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Male Survivors
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BF ... you're not a vampire ... you're a ham! lol
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Male Survivors
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To tough to respond, Matt, but wanted you to know I also hear you. Your story does trigger and I am so very sorry and you are right... you are safe now. b
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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Some days I feel like I know myself very well. Other days I don’t recognize myself at all. I don’t act like the man who wants to be truly loved. I say I want a loving and honest friendship but I pervert my friendships and seem to always find a way to
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Male Survivors
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Hi Matt. Why did he hurt you? This Mr. L was an opportunistic sexual predator. When he had you in that situation, I don't believe he saw little Matt, or even saw a person before him at all. He only saw a fleeting opportunity to act on his sick compu
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Male Survivors
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Live life the way u want so when u get old you'll be saying remember when instead of what if!
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Male Survivors
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Matt, Howl away, man! Get it out there. You may never know the answers to those questions you are asking. But, that doesn't mean they shouldn't be asked and put out there to the universe. I have been right where you are, asking those same quest
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Male Survivors
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Hi Bill. Thanks for taking the time to read and reply to my post. As I feared, it obviously didn't really resonate with anybody but that's ok. I didn't really expect it to. I'm kind of a freak and there are certain things that go on with me that are
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Sexual Identity Issues
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IDK but I suspect he is just not afraid anymore. No more fear of: - what others think of him - what he senses he is expected to do and be - what he might lose - being wrong - being alone - retribution - just being human, making mistakes and learni
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Male Survivors
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Me too. Thanks for the question, PoorSoft, and for the really helpful reply Sam. My partner and my T have said versions of this to me in the past, but I could not understand. I'm beginning to now. I guess now I'm ready.
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Introductions
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hi pnutbttrjlly, Thanks for sharing your story. Hope you find the forums supportive. Don't have answers to ?'s, but wanted to welcome you.
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Male Survivors
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That's the question I asked the T today. TRIGGERS The perp had me completely under his power. He did everything he wanted to me and I did everything he told me to do to him, I was so scared. And at some point, what, he looked down at a kid in
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Male Survivors
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Thank you, Sharkey. I appreciate your message.
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Introductions
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Hello, I am new to this forum and website resource. I wanted to share my brief story, and then I had some questions from people to see what kind of advice they have have, or their stories and progress. My quick background: First year at college I wa
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Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
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Thanks, David Mac. Will chew on that for a good while. Best to you too, Focused
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Male Survivors
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Hi guys. I suppose I have a slightly different take on these things. I agree that pedo bear and Herbert from Family Guy are fucked-up things to be made a joke and that neither of them are really funny. I don't like it when people make child abuse jo
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Male Survivors
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Do you mean like a deferral, Husky? Like focusing outward to something one can't save, instead of taking care of the manageable (hopefully) business of saving oneself? Might be true. Although I'd put forward that my own glacial movement toward healt
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Male Survivors
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Thanks husky for this thread, and everyone who spoke up. I've gotten to the point where I have no time for the people in my church who are motivated by feeling like they are better than anyone else because of their faith identification. Because I
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Male Survivors
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Ok, why not? My original avatar. This was taken at my fifth birthday. For some reason, I was angry and was sitting in the middle of the floor stewing while all the other kids played and had fun..... at MY birthday party! LOL! My mom says she doesn'
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Male Survivors
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Sam, I really appreciate your reply. I needed to read that. Thank you. D Originally Posted By: SamVPoorsoft, a bit more would be helpful, but looking at your past posts, may I offer? You are concerned other actions in your life may have played a
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Male Survivors
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Quote:Looking back at it now, I realize that a lot of this was part of the grooming process. This sense of grandiosity, of always trying to become better than everyone else at everything because I had internalized the destructive pattern laid down by
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Off Topic
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This made me smile... as a kid, the white belly warmers that rode above the jeans... now... fruit of the loom whitey tighties... and at home when doing chores... loose gym shorts and commando... but I am alone so its really okay.
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Male Survivors
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I didn't have a clue about pedobear. Soooo, went to Youtube. And yeah, I am old enough to manly say I am MORTIFIED... and highly pissed that this, a symbol for child rape, is supposed to be funny. I found no humor. Only the age old disgust of pe
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Sexual Identity Issues
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On June 20th 2013, Alan Chambers the leader of Exodus International, one of the largest 'ex-gay' organizations worldwide, will once again be appearing on "Our America" hosted by Lisa Ling. Chambers first appearance on the program in 2011 e
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Classifieds
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Hi Dra. I'm glad to hear you want to start something similar, do you live in the area where there's not have this kind of group ? anyways, let's keep in touch
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Male Survivors
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Poorsoft, a bit more would be helpful, but looking at your past posts, may I offer? You are concerned other actions in your life may have played a larger role in the dysfunction you suffered, even questioning CSA at all. If you are trying to prove it
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