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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by winter-rain @ 06/30/15 03:03 PM

1st perp molestation- pedophile, gay, lonely and bored of his l 2nd perp, used me in pornogrphy he was all business
Family and Friends
JW, I would certainly encourage you to *not* feel that it is pointless or hopeless to pursue a relationship. S has often expressed that same feeling to me, and actually cited that as his reason for ending our relationship (temporarily, at least), sa
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Undesirable trash by Magellan @ 06/30/15 02:14 PM

I can't stop this feeling coming out of me ... I'm undesirable and unlovable. I'm acutely aware of how dysfunctional I am regarding how people relate with each other. I'm unable to develop a rapport with others, and consequentially, I'm unable to b
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling left out - possible trigger warning by Rich1967 @ 06/30/15 12:57 PM

I too didn't have the same experience but I get what you are feeling. My T pointed out to me that as humans we are pack animals... we like feeling accepted by others. I think for men this is particularly true. We say that we don't need anyone but
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: confession by LinEar @ 06/30/15 11:40 AM

Thank you vv for that powerful testimony!
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Should I tell my wife? by Winhamness @ 06/30/15 10:27 AM

Originally Posted By: payneYou are right, her reaction to the nightie thing shut me down instead of helping me to open up. Exactly. To me, that's the sort of thing that marriage counseling is made to address. She has to be able to understand how
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Equality by victor-victim @ 06/30/15 07:13 AM

so, Nothing Man, i was wondering if this is big news wherever you live. so i did some research on ohio, assuming you still reside in that state. again, assuming this information is reasona
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling left out - possible trigger warning by traveler @ 06/30/15 05:47 AM

Bobcat - here is another possible explanation. people tend to unconsciously "mirror" or copy what others are doing. think about how one person yawns and then others do the same. or when someone laughs, others are also likely to follow. i h
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