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Jump to new posts Re: It's time by Bluedogone @ 20 minutes 47 seconds ago

Hi HouseofCards, and welcome. You've hit on two key words that so many of us on MS have dealt with - repressed and denied. I think my biggest breakthrough came when I discovered that on this site it was no longer necessary to deny or repress and to
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Do I have to forgive? by unhappycamper @ Today at 02:35 PM

@wild_turky: Me too. Forgiveness is a relationship with the perp, and I don't want that. I don't even know who he was. Meanwhile, peace! John
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Anyone here who is currently writing a book? by unhappycamper @ Today at 02:32 PM

Fifteen years ago, I tried writing a private narrative of what happened 40 years earlier, but I couldn't go through with it. I haven't tried since. John
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: New by JCEldrid @ Today at 02:21 PM

A better welcome I could not have imagined. Thank you all for your support and encouragement. Surely with such comraderie and a bit of faith it will be a road built with equals, nay friends, and the journey is off to a positive start. Thank you al
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Simply: how the hell do I do this? by gaatt @ Today at 01:13 PM

Originally Posted By: fhornsPeople admitting it is really rare for public admission. Yes, I've experienced that too. This forum is a rare exception. Yes, its a gift to me too. Did you see Pufferfish's link on the "Effects of Covert Child Abuse&q
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Effects of Covert child sexual abuse by gaatt @ Today at 01:05 PM

HI Pufferfish, Thanks! This is good, no GREAT stuff! Thanks for bringing it to my attention. Sincerely, GAATT
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Guilt anyone? by gaatt @ Today at 12:56 PM

Originally Posted By: fhornsPeople don't know my story ONLY since I've never shared it. Question: where might I disclose this commitment? Hi fhorns, Looks like you've already mentioned it to us. I see there is a survivor stories forum here. If y
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Guilt anyone? by gaatt @ Today at 12:45 PM

HI Don, I was going to quote your message but then realized I'd be quoting the whole thing. Thank-you SOOOO MUCH. It touched me deeply. I think I've been struggling with the fear of stepping back and no longer taking on her emotional neediness. It
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: I give them all my power by gaatt @ Today at 12:32 PM

Originally Posted By: Don64"For me, unfortunately, I frequently have to precipitate some mental or physical crisis to get over the fear of change." Me too! I've had severe physical illness for many years now. The connection to the way I re
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Wondering if I'm alone by gaatt @ Today at 12:24 PM

Hi Fhorns, Sometimes, and particularly strongly these days, I want to be alone. I'm tired of looking for people who have some interest in my healing related needs (I understand that non-sexual touch in a safe social environment is helpful. Finding s
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Compensation by Adam A Gedman @ Today at 12:18 PM

Hey all, Thought I would revive this old post because, I did it. I filled out the application, collected my receipts Participated in completing the therapist report, with my T and just this past week, I testified on my own behalf. The testimony wa
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Jump to new posts Re: TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! by victor-victim @ Today at 09:25 AM

Poetry
Jump to new posts Another Man's Crime by victor-victim @ Today at 09:20 AM

came across this survivor poetry and i wanted to share it here. it is disturbing and may trigger so please be careful. Another Man's Crime I didn't have a choice He forced his way into me Innocence stolen by the thief Stained with the remains of
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Sharing an interesting long term friendship by SamV @ Today at 08:48 AM

Rhett and Link are a couple of guys who do a talk show on Youtube. These two have been friends since 1st grade and share their relationship with their listeners. I have often wondered what a healthy, supportive friendship would be like and have vicar
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Jump to new posts Re: TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! by traveler @ Today at 07:05 AM

happy birthday, Harry! i hope this year brings better things to you. Lee
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ Today at 06:03 AM

here is a good sign.
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: amazing gifs by victor-victim @ Today at 05:53 AM

dog:god
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ Today at 05:48 AM

beware of god. his bite is worse than his bark.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Anyone here who is currently writing a book? by wild_turky @ Today at 05:46 AM

I have been trying for over 10 years i have about two pages and find it to hard. Im hoping that a time will come that i can be ready to put it into a good form with out a sob story and hopefully a happy ending.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Do I have to forgive? by wild_turky @ Today at 05:42 AM

I will always try to forget but never forgive
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bitterness... by wild_turky @ Today at 05:39 AM

I have been angry for a long time and as it diminishes I don't feel like I'm left with a lot. I feel more empty and miss the strength of being angry. I don't believe that it ever was more dominant than love and hope for they to kept me alive and gave
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ Today at 05:28 AM

no wonder i feel so good. nutritious candy, mmm mmm. full of vitamin S.
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ Today at 05:21 AM

when i say NO SWIMMING i mean NO!
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: more silly signs by victor-victim @ Today at 05:17 AM

i don't know, do you need a time machine to comply with these rules. another twilight zone request. you would need some amazing magic power to disobey.
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Jump to new posts TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! by Harry @ Today at 03:34 AM

I am 33 today! Happy Birthday to me!
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