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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Is anyone going to the conference? by healingheart @ Today at 09:41 PM

Im going and I wondered if anyone else is... wondering how others are feeling about it.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Going out of town for work by Sven @ Today at 09:00 PM

Ask yourself: is it a rational belief? Probably not right? What can you do to calm yourself down some? ipod with music and headphones? A walk to relax before going to bed? Some mindfullnes? etc... Have a good trip!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Penn State Surprise! by Still @ Today at 08:53 PM

They are playing U Mass @ Penn on Saturday. That's the time to make a showing. lion [lahy-uh n] Spell Syllables Examples Word Origin noun 1. a large, usually tawny-yellow cat, Panthera leo, native to Africa and southern Asia, having a tufted tail
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Public to the rescue! ****TRIGGERS***** by randombreeze @ Today at 08:51 PM

We live in a selfish, sick society where the marginalized, weaker and neediest among us are treated as if they just don't matter. People would much rather have their football fantasy lineup remain intact than see any of these animals held accountab
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Darkness: A place of safety or danger? by randombreeze @ Today at 08:23 PM

Though provoking and well written personal account of how environmental factors can stay with us long after the abuse ends. My abuser liked to sneak into the bedroom while I slept, long after the sun had set, so I can't relate completely. I do reca
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: So ok I bean trying to heal.. by forgive777 @ Today at 05:24 PM

Thanks Rich it's just weird stuff. I never thought I would of gone thru a Homosexual act as a grown man, but I know it wasn't me and was really thinking of my abuse that i was thinking about during that time. That's why iam all messed up sexually rit
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts The perp that lurks by randombreeze @ Today at 04:21 PM

The following is a slightly edited, for purposes of length, and exclusion of my reply to his specific situation, copy of an email I sent this morning to a fellow survivor and MS member. It's much longer than I'd be comfortable posting, or even rea
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Sleeping in separate rooms by sugarbaby @ Today at 03:44 PM

Some days the only 'tool' I have in my 'arsenal' is a sledgehammer. So after some regrouping and a bit of a chat we worked this out a bit.
Jump to new posts Re: Greetings & some thoughts by Nothing Man @ Today at 03:03 PM

Welcome to a place of healing and peace. We stand with you.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Hello Everyone!! by lapchinj @ Today at 02:19 PM

I think that the disclaimer on the forum really sucks. What does MS think we're going to do, post Porn? Makes me feel like I belong to a pedophile ring. I thought about overnight and had to say something. It sort of turns me off. Sorry if I'm off bas
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How do you deal with being triggered by tbkkfile @ Today at 12:52 PM

Thanks for all of the feedback, it's given me pause for thought. What I hadn't bargained on was the voracity of the Flashbacks, I'd never experienced anything like that before, yes I'd gone through things with my T but this was like actually being b
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: SWEET Justice! by Still @ Today at 12:39 PM

with permission only...(((tbkkfile)))
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Going Forward by woodenshoes @ Today at 10:21 AM

1Lifenow Very Well said.I can relate to your statements. Made me smile as i see my progress. ws
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: First counselling session tomorrow by dark empathy @ Today at 03:35 AM

Thanks for the support. To be honest my last counselling experience was a dead disaster, sinse the university counselling service just weren't prepared to do much, and the fact I saw four different people in the space of 18 months didn't help either.
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Hypnotherapy? by pufferfish @ Yesterday at 11:47 PM

black_bicycle Do you need hypnotherapy? It might depend on your age when it started. I was not yet 4 when abuse started. But some light hypnosis got it rolling. Puffer
Jump to new posts Re: A Singularity by Suwanee @ Yesterday at 10:46 PM

The singularity allusion is so appropriate. When I first began to deal with this stuff, I felt like I was caught in a current taking me somewhere I didn't want to go. It was the proverbial "up a creek without a paddle." The thought of bei
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Good Triggers by Suwanee @ Yesterday at 10:12 PM

They do exist. For me, they usually come in the form of sounds--the sounds of katydids in the trees, cicadas, or the music in my headphones. I'm so audio-centric, so it makes sense that certain songs or sounds trigger the really good and the reall
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling misunderstood by jas4159 @ Yesterday at 06:08 PM

everyone is important and no one is irrelivent. i think being misunderstood is awasy of liffe ofr us. as unailras it is - just getting over it is BS and not being hypersensitive in our situation is vertually impossible. i hope your day gets bette
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I do not want to do this by jas4159 @ Yesterday at 06:03 PM

I am so sorry for htis. i can't imagine how hard it is for you and i hope you find the strength to take care of yourself and get the surgrery. I can't imagine how painful this must be. your in my prayers and good luck. Don't let the abuse take an
International Conference
Jump to new posts Looking for roommate at 2014 conference by mesa74 @ Yesterday at 03:10 PM

Hello, My name is Sam, and I'm 46yo. I'm looking to share a hotel room with someone that has plans to attend the male survivor conference this october 2014. Please send me a private message if you are interested in splitting the cost of a hotel room

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