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Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Jwmcd2 @ Today at 08:37 PM

Sven, I wanted to know regardless what you're going through, you're my friend and will continue to be my friend as well. You're strong and driven because you feel weak and stationary. You're powerful and patient because you push against fatigue and
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Well that takes the CAKE! by Magellan @ Today at 07:40 PM

Thanks guys. This has been a weird roller coaster. Starting with losing a $4,000 hearing aid while riding a roller coaster. It was lost. Then, thinking I couldn't afford a replacement (4k is a LOT), I discovered after doing some research that Co
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: My husband, the abused abuser... by Mishka95673 @ Today at 05:40 PM

Sorry Kroi, Been a massively busy week. The first thing I want to say is that you can support a person and not support a behavior. Criminal charges cannot be placed against your husband at this time but that doesn't mean he can't get treatment and m
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by newground @ Today at 05:15 PM

hey bud try to remember that whatever was done to you was just that. it came from the outside and you had no choice. There was no option. it is true that no one said anything. no one cared but that was then. as it stands now you have shown yourself
Family and Friends
Target sorry this is late Yes you can PM me. Any one can if they want Judith
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: My husband, the abused abuser... by kroi @ Today at 04:30 PM

I guess my topic is too difficult/taboo. Sadly there has to be a lot of relatives/friends/families who experence this - but I understand its too hard admitting and talking about.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Sven @ Today at 04:10 PM

Thanks guys... Been a rought night/day/year/years i guess I just don't know how to handle this much longer I'm scared every day, have to look over my shoulder every day, every time i go out its a risk... never know when they will strike though.. but
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Taking back memories...request for help... by Bardo @ Today at 02:43 PM

I do wish you luck! I know it will work out really well and be a new memory to add to all of your old. This time all good. Keep us posted. Freeman
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Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by Sterling @ Today at 01:41 PM

thanks Peter, - very kind! awesome guy. Your family is lucky to have you! hugs, talk soon G
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: woman perp by Sterling @ Today at 01:33 PM

hate you. hate hate hate. I woll never see. them. I don't know. I know that I am gay. and can give a rats ass about fag or whatever people have to hear about that. I don't give a fuck! I care about me, children , life. and want to share t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts ''thin skinned''/ a man rambling *some triggers* by sportinrucks @ Today at 01:13 PM

I have spent most of my money and time since I was in 5th grade either trying not to get ''fucked over'' or ''not be a pussy'' or not get laughed at. I'm 30 now so that's 20 years. Still got bullied everyday. Then if I did get into a relationship, it
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: low points by bey @ Today at 12:10 PM

i have never ever been as miserable and terrified as i am most of the day now. leaving the house isn't happening, and if i force myself i am triggered and dissociated for most of the time. i'm forgetting conversations. i feel like i'm going to explod
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Judd @ Today at 10:49 AM

Not a ramble but thoughts needing to just be heard man. You are not alone, we stand with you
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by Nothing Man @ Today at 08:00 AM

Indeed, a belated Happy Canada Day!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Taking back memories...request for help... by highflight @ Today at 08:00 AM

Adding to this post that I wrote last summer... Tomorrow I am heading back again to spend 2 weeks as a volunteer. Last year was 3 days (with my wife and kids), this year it will be 2 weeks...just me. Anxious and excited at the same time. This year
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Nothing Man @ Today at 07:57 AM

(((Sven))) I am so sorry you are having such a hard time right now. The damage our perps did to us is truly life-changing and lifelong. I guess the only thing I can say is that what was done to you was not your fault. Children can only comply, th
Poetry
Jump to new posts poem 62 by dark empathy @ Today at 07:44 AM

Shadow's fire and shadows hate, excreter on the golden gate, Shadow's art and Shadow's skill, iron as unwilling will. Shadow's mind and Shadow's spite, blood that screams in silent night, Shadow's eyes and Shadow's heart, tares this weeping world
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by Michael1965 @ Today at 07:05 AM

Sven I am sending you love, courage and strength! The feelings of being used are crippling and hurtful. Please know that we are here for you and we support your need to vent, scream, ramble or whatever. Isolation and loneliness are the worst things
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by bey @ Today at 06:33 AM

So sorry for what you've been going through, man. It is so sad and unfair. Being used by people like that, wondering why nobody gave a shit about how it would affect you, nobody standing up to help... its a huge thing to have to bear. Thinking of you
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by don64 @ Today at 02:58 AM

Hi Sven, I'm sorry you're feeling so low right now. Your true nature is just as pristine and pure as it ever was. You have had some pretty traumatizing experiences for your years. For me, guilt and shame and disgust fade away as I realize I only
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by justplainme @ Today at 01:16 AM

You have the power to choose. Don't believe that they get to set the course for your life. This is your life, you have a choice over what you do. That feeling of shame and dirt is very powerful but i know that there is more beyond it, you are fightin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Equality by victor-victim @ Today at 01:01 AM

Originally Posted By: Nothing Man happy kanada day, eh?
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by lionking @ Today at 12:59 AM

I couldn't offer anything right now, but all my compassion, I send it all to you, Sven. Just like husk, my heart breaks as well. I hope you remain strong, have courage. I hope that you will see it through someday and somehow, we are here for you, my
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My mind is spinning *triggers* by concerned_husky @ Today at 12:56 AM

Sven... Ramble away as much as you need to. My heart really breaks for what you've been through and for the situation you're in. We're listening, and we're here for you. (((Sven)))
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Jump to new posts Re: Happy Canada Day by victor-victim @ Today at 12:55 AM

sending you all much good love from kanadaland!
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