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Male Survivors
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While I can be rather vocal about not being in competition for worst or most extreme experiences with this CSA stuff, if others wish to compete for that "award" I figure I'll let them, I also have to watch my tendency to minimize my experie
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Male Survivors
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That's a really good response victor! That who thing was that I really felt this girl was gonna be the one I opened up and bam! All of a sudden she labeled me as a bisexual or even might turn gay! It was like WHAT I DO???
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Male Survivors
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Hebrew name (Daniyyel) meaning "God is my judge". DANIEL you hold the line Daniel. god will set things straight.
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Introductions
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((((((Pbert, Paul )))))) We will carry the banner forward with you at the forefront of our thoughts and in the core of our souls. Fly high and mighty and proud, fellow warrior.
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Male Survivors
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Great post. Thanks - good for perspective.
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Male Survivors
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Goodbye Paul, pbert53. We will miss you. Here is his Profile: http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showprofile&User=7772 Here is Paul's introduction to MS http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...2696#Post312696 Here is par
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Introductions
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Welcome to the MS forums. Thanks for your post.
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Male Survivors
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I have an exam in 1 day 10 hrs + I have a lot of reading/ work to do before then. So I won't be online here until after then. I'm not in a triggered state I just need to try and block out csa related thoughts and focus on my subject matter. Male su
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Introductions
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Welcome to the forums. Hope you find help here.
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Introductions
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Hey GB: Welcome to MaleSurvivor: I hope you find a lot of healing and help here: I certainly have. Tough story about the adoption: I am sorry. It must cut you deeply. Keep taking care of yourself on this journey of recovery and building and rec
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Poetry
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i understand completely. angry. afraid. alone.
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Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
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"All the talk about how courageous I am by therapists just goes out the window and I feel like crap. And this hit when I was already depressed. It makes me feel like I should have made him shoot me instead of let him rape me." -Jaifian i
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Male Survivors
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"We accept the love we think we deserve" Learn to love yourself and thank yourself for the things that you do for others and most importantly yourself. Once you begin to value yourself you will be able to accept others love and thus not
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Spirituality and Survivors
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LAD. wow. excellent. loved it. i agree. you know your scripture. and you seem to understand it in a way that is similar to my understanding. it has taken me years of study, inside and outside the bible, to come to the same conclusions
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: Life's A DreamI sat on the stairs, at 7 years old, with my cassette player, alone, all by myself, made sure no one else was around, singing along to a Righteous Brothers tape- singing "Unchained Melody" to.... my own f
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U.S. & World News
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Originally Posted By: victor-victimTRIGGER WARNING !! http://www.belch.com/blog/2012/08/05/creepy-ventriloquist-wanted-to-eat-little-boys/ http://www.foxnews.com/world/2012/08/04/...d-porn-network/ another accused pedophile ventriloquist.
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Introductions
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Thank you Mountainous Buck, that was great advice. And I will listen, and take it. I'm new to "dealing" with this openly like this, as you can no doubt tell, and I am finding that I tend to get carried away with the emotion. It's so hard to
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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Thank you. I will continue writing and hope to find some closure to this. If I can be of any help to you or your friend, I am glad to do it.
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Male Survivors
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Jennifer Freyd refers to this as "Betrayal Blindness". She's written a book called "Blind to Betrayal: Why We Fool Ourselves We Aren't Being Fooled" about it. Amazing Stanford graduate PHD professor of Psychology, amazing author,
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Male Survivors
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Iriquois proverb The tears in the eyes are essential to rainbow in your heart.
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Family and Friends
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Honestly, I would never contact him or suggest anything. Read the book "The Rules." If the approach doesn't work, as they write, it's "Next!"
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U.S. & World News
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Hi All, I attended a GOP Convention as a delegate, and spoke with the Governor's wife again very briefly. I asked her if she had looked at the Male Survivor website, as I gave her the site address after the convention breakfast last year. She said
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U.S. & World News
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Vermont Woman Admits Unlawful Sexual Contact with a Boy The consequences? Not much!10 years on the sex offenders registry Suspended sentance3 years probationMust earn her GED NEWPORT, Vt. (AP) - A Vermont woman who admitted that she had unlawful se
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Books, Music & Films for Survivors
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TRIGGERS in POP
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: travelerthe first time i saw the stars OMG Lee. You just made me remember something. The Mommybitch's house was across the street from my elementary school and there was a hill at the back of the school. When things got to b
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