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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Heartfelt Apology by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 03:34 PM

Zero, It's my understanding that you've left the site and your posts have been deleted. I hate to see you go, but best wishes as you continue with the rehab. I hope it's exactly what you need to continue the healing recovery, and help you to have a
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Sleeping Death by bluesky @ Yesterday at 03:19 PM

Thank you for you kind caring words and I am glade that the poem resonated with you. As for the death part I looked at it as the time in my life where the pain was so great I that I buried it until the only thing left was one of two choices death or
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Heartfelt Apology by bluesky @ Yesterday at 03:11 PM

As for me I don't know of any wrongdoing or need to apologize. Wishing you the best and good luck with the rehab and when you come back or are ready keep reaching out. Bluesky
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Survivng, Thriving, but Admitting Victimisation by learning2remember @ Yesterday at 02:09 PM

Thanks for the encouraging response. I'm glad there are people who understand.
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: The nurse in the night by learning2remember @ Yesterday at 02:00 PM

You've shared this in the right place. That was abuse; no question about it. I'm sorry it happened to you. I'm not sure what else to say. We're here.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: just some thoughts about my situation (triggers) by smc1972 @ Yesterday at 01:10 PM

I know for me I have been dealing with the same confussion over the pleasure then, how I would initiate things at time and how I still respond to memories. I have an extremely hard time even with the word abuse. I came to this site a couple of mont
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Shame, Shame by Serious Dave @ Yesterday at 11:00 AM

Hey Guys, Iíve been thinking about the shame that we all carry because of the abuse. In his book, Healing the Shame that Binds You, John Bradshaw makes a distinction between two types of shame; healthy [legitimate] shame and toxic [false} shame. L
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bad Night Upcoming Family Group Session by sorryson @ Yesterday at 08:05 AM

Everything was going well, I was feeling good and starting to real tackle my sexual abuse. My brother was moving away from his demons until...at his last session with Mama he asked, if one of your brothers did what Dad did, wander, act out and have n
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: God Sign by manipulated @ Yesterday at 07:50 AM

I too miss pufferfish' posts. Hope you are well.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: rave review by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 04:20 AM

incident at the union office. member denied documents. bullying and harassment. lies and disinformation. abuse and intimidation. constant contradiction. meeting ends in assault. chaos caught on camera. THE EVIDENCE: www.youtube.com/watch?
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: stuck dont know where to go by justplainme @ Yesterday at 04:05 AM

Hey Mark all that in my opinion is evil, ever see the movies where people come in contact with something bad and then they have it all over themselves, like venom attached to spider man to suck all it's goodness and life energy, he wrecked his relati
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Every Day Mindfulness by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 03:56 AM

today my mind is too full to be mindful. my memory got lost so i must be remindful.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: survivor curious sex with men - Trigger warning by Mishka95673 @ Yesterday at 03:22 AM

Hello banterings, Thanks for your insiteful comments. You may have misread something I wrote - he is the one who has the "icky feelings" when close to me, not me. I have no issues with bisexuality or homosexuality at all - he has an issue
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Jump to new posts Re: These people! by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:46 AM

thanks, tbkkfile, that's one more reason for me to resist my morbid curiosity. i won't give that website a single glance or a second thought. for decades, i was forced to endure the distress of powerlessness, as the man who raped me and thr
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Conspiracy of Silence by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:33 AM

Pedophiles in Politics: An Open Source Investigation High-profile cases involving accusations of pedophilia in the highest ranks of political power are making headlines on both sides of the Atlantic. https://www.corbettreport.com/pedophiles-in-p
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts risk of exposure? by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:26 AM

triggering. confusing. illogical. illegal? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl...g-SamiJo-2.html http://www.sott.net/article/244696-Pedop...tes-child-abuse very disturbing pictures of incomprehensible parenting.
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Jump to new posts Re: These people! by tbkkfile @ Yesterday at 02:23 AM

I wish I hadn't but I did, I clicked the link!! These people are sick, at one point they even ask the question "What if it was consensual?"
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Jump to new posts Re: These people! by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 01:25 AM

i don't know about anyone else here, but this gives me a big red flag! http://www.fbi.gov/news/stories/2011/may/predators_051711/predators_051711 https://www.facebook.com/childonlinesafety/notes networking. funding. budgets. strategy
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Jump to new posts Re: These people! by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 01:17 AM

i can't even click on the pic. i hovered. but my finger could not complete the mouse manoeuvre. maybe later. i honestly think i will not be able to stomach the rhetoric. i am more concerned with the rehabilitation and recovery of survivors than
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Trans porn, bisexuality, crossdressing, surviving by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 12:31 AM

i like the way you put it. 4 points. i like looking at things in this way. breaking complex issues down into simple equations. although, we know, the equation is only a model; a way for us to represent something in agreed upon terms for the purp
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Jump to new posts Re: These people! by Still @ Yesterday at 12:30 AM

If one out of 100,000 previously convicted sex offenders re-offends, I'm completely behind the contemporary efforts to isolate them. One offense carries a life-long result for the victim. I'm fully supportive of the same for the offender. Let's not
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Jump to new posts Re: Gunstore with special pricetags by Still @ Yesterday at 12:23 AM

Where I live, it can take the police anywhere from 15 - 120 minutes to respond to an urgent call. Self defense is a personal responsibility - period. Delegating or relegating one's own defense to a disinterested party is beyond foolish. I have two
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: survivor curious sex with men - Trigger warning by banterings @ 05/02/15 11:47 PM

Mishka, Read my post Trans porn, bisexuality, crossdressing, surviving. You will see that bisexuality is normal because our bodies are built to be bisexual by default. He may also want to participate in these acts as a way of taking control back.
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: The nurse in the night by woodenshoes @ 05/02/15 11:25 PM

Dolphinboy She had no right to your body. It was totally wrong. She is a perp. I'm so sorry for the effects it caused you. Ws
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by Mishka95673 @ 05/02/15 09:25 PM

Hi Blue, You raise a good point and I understand the perspective. Before I say how my BF and I have worked out what you describe, I wanted to add some more info. The greater deceptions have severely traumatized us; people we trusted violated our tru
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