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Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hello there MaleSurvivors! by Nothing Man @ Today at 01:11 PM

Hello and welcome. Here you will find a lot of guys who can completely identify with what you have been put through and what is happening right now. We support each other and share our strength and experiences to help us all heal. I'm glad you fou
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Penis questions for survivors by dark empathy @ Today at 12:35 PM

@Acorn, fare enough, different people have different journies. My lady told me quite honestly (and truthfully), that in her opinion what I needed was to know! that I could! be loved. For me, one of the things that hurt most, was that my abuse left m
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: molested by my older brother by TJ jeff @ Today at 11:30 AM

Welcome to the site Searching 13 - I hope that you find much healing here my brother is 16 months older than me - we did a fair amount of sexual stuff with each other (though I don't see him as an "abuser" because the uncle was doing thing
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: A piece of movie music trivia by LinEar @ Today at 10:47 AM

Ha, love this! Thanks for posting.
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: seriously messed up gender confusion by Acorn2Oak @ Today at 06:33 AM

Oh, I suppose I should add that I feel that in reality, people are people and what we consider masculine and feminine in this culture is mostly conditioned gender roles imposed from childhood. I suspect that if children were encouraged to discover an
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Doing the math TRIGGERS by Logan @ Today at 05:01 AM

Iaccus. I agree that it is very disturbing to process and realize, but I try to remind myself that there are those out there of which CSA has occurred to them one or "only" a couple of times and yet it is just as damaging because it is the
Military Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Minneapolis MST group possibility by Luckylarry1 @ Today at 03:40 AM

Chris I have today finished with my 12 week program at the trauma center, VA, Ft. Thomas KY., and am finally desiring to be a part of a MST discussion group. Hope my response isn't too late. Larry
Military Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: VA is lost by Luckylarry1 @ Today at 03:29 AM

OMG, thanks guys! I began to feel that I was the only man who had these struggles. Upon the cusp of blowing my third marriage I sought out help...for what I had no conscious idea, but somehow it had something to do with my 3 tours of helicopter duty
Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
Jump to new posts Re: WHAT DO OTHERS DO? IS THIS NORMAL? by Luckylarry1 @ Today at 02:59 AM

I am but searching for some conversation with another who could possibly understand a piece of me. That's all
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Thorn Technology Task Force by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 10:48 PM

Hey VV Thanks for the link. It's really very interesting and shows that there are large companies that due care in a big way. I've been going through their site and only wished that I could join in some way but was disappointed that there is nothing
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Graham James out on day parole - Oh Canada by unhappycamper @ Yesterday at 10:24 PM

Seems to me that, about the same time as James got his original 18-month slap-on-the-wrist sentence in the Sheldon Kennedy case, a perv in Kansas, USA, got 99 years for basically the same offense involving a young boy. I don't have any follow-up on t
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Prominent Australian entertainer arrested by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 09:09 PM

http://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/...ndecent-assault Harris, who is serving five and a half years in prison for a string of sex attacks on girls as young as seven, will be brought before magistrates next month. He is charged with seven furthe
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: support in hard times by Bowierocks @ Yesterday at 06:50 PM

Oops , double post , I am a technological ludite
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Exploring sexual attraction safely. by focusedbody @ Yesterday at 06:20 PM

Originally Posted By: dark empathyIt's the difference between a loving, intimate, equal conversation with two close friends, and yelling insults at someone through a megaphone. Thanks, Luke. This made me laugh. FB
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Looking for the Oprah part 2 wives of CSA men by une.vie.d.espoir @ Yesterday at 03:29 PM

yes for me
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Helping others when you barely help yourself by BFree27 @ Yesterday at 10:58 AM

**trigger warning** So this week has been extremely intense. I feel like I've been saying that a lot, but I don't know how else to describe it. I had my very first family meeting this week at work, and I was really hoping to get some kind of trai
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: recollected sensations ... possible triggers by manipulated @ Yesterday at 10:53 AM

((Shyshark)) I am sorry. Powerful poignant outline Shy.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Looking for friend, pen-pal!! by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 08:41 AM

Favero If you wish, I am available to PM or chat at times. I try to listen and give suggestions. I am glad you are reaching out, it is a way to heal for some. Remember we all heal differently. Take care and hope to hear from you. Kevin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Porn. Ugh. by Austin54 @ Yesterday at 04:16 AM

Asa, I find that it is when I am hormone driven that I am attracted to porn.... the best preventative medicine is closeness and sex with my wife. So maybe it is time for you to get back in the sack with the wife? Just saying... I find that when I
Progress
Jump to new posts Growing Pains by healingheart @ 02/11/16 10:04 PM

Ironically, the struggle to claim good things in my life is quite a painful struggle. Ive worked so hard in therapy through some dark times and maladaptive coping mechanisms (you know- self-destructive behaviors). I am building a good life for myse
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Catholic Bishops Not Obligated to Report CSA by victor-victim @ 02/11/16 06:30 PM

i, too, have a message for the pope and his bishops.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Breaking the Silence by victor-victim @ 02/11/16 06:15 PM

awesome! i am all about breaking the CONSPIRACY OF SILENCE! NO MORE SECRETS! NO MORE LIES!
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers - 400 by 30something @ 02/11/16 03:25 PM

((((((iaccus))))))
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: New Pope is a throwback to the twentieth century. by manipulated @ 02/11/16 02:57 PM

Time to charge, convict and jail a Bishop heading a school if they fail to report.

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