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Jump to new posts ''thin skinned''/ a man rambling *some triggers* by sportinrucks @ 07/02/15 01:13 PM

I have spent most of my money and time since I was in 5th grade either trying not to get ''fucked over'' or ''not be a pussy'' or not get laughed at. I'm 30 now so that's 20 years. Still got bullied everyday. Then if I did get into a relationship, it
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: low points by bey @ 07/02/15 12:10 PM

i have never ever been as miserable and terrified as i am most of the day now. leaving the house isn't happening, and if i force myself i am triggered and dissociated for most of the time. i'm forgetting conversations. i feel like i'm going to explod
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Judd @ 07/02/15 10:49 AM

Not a ramble but thoughts needing to just be heard man. You are not alone, we stand with you
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by Nothing Man @ 07/02/15 08:00 AM

Indeed, a belated Happy Canada Day!
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Jump to new posts Re: Taking back memories...request for help... by highflight @ 07/02/15 08:00 AM

Adding to this post that I wrote last summer... Tomorrow I am heading back again to spend 2 weeks as a volunteer. Last year was 3 days (with my wife and kids), this year it will be 2 weeks...just me. Anxious and excited at the same time. This year
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Nothing Man @ 07/02/15 07:57 AM

(((Sven))) I am so sorry you are having such a hard time right now. The damage our perps did to us is truly life-changing and lifelong. I guess the only thing I can say is that what was done to you was not your fault. Children can only comply, th
Poetry
Jump to new posts poem 62 by dark empathy @ 07/02/15 07:44 AM

Shadow's fire and shadows hate, excreter on the golden gate, Shadow's art and Shadow's skill, iron as unwilling will. Shadow's mind and Shadow's spite, blood that screams in silent night, Shadow's eyes and Shadow's heart, tares this weeping world
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Michael1965 @ 07/02/15 07:05 AM

Sven I am sending you love, courage and strength! The feelings of being used are crippling and hurtful. Please know that we are here for you and we support your need to vent, scream, ramble or whatever. Isolation and loneliness are the worst things
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by bey @ 07/02/15 06:33 AM

So sorry for what you've been going through, man. It is so sad and unfair. Being used by people like that, wondering why nobody gave a shit about how it would affect you, nobody standing up to help... its a huge thing to have to bear. Thinking of you
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by don64 @ 07/02/15 02:58 AM

Hi Sven, I'm sorry you're feeling so low right now. Your true nature is just as pristine and pure as it ever was. You have had some pretty traumatizing experiences for your years. For me, guilt and shame and disgust fade away as I realize I only
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by justplainme @ 07/02/15 01:16 AM

You have the power to choose. Don't believe that they get to set the course for your life. This is your life, you have a choice over what you do. That feeling of shame and dirt is very powerful but i know that there is more beyond it, you are fightin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Equality by victor-victim @ 07/02/15 01:01 AM

Originally Posted By: Nothing Man happy kanada day, eh?
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by lionking @ 07/02/15 12:59 AM

I couldn't offer anything right now, but all my compassion, I send it all to you, Sven. Just like husk, my heart breaks as well. I hope you remain strong, have courage. I hope that you will see it through someday and somehow, we are here for you, my
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by concerned_husky @ 07/02/15 12:56 AM

Sven... Ramble away as much as you need to. My heart really breaks for what you've been through and for the situation you're in. We're listening, and we're here for you. (((Sven)))
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ 07/02/15 12:55 AM

sending you all much good love from kanadaland!
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Jump to new posts Re: (not so) Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ 07/02/15 12:41 AM

oh cannabis! www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_history_of_cannabis_in_Canada Cannabis Day turns violent! Vancouver, BC July 1 2015. CO-OP Radio Canada Day Broadcast Wednesday Jul 1 19:00 2015 Canadian History Perspective
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts My mind is spinning *triggers* by Sven @ 07/02/15 12:22 AM

thinking about .. how many there've been.. i dont even know i guess you lose count after 100 or so the different kinds of people, rich poor long small all kinds of jobs and walks of life All kinds of nationalities the stuff they made me do, they all
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by victor-victim @ 07/02/15 12:05 AM

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 11:56 PM

‘The report of my death was an exaggeration.’ ~ Samuel Clemens   thank you for showing some , brothers.       ((Bluedogone)) ((Magellan)) ((bluesky)) ((traveler)) i feel much better now.
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Jump to new posts Re: I reject his blame by Mishka95673 @ 07/01/15 11:36 PM

Be well
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Jump to new posts Re: TRIGGERS - giving input w-out controlling or enabl by Mishka95673 @ 07/01/15 11:35 PM

Be well
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Any success stories? by Mishka95673 @ 07/01/15 11:31 PM

Be well
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 11:30 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWZwIpvGQXw Vancouver 2010 Olympics Opening Ceremony "Every year around May, I start to get inundated with requests to perform "We Are More" for Canada Day. When I originally performed it f
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 10:27 PM

thanks, guys. as a native born canadian, i do not celebrate this date, but i do appreciate that you congratulate. we live on occupied land. but i do not hate. i prefer to educate. aboriginal nations of canada http://41.media
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Equality by victor-victim @ 07/01/15 09:43 PM

Originally Posted By: Chase Eric We may be our brother's keeper, but we aren't his maker. amen, brother!
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