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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The Butterfly Effect by pufferfish @ Today at 12:54 AM

Yes...Now I remember I saw this a couple of years ago. I believe it relates heavily to what I've been through, but I'm still trying to figure it all out. Even that figures into the movie. Puffer
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: It sounds incredible. Nobody believes me. by pufferfish @ Today at 12:39 AM

Thank you cosmos and victor-victim This is helping me to develop a picture of the journey I went on when I was 13. I had the memories which made up pufferfish story part 5 thrust upon me in a dizzying storm. They explained an aweful lot. But as t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what is masculinity? by VASurvivor @ Today at 12:06 AM

Originally Posted By: traveler i think that this is an important topic that needs to be addressed on its own - and not lost in the thread that has some other major points being discussed. I have to agree. Thanks for posting this her traveler. And
Military Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: MST Trigers by VASurvivor @ Yesterday at 11:56 PM

Oh. I am so sorry man. Does she know?
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Attachment Theory by NoSimpleMachine @ Yesterday at 10:47 PM

Thanks to newground for pointing me toward attachment theory. It is totally right what I've been mulling over lately. I'm posting a lot of this in the past tense because I feel like I'm in the middle of a seismic shift in my relationship with myself
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: i need your help guys... by gettingstronger @ Yesterday at 09:35 PM

Hey Pattom, Like others have said, you're among friends here and this is a safe place. Calling what happened to you by its proper name is scary as hell, but I think you'll find it's a necessary part of healing from it. And you WILL heal from it!
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Brother Hospitalized by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 06:34 PM

P Thank you and I am glad to see you are not using sorryson. A good sign. I hold little hope that I can persuade the children to get help. They are so ingrained with misinformation and I highly doubt they can face the truth. I had to make a long
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Jump to new posts Re: funny books by traveler @ Yesterday at 05:11 PM

Robert Rankin has some outrageously funny stuff, too. they are hard to describe: "His books are a mix of science fiction, fantasy, the occult, urban legends, running gags, metafiction, steampunk and outrageous characters." they also are h
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Where to begin... by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 12:47 PM

a great beginning... welcome to ms.org and thank you for telling us about your empowering experiences. I hope you find peace and love and reconciliation in your marriage. I am still looking... but at least we are still together after 30 years
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: It sounds incredible. Nobody believes me. by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 12:30 PM

the truth is.... dear puffer... we will never know the truth. the abusers have got it down to a fine science. victims make terrible witnesses. they have low credibility. because of mental illness... brain damage... mind control... brain wash
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Jump to new posts Re: funny books by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 12:08 PM

and since you are in kanada, you might enjoy books written by Stuart McLean. he has a long running clean-humour comedy show on CBC radio called "vinyl cafe" and it is always in great taste. no crime or sex... very similar to mark
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Jump to new posts Re: funny books by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:49 AM

I really enjoy all the paddington bear stories written by Michael Bond. it is laugh out loud funny and there are over twenty books by the original author so there are many to choose from. but I recommend starting at the beginning with the
Military Survivors
Jump to new posts MST Trigers by OKIE MIKE @ Yesterday at 11:15 AM

My Wife thought that She was buying a cool item. She found a Challenge Coin from the 553 S&S Battalion . So she bought it I was raped while serving at Fort Hood With the 664th Ord. CO. It is part of the 553rd S&S Battalion
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Family members who were abused&comfort by journey4two @ Yesterday at 11:00 AM

Hello Kitty :-) I am new here also and don't have any factual information to answer your question. Wish I did. Thought I'd reply nonetheless in case you were feeling "unseen". FWIW, as I journey on with my survivor, my questions change.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what is masculinity? by randombreeze @ Yesterday at 09:44 AM

Difficult post to follow up with a reply, as Lee has pretty much nailed my sentiments exactly, but I will add a few thoughts. Some of my statements are merely variations on Lee's points, with a little more specific examples and added detail. The fo
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Brother Hospitalized by sorryson @ Yesterday at 09:11 AM

Kevin I hope your children do get help now. I can tell them the longer they wait the more painful it will be for them. They will miss out on so much in life. My doctor told me this problem in families is more common and is kept silent. The doctor a
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Jump to new posts Re: funny books by traveler @ Yesterday at 08:31 AM

anything by Dave Barry - whether his collections of short pieces - recycled from his syndicated newspaper columns - or his newer novels! he always makes me laugh! enjoy! Lee
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Just how many mistakes do they need to make by JustScott @ Yesterday at 07:57 AM

The skeptic in me say the police overlooking it had less to do with incompetence and ignorance and more to do with culpability and complicitness. Deep investigations should be made into each person who "overlooked" this for any reason.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts what is masculinity? by traveler @ Yesterday at 03:50 AM

VA survivor asked in another thread: Originally Posted By: VASurvivorI need my maleness affirmed - not my sexuality. How do I do this, when my maleness has only ever been affirmed through sex? i think that this is an important topic that needs to be
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Another update Concerned_husky by traveler @ Yesterday at 03:11 AM

i was also wondering about him and his welfare. i thought maybe someone might be in touch with him through PMs or email? if so it would be good to know if he is all right - even if you can't share the details. Lee
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The Butterfly Effect by bluesky @ 08/28/14 11:48 PM

I saw butterfly effect 2 years ago on DVD and I had to stop watching but put it back on and then off a few times. It it kicked up memory's in a bad way. I think it was the parts where he goes back and trys to change thing and cant they just get worse
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts trauma bonding by focusedbody @ 08/28/14 11:36 PM

A simple definition of a complex interaction goes like this: A trauma bond is made when someone uses fear, excitement, sexual feelings or sexual physiology to entangle another person. When I think of what so many people have gone through, this pict
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Little Boy Lost by lapchinj @ 08/28/14 11:18 PM

Hey Kevin I hear what you're saying but that little boy destroyed his own childhood and destroyed my life trying to get away from him and lead a normal life. The only cries for help was from me getting dragged under by my past - that ghost. Origina
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Little Boy Lost by KMCINVA @ 08/28/14 10:42 PM

Remember that child within will control until we let the child be part of us. That child is only looking for us to accept him as part of us. How the child manifests himself will be different for each of us. Sometimes the child rules consciously and
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Little Boy Lost by lapchinj @ 08/28/14 10:24 PM

Hey 1lifenow I'm truly sorry for your pain but it sounds like your younger self is still in control. Originally Posted By: 1lifenowSo I take from this that THE RUNNING HAS TO STOP. understand what voice is speaking and recognize when its that littl
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