12 PM

Hi Mike, Thanks for writing. Originally Posted By: Nothing Man my brothers relating some fond memory of her. To quote Peter Griffin, it really grinds my gears. I totally got a chuckle out of this. My sister is like this. She seems to have an invest
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Every Day Mindfulness by bluesky @ 08/24/15 01:02 PM

Originally Posted By: blueskyThanks VV for posting this it's the small things that count so much. I have been dealing with a lot of anxiety the last few weeks. My practice of medetation and mindfulness was like a lost art but with focused self co
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Body stuff by gaatt @ 08/24/15 12:38 PM

Thanks Winhamness, Yes, I agree patience is needed. I've never found my healing to be a linear process. It kind of wanders all over the place. I do get the sense that I uncover deeper layers of stress/woundedness as I go along. Having connections to
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The past 6 months ..... by KMCINVA @ 08/24/15 12:12 PM

Tryingtolive Your last sentence says it all. I know you will take the challenge and act on what you know you need to to do to heal. We are rooting for you and are here to give you the support you need. Kevin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts The past 6 months ..... by Tryingtolive @ 08/24/15 11:47 AM

These past 6 months have really been the toughest for me ... Not to mention the 3 slow years of realizing and dealing with csa ...but these 6 months I've addressed my issues ... Every single one of them ...knowing I'm not alone is really relieving
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