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Jump to new posts Re: There'ss comfort knowing I'm not alone by Lumpy @ Today at 05:00 AM

Thanks Mates for the warm Welcome. I really want to Thank you guys for taking the time to respond back to me. It's actually very healing for me in ways I never really expected. I'm still very overwhelmed and really trying to pace my self so that
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Jump to new posts Re: I don't know what I'm doing with my life by don64 @ Today at 03:55 AM

Sending you love and support, SNL. Don
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Jump to new posts Re: Coping with the Inner Child by don64 @ Today at 03:40 AM

Hi Doug, For me, my inner child is where all the damage resides, and unfortunately has been the place that has run my life. Bringing my inner child into consciousness and beginning to teach my inner child the nature of consequences seems to be the
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Jump to new posts Re: friends by don64 @ Today at 03:27 AM

Hi Hopein14, My greatest asset is my ability to learn. For me, my ability to learn is a facet of my ability to love. I've been through some great difficulties over the years, and identify with some of your journey. I read somewhere 'I discover wh
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Jump to new posts Re: dreams by JW1230 @ Yesterday at 10:13 PM

Hi Bob, I'm happy for the positive movement in your dreams. Hopefully it will continue for you and you can get more restful, restorative sleep Peace, John
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Jump to new posts Re: Public to the rescue! ****TRIGGERS***** by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 08:51 PM

My father never touched me and he also never stopped my mother from hitting me with a broom handle, shoe or the famous "your father's belt" which she used with good results especially when she used the buckle end. I think the only thing tha
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Jump to new posts Re: Sorry Guys..... by Banjo596 @ Yesterday at 07:37 PM

That made me smile
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Jump to new posts Re: Another update Concerned_husky by Tarobuns108 @ Yesterday at 01:55 PM

So happy to hear you're alright! I was a bit worried when I saw you didn't post for a long time.
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Jump to new posts Re: First counselling session tomorrow by dark empathy @ Yesterday at 03:34 AM

Thanks Don. It's not feeling like that today I admit, but I'll try the thing at least.
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Jump to new posts Re: Finally kicking my abuser in the teeth (in mind) by don64 @ Yesterday at 01:49 AM

It seems to me that wanting to confront my abusers would be motivated by a need for them to be different. I don't. I need me to be different. What has to change for me is the parts of them I incorporated in myself, not them. Don
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Jump to new posts Re: Well Sh**!! by tbkkfile @ Yesterday at 01:26 AM

Just seen the picture above from life magazine, wow that takes me back, over here in the UK I'd grown up before you could buy skateboards off the shelf so we had to make our own. Near where I lived there was a bridge over the railway that didn't have
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Jump to new posts Re: ouch! by tbkkfile @ Yesterday at 01:13 AM

Hey Victor, glad to hear that everythings OK and that you're doing well.
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Jump to new posts Re: Finding Help by Anony_mous @ 09/19/14 10:37 PM

Castle, thank you, this is great, I wasn't aware of these resources. Thank you!
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Jump to new posts Re: "Rise above the Storm"...(my new tattoo) by victor-victim @ 09/19/14 09:46 PM

congrats on the tat. i love my body, and i love my tattoos. they tell stories and start conversations. i have earned my scars, and i have always considered tattoos as beautiful scars. it is a positive twist on an old bad habit of self mutilation
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Jump to new posts Re: Will it ever get better by gettingstronger @ 09/19/14 09:01 PM

Absolutely. Love and peace to all of you who love a survivor. If I could, I'd pay to fly you all so you could be together, and I'd throw in a case of wine (and cookies) for good measure. I see in you what I see in my wife, and it's amazing. Bob
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Jump to new posts Re: Why is it so difficult? by Still @ 09/19/14 08:43 PM

Originally Posted By: PhoenixRising He wants to live fully. Why the fuck does it have to be so difficult? Being at the end of your description is not why I selected those sentences. They are the words that resonate, and I do not mean that in any
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: God of your mind Or the True and living God ? by victor-victim @ 09/19/14 08:31 PM

i have been busy building houses of sticks and straws and stones, and many have collapsed and burnt down and blown over, but my foundation of faith in christ is as firm as forever. i have been saved. i will be transformed. i have survived. i w
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by JayBro @ 09/19/14 06:59 PM

Hey SayItRight! It is my pleasure to post here on this forum. I thought about what I would have benefitted from and (rightly) assumed that others would also. That's why I requested Male Survivor create this particular message board. I remember the
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Jump to new posts Re: I do not want to do this by Sven @ 09/19/14 05:21 PM

Good to hear it went well! And yeh... It's always way worse in our head then in reality it seems huh. Keep us up to date... Good to hear from you!
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Jump to new posts Re: Priest Abuse / Recovered Memory Question by KMCINVA @ 09/19/14 03:57 PM

Oxford There may have been reports against him, but years ago the Diocese would just transfer the priest. The Bishop from my Diocese admitted destroying records and shuffling priest around to give them a fresh start. I bet most of these priest are n
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Jump to new posts Re: Scottish Independence referendum by txb @ 09/19/14 11:35 AM

Iím disappointed. Along with 1.6 million other people. My twitter feed is jammed with people joining the SSP or the SNP now though, and #dontvotelabourscotland was trending earlier. (Cameron doesnít need to remove Scottish voting powers. Labour shot
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Jump to new posts Re: Ten Years by tbkkfile @ 09/19/14 08:43 AM

A relative newbie on here but sadly not to life. Not sure what I would have done if I hadn't found you guys. David

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