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Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Trying to calm down - he lied again by Mishka95673 @ 2 minutes 15 seconds ago

Oh the peace is soooooo wonderful. I am so glad I vented all those feelings of mine, recognizing that they were simply current manifestations and subject to change. I am so glad I didn't accuse him, scold him, or otherwise make him feel badly about l
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Your Spiritual Journey by traveler @ 14 minutes 47 seconds ago

it has taken me a while to assess my spiritual journey - and longer to write it out. it is long - sorry about that, but i don't have the motivation to edit it at this point. so here goes: Religion was a significant contributing factor in the abuse I
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: So many triggers by Michael1965 @ 17 minutes 0 seconds ago

Nothing Man There is a season for all things in our lives. Seasons come and then they go. This is a season in your life right now but it will not stay. Being a father of two daughters I share in your need to protect your daughter from harm. It pus
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Waste of a day by ShortedDiode @ 17 minutes 44 seconds ago

The song was Concrete Angel by Martina McBride. I had been thinking for a long time about doing a song and music video for that very reason but what happened to me in the hotel cafe has given me serious second thoughts about that since there's no wa
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: So many triggers by traveler @ 51 minutes 51 seconds ago

sorry, Man. i don't have answers for you - but i feel for you in your situation. one thing that i can tell you is that you have not lost what progress you have made. there have been times that i have felt like i slipped back to the beginning becaus
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts So many triggers by Nothing Man @ Today at 03:40 PM

It has been a hard two weeks and I feel off the beam. The first problem is that my almost-16 year old daughter recently broke up with a boy who began pursuing her in earnest after the breakup. It eventually turned into what I believe is Internet st
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ Today at 03:06 PM

i want to help me. osnt know how tudt they ithink of Thompson and . idont know wo who wo who who how how I am stuck in a desperate time. and now I want to eat. Yet I just had lunch. I thought I could do much with my time. I don't know who t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by Chase Eric @ Today at 03:03 PM

Originally Posted By: BluedogoneI had always assumed I would take "my secret" to the grave. So it wasn't exactly proactive on my part. My son was working on my computer and casually asked what all the MS stuff was about. So I briefly, no de
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: He contradicts himself by pjmd @ Today at 02:19 PM

Who among us is consistent, day to day, with thoughts, feelings, statements or beliefs? Not me. One thing you can do is recognize that his behavior in this area (and perhaps others) is unpredictable - and that it doesn't feel good to you. So what bo
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by Mishka95673 @ Today at 01:58 PM

Hi WGU, I hope you see this before taking a break. Your feelings are absolutely valid. And yes, you do have a right to vent, especially here. I believe people on this site sometimes post through a haze of emotion which color their words and phrasing.
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: Parenting Forum - Another Bid by Still @ Today at 01:55 PM

Originally Posted By: Luka (and for that matter, figuring out relationship stuff as well)... Well for relationships with women, there's this simple manual: For men....there were some notes someone scribbled once on a paper napkin. Not sure w
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: Parenting Forum - Another Bid by Still @ Today at 01:50 PM

Originally Posted By: LukaHow do we go about organising a forum for parents FIRST: We draft an introductory Bill...then: Introducing the Bill and Referral to a Committee Any member of Congress can introduce legislation. The person or persons who
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by WontGiveUp @ Today at 01:14 PM

One last thing before I take a break from here, my feelings and emotional responses to betrayal and lies and ANYTHING ELSE shitty my husband does to me no matter how great or small are VALID. Think really hard before trying to say those reactions
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Great group of men by Bluedogone @ Today at 01:09 PM

Alex, A very brave and courageous thing to open up and be willing to share your story. HOPE does exist, and my wish for you is that by making yourself so vulnerable, you receive the strength and power to heal, and keep healing, no matter what the m
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by WontGiveUp @ Today at 01:03 PM

AlexBoyd Comparing me to your abusive father (yes I did take the time to read your posts so that I could understand your perspective more) is in no way shape or form "good intentions". Your first statement to me is calling me a control fr
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by Bluedogone @ Today at 12:35 PM

I had always assumed I would take "my secret" to the grave. So it wasn't exactly proactive on my part. My son was working on my computer and casually asked what all the MS stuff was about. So I briefly, no details, told him that after all t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Great group of men by iaccus @ Today at 12:16 PM

You are not alone Alex! Not by a long shot.!
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Universal Soldier by Jay1946 @ Today at 11:52 AM

A book that influenced me profoundly on this subject is: Humanity: A Moral History of the Twentieth Century written by the English ethicist Jonathan Glover. He examines the many humanitarian disasters that occurred in the twentieth century and finds
Male Survivors
When I told my sister, I was more numb then relieved. I knew it was an accomplishment, but I didn't really feel anything. I even stopped therapy a few weeks later. I had nothing to say. I wasn't numb, I just needed time and space to process. I recent
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Getting Triggered When Aroused by Bardo @ Today at 11:06 AM

Jaybro, If sympathy feels wrong, how about just looking in the mirror and accepting that what happened, happened. And then remind yourself for the millionth time that you did not ask for it, did not have control, and could not change it if your trie
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Great group of men by Bardo @ Today at 10:59 AM

Alex, You are courageous. It is amazing that you have taken the very difficult steps to open up about your abuse and to share your thoughts with us. Thank you for your considerate input to the posts, and your great contributions to this group. We are
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: i didn't need that by Obi @ Today at 10:51 AM

lee, so sorry that this happened to you.
Family and Friends
WGU, I agree that we should no longer communicate. As Mishka pointed out, I did have good intentions. Help and support do not always come in the form of agreeing, validating or coddling. Good luck with your marriage. Done.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by Chase Eric @ Today at 10:04 AM

You still said it well, a very important point. Believe it or not, the Seuss quote was on a huge sign over a walkway at Universal in Orlando. So I was already deeply steeped in my inner child when I saw that, and it left an enormous impression.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Today I told him..... what was your reaction? by KMCINVA @ Today at 09:00 AM

Chase Eric Great quote, better said then I could ever say. The thought and meaning are the same but his use of words are powerful. Kevin
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