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Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bible Study (notes) by nltsaved @ Today at 02:41 AM

Bible study 9/18/2014 Long Suffering Long suffering is something that is hard to wrap our heads around more so than the other ingredients of the fruit of the spirit. Excepting pain without complaining is hard to do but if you begin to focus on over
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bible Study (notes) by nltsaved @ Today at 02:41 AM

That is awesome ,I love it .
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Your fallen nature is not a toy by nltsaved @ Today at 02:00 AM

Playing with your fallen nature ,sin as if it a toy that you get to pick up and put down when ever you feel like it is very dangerous and is blatantly denying the power in Which Christ died for you to have . This can become very costly to you. God wa
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Hypnotherapy? by black_bicycle @ Today at 12:32 AM

I really appreciate that response, cthulhu. I found some hypnotherapists in the area and am just planning on consultations for now. What alternative methods would you suggest to unearth these memories? The reason I want to do this is that it seems li
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts I don't know what I'm doing with my life by SilentNoLonger @ Today at 12:12 AM

I apologize in advance if this is a long post, but I just need to get a few things out while they are fresh and before I get too scared to post here and assume that my life isn't important enough for other people to worry about. So it's been a while
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by SayItRight @ Yesterday at 11:41 PM

Originally Posted By: JayBro ... [*]the phrase "kiddie porn"- I find that really dehumanizing, degrading, and disrespectful when discussing this topic JayBro: Wasn't planning on participating in this forum, especially as it's public, but
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Facebook by Jude @ Yesterday at 11:30 PM

I finally did it. I started a Facebook page. I did it just as a way to keep up with my teenage and grown children, and am rejecting everyone else's friend requests. Its already a pain in the ass. But there is one thing I was able to do. I searched f
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: So ok I bean trying to heal.. by Jude @ Yesterday at 11:16 PM

Forgive777, One encounter does not define your sexuality. Many of us have experienced feelings of same-sex-attraction, and acted on them, sometimes in self-destructive ways. You are not alone here. Don't be so hard on yourself, or your cousin. Just
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Greetings & some thoughts by Jude @ Yesterday at 10:51 PM

Originally Posted By: BobdaFarmer61...The things that happened were very long ago, but the scars from the wounds today are much worse than the actual injuries now..... I spent my life so far medicating the hurt with food, drugs, alcohol, sex, and a f
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: A Singularity by Jude @ Yesterday at 10:44 PM

Welcome Abyss, You have a gift for putting words to your feelings. Thank you for sharing this. We are here, not just to receive healing, but also to give it to one another. You cannot know how your post may help one of us, but experience tells me th
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Hello Everyone!! by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 10:00 PM

Hey JayaBro I think that's beautiful that you want to make a career of helping sexual abuse victims. It's also interesting that you were left alone for long periods of time. Just long enough to get sucked into internet porn. I was also left alone
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Priest Abuse / Recovered Memory Question by GeorgeMartin @ Yesterday at 09:38 PM

Human Beings traumatized, can and do have the ability to repress memories, and thereby have recovered memories. I was abused up to the age of 11 yrs. and I do not know when the sexual abuse stopped. But today years and years later (now in my 40's)
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Will it ever get better by journey4two @ Yesterday at 09:30 PM

Going Forward, was today any better for you?
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Will it ever get better by Going forward @ Yesterday at 08:34 PM

All I can say for today to the three of you is thank you for understanding. I so wish we could get together because unless someone is living this life it's hard to understand. I can't burden my husband with my sadness because he has too much of his o
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Priest Abuse / Recovered Memory Question by NoSimpleMachine @ Yesterday at 07:56 PM

Hi OxfordArms and welcome to MS. I was abused at age 3 by a neighbor and it was hidden from me until I was 28. The memories came back in sketchy form following some lifetime integration therapy sessions. The first time they came to me, I think I coi
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Priest Abuse / Recovered Memory Question by justplainme @ Yesterday at 07:28 PM

You know just to re affirm your memories. I would like to add that i was victimized at age 3 and had no recollection of it until i was 19. So if you sense it, most likely it did happen.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: rave review by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:31 PM

thank you so much for your empathy. it is still unwinding. major damage. all actions and attempts to repair relationships and reputations rejected. waiting is all i can do now.
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: Ten Years by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:26 PM

i echo your sentiments, andy. coming up on 11 years myself. i was silent for a looooong time. too long. sincere thanks for sharing.
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prayer by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 05:00 PM

pray for me. i struggle daily. anger. addiction. idolatry. big ego. strong faith but bad habits. sins of the flesh. thorns. wordly concerns. need fellowship and spiritual support from survivors.
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Triggers and How to Handle Them by JayBro @ Yesterday at 02:55 PM

Hi Everyone! I wanted to make this particular post for us to discuss what we find triggering from our experiences in child porn and other forms of media-related exploitation and your strategies to managing and reducing them. As I can imagine, there
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: First counselling session tomorrow by dark empathy @ Yesterday at 02:35 PM

Thanks people. @Dave, he did make that point himself indeed there is even a contract on the subject, however in a sense I don't want this to just be dancing around things, sinse if I can't address my genophobia, my abuse, and everything that goes
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Hello Everyone!! by JayBro @ Yesterday at 02:30 PM

Cthulhu und Jeff, thank you for sharing your stories. Cthulhu, you indicated that is was the first time you divulged into such detail about the abuse you experiences, and for that I commend you. That was really brave. I believe that the more we share
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Priest Abuse / Recovered Memory Question by OxfordArms @ Yesterday at 01:54 PM

Hi. I'm new to the forum and don't know where to put this question. Through the process of intensive therapy, I was able to recover memories of being abused by a priest when I was in grade school. I have clearer memories of being abused by an uncle
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Public to the rescue! ****TRIGGERS***** by Still @ Yesterday at 01:27 PM

Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Prayer by Obi @ Yesterday at 12:37 PM

i don't have a problem with prayer. i believe it can be a very powerful tool. however, i believe this thread should go to the spirituality forum instead. it could be very triggering to many survivors in this forum.
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