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Jump to new posts Re: reflections by Shyshark @ 6 minutes 12 seconds ago

(((iaccus))) I hurt so much when I see you like this. Don't do this to yourself. You have so much to be proud of ... and if for no other reason ... you have been and are a good Father ... and you have a loving wife. Don't you think she has more th
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: 180 by kcinohio @ 40 minutes 43 seconds ago

Great reminder! thanks.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: reflections by Bluedogone @ 59 minutes 54 seconds ago

Hi Iaccus, Sorry to hear you're in such a low place right now, and I hope it is short lived. As one who is fast approaching 80 I can certainly identify very often with some of your feelings of worthlessness and being derailed from my purpose. I alwa
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: reflections by finallyhere @ Yesterday at 11:09 PM

Sorry to hear you are so down. I've been through all those same feelings with the exception of the doctors but as I near retirement I see them maybe not so far off. I would guess your wife and family would disagree with you. Keep that in mind and yo
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Looking to rebuild from my past. by Michgem @ Yesterday at 09:08 PM

Been a trying week. I am having returned problems. When I was young just after the first attack, I came down with real bad ulcer's. In the military I did not have them. I had figured my ulcers were from drinking milk. I did not drink milk after I
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Your life in Six Words by betrayed boy @ Yesterday at 09:07 PM

why has it been so hard
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts reflections by iaccus @ Yesterday at 08:47 PM

I have been thinking about how valuable or non-valuable I am in this world. The only real monetary value that I see in my life anymore is allowing my wife to collect my pension and keeping doctors in business. They've taken away my career, my sense o
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: hi guys i'm betrayed boy by Michael1965 @ Yesterday at 08:18 PM

Hey BB I like those before me, am glad that you are here. I am sorry that you endured the things that you did. I have been fortunate to count you as a friend. We are all here to support and comfort each other. I am a PM away , now that you know what
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: Fun with puns by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 08:15 PM

whenever i feel tired and exhausted, i get my tires rotated and my exhaust flushed.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Tired and exhausted by Banjo596 @ Yesterday at 08:14 PM

I will never willingly clock out of this life, but sometimes wonder if there might be a better one next time around. You have done a good job of stating what I believe many of us feel, thanks for sharing, i think most everyone understands.
Poetry
Jump to new posts life sentence by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 08:07 PM

i tried to fuck the shame away. i tried to smoke the pain away. i learned to laugh and cry and play. i learned to meditate and pray. i kept my chin up everyday, but suffering is here to stay.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Tired and exhausted by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 07:48 PM

my heart goes out to you. i often feel the same way.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by woodenshoes @ Yesterday at 07:37 PM

Jeff I believe you have the strength to win this. You are strong and we are here for support. It makes me smile reading the strength in your words. Please call us for support brother anytime. You will succeed. Woodenshoes
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Shown videos as a precursor (TW) by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 07:27 PM

I am struggling with guilt now but back then I didn't. When I was 14 and first faced with doing stuff to two little kids I knew that I didn't want to do it that in some way it was wrong and so I hesitated not wanting to do that. That brought instant
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 07:02 PM

I just thought that I would write about how I'm handling my triggers now. I am trying to give up drinking since this past Monday. It's been hard so far but I think I have a good chance at quitting. The problem now is that since I can't dull my sense
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Any suggestion??? by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 06:56 PM

Hi MYTIME ... I'm so glad you found a T with whom you feel comfortable. The guys before me have touched on pretty much everything I have to say ... and I would like to emphasize one point brought up by Robert1000. Oversharing. Because all of this i
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by iaccus @ Yesterday at 05:48 PM

My brother I can relate to what you're saying unfortunately that's not the reality of the world we live in. You are not alone, take care my brother.
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Autism / Aspergers by Becoming Other @ Yesterday at 02:57 PM

A reply to someone who is somewhat supportive, but only somewhat: Thank you for sharing your views. I too am not going to sit on any fences or accept any pity. So what I want is to form a band of comrades. And you can expect to find that this includ
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: hi guys i'm betrayed boy by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 01:45 PM

welcome to ms.org! i'm glad you found us and decided to use your voice. happy to have you here, and looking forward to hearing more from you, as you feel comfortable. i myself, am 53, so i am not very technological either. other than email a
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ? About abuse by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 01:40 PM

TryingtoLive Excellent question and all I know is what I have been told. We are all wired differently from birth. Our environment influences us but two people in the same environment can react differently to the same influences. So the inner worki
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: 2 buddy. by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 01:40 PM

You can "buddy" someone by clicking on his name, select view profile, and then "add UBB buddies." NM
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: As a victim of child pornography.... by Robert1000 @ Yesterday at 12:17 PM

Wow. That's impressive. Really impressive. Keep healing.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Any suggestion??? by Robert1000 @ Yesterday at 12:14 PM

Hey Mytime, I think your post was excellent, because you just spelled out so much stuff. Good job. Like our brothers above, I want to express my support for you and to encourage you to look for support from people who are prepared to be there for yo
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Tired and exhausted by Robert1000 @ Yesterday at 11:58 AM

I want to echo the other support you've received here. I appreciate how hard it is to write a post like you did. It was a step in the right direction. For better or worse, all of us here have been on the same path as you. And we're here, too. We're s
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ? About abuse by Robert1000 @ Yesterday at 11:53 AM

Hey Tryingtolive, I wish I knew. For me, looking back on my life, I can see that after the abuse happened, I acted out and struck out at a lot of people in my life. I was also terrified and fulled with self-hatred which even went so far as to includ
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