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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Do I have to forgive? by tbkkfile @ Today at 04:18 AM

It's a subject that I've thought a lot about and put together a short sentence which I wrote down and keep in my pocket which I read when I feel the need. Quote:We cannot change the past or change other people; we do Not have to forgive - (forgiven
Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Affirmations by victor-victim @ Today at 02:27 AM

here is another great book which formed part of my survival strategy. http://www.stuartwilde.com/books/affirmations/ AFFIRMATIONS, by Stuart Wilde, is not just a collection of nice words to say to yourself, but serves as a magnificent battle-pl
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: I will not feel guilty about that by victor-victim @ Today at 02:16 AM

very powerful. affirmations.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Its Never Too Late to Have a Great Childhood by victor-victim @ Today at 12:32 AM

i do agree. it is never too late to have a happy childhood. in fact, i had the privilege and honour of experiencing the three happy childhoods of my own kids growing up. i have been compensated for my own catastrophic upbringing by 300%. con
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: SWEET Justice! by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:53 PM

here are some of my own personal experiences with vigilante justice. warning triggers warning triggers http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...8910#Post456902 http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...2979#Post442186 http://www.malesurvivor.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Dog Moon by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:23 PM

so beautiful.    visions.     conjured.      instincts.       stirred. your poem resonates deep in my dna. it really reminds me of one of my old favourites...
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: I Get By by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:09 PM

this is as good as it gets! absolutely awesome. all i can say is... i wish i wrote this. thank you.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: An Ode to Mysery by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 11:07 PM

i love this. the words speak to me, as i read them. it sings itself. i can hear the melody. well written.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ouch! by SmartShadow @ Yesterday at 09:51 PM

That's such a positive outlook. It sound like you have come a long way. I can relate the the hand injury. Bone pain is in a category of its own. Metaphorically speaking, I suppose surviving train wrecks is what we all have to get good at. I wish you
Poetry
Jump to new posts I will not feel guilty about that by ethereo222 @ Yesterday at 09:43 PM

Happiness should be the child's norm not fear not anxiety not guilt NOT SHAME The only kid in the class who begged the day not pass so fast I didn't hear what the teacher said blocked by anxiety consumed with dread the clock ticking away was al
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Escape #2: An Update by BraveFalcon @ Yesterday at 09:30 PM

Hi Husky. I wanted you to know that I just got caught up on your story. Sorry I haven't been around much. Congrats and I am proud of you. Hope everything is going well in your new life. Good luck in maintaining your separation from the "blood s
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Guilt and stuff by BraveFalcon @ Yesterday at 09:26 PM

Hi Txb. I'm sorry to hear about the turn things have taken for you recently. I guess the good news is that you've gotten through it and have survived it. I know for a while there things were going a little better for you. Can you put your finger on
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts ouch! by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 09:24 PM

well... i finally got back to work after 3 car accidents within a two year period and overcoming several months of pain that kept me from walking proper... then... on july 3 a big heavy box of metal fell on my hand and cut and smashed the tip of my
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Jump to new posts Re: What is good about you? by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 08:14 PM

what is good about me? i want to be good. i want to do good. i love.
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Jump to new posts Re: Translators wanted by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 07:49 PM

p.s. my japanese has gotten a lot better. i have been working and studying it steadily since my last post here. i have learned how to read and write the hiragana and the katakana, but my kanji recognition is very limited.
Poetry
Jump to new posts the trip by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 07:38 PM

take a trip with me through twisted history and tortured memory. a journey. an odyssey. escape from apathy. travel through misery. the agony and ecstasy of recovery and self discovery. develop dignity. embrace empathy. the brutal truth of h
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: LOVE in scripture by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 06:30 PM

some street preacher handed me this pamphlet the other day and i thought it was worth sharing. i found several versions of it on the internet. for your enjoyment, entertainment, and enlightenment... A LOVE LETTER FROM FATHER My Child, Y
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How do I know there is a God... by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 06:16 PM

Re: How do I know there is a God... good question: whenever i contemplate this conundrum - i find courage and comfort in this scripture... "Because that which is known about God is evident within them; for God made it evident to them. For
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Anyone here who is currently writing a book? by WriterKeith @ Yesterday at 06:14 PM

Coming back to this post....have any of you published yet? We'll support you.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: New to site and to healing process after 45+ years by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:50 PM

i love what you wrote. your words of wisdom are welcome here, as are you. let us seek wisdom together, but let us be careful and gentle in our probing. "For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief." -
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bitterness... by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:36 PM

Originally Posted By: dark empathyI often find the idea of total hatred for everyone very tempting. I read a wonderful metaphore the other day, from a novel by Tad Williams where a man, who is himself a complete psychopath said "The world is a l
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Information about the Abused Becoming Abusers by NoSimpleMachine @ Yesterday at 05:20 PM

Thank you Anomalous! With so much CSA discussion popping up in the news (at least, I'm seeing lots of articles and stuff in my Facebook timeline lately), the "victims become abuser" myth is clearly still strongly held by a significant porti
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Information about the Abused Becoming Abusers by WriterKeith @ Yesterday at 05:06 PM

An important article that shouldn't be lost in the archived threads. Quote: Hi Guys, How many of us, and how many in society have heard "if a male was sexually abused, he will become an abuser?" This is said with conviction and without the speaker
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Do I have to forgive? KEN SINGER comment by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:38 PM

i went through this struggle. i will "weigh in" by sharing this repost of my own experience. Healing through forgiveness http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...2551#Post432551 i can honestly say that i have closure. each of
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