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Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: To " My Little Guy" by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 05:24 PM

... all the little guys ... it hurts my everything to think of them ... of mine ... I found me ... not long ago ... in my Mother's things after she died ... the only picture of me there is a as a small boy I cried and cried to find it ...'the little
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: I know- but husband didn't tell me- what now? by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 04:52 PM

That is a great question. I was approached by my father, quite innocently. One day I was driving him home from dialysis. He told me a something he had learned while having coffee with friends. One father mentioned his two sons had difficult lives a
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Jump to new posts I know- but husband didn't tell me- what now? by cns @ Yesterday at 04:44 PM

I could really use some advice from survivors and spouses. I found out that my husband was abused as a child, but my husband was not the one who told me. I was reading about a case online from my area (court action was over 10 years ago for abuse of
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Weird positive dream. WTF? by cant_remember @ Yesterday at 04:38 PM

The RV art project that requires cooperation could be about the different parts of your sub-conscience working together to aid in your recovery. It's a good dream! Cant
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Jump to new posts PTSD in Children and Teens by pufferfish @ Yesterday at 04:22 PM

PTSD in Children and Teens by US Dept of Veteran Affairs, Natl Center for PTSD http://www.ptsd.va.gov/public/pages/ptsd-children-adolescents.asp from MS in facebook Originally Posted By: PTSD in Children and Teens in facebook Dear Lala, My nine-y
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Jump to new posts Emptiness by TW16 @ Yesterday at 03:58 PM

I want to share something that happened to me while I was a teenager. Something that very very few know about. And fewer know the details. I don't know why it is bothering me so much lately, but I feel I need to get it off my chest, but I am terri
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Jump to new posts Re: don't think I'm good enough for a girl *suicide WT by Ben1977 @ Yesterday at 03:47 PM

Hi Dan, I'm going to try and give you some advice coming from my perspective and hopefully it will be helpful. Having been in similar situations and having the same kind of thoughts and feelings I know the kind of frustration you seem to be feeling.
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Jump to new posts Sad news by TW16 @ Yesterday at 03:43 PM

I don't know how many of you knew him, but this past weekend, pbert53 had passed away. A friend told me when had gone to wake him up, he found him dead. He said that he did CPR on him for 35 minutes, and the paramendices did everything they coould,
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Jump to new posts Re: desperate measures (ibogaine) by cant_remember @ Yesterday at 02:03 PM

I am very interested in learning more about this. Please report back to us. Cant
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Jump to new posts Re: Another dream, same theme by cant_remember @ Yesterday at 01:56 PM

What I find most interesting is that in both dreams the figure that my sub-conscience has used to represent the part of myself that is upset with me have been women in positions of authority -- a teacher and a family's eldest daughter (who was a midd
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Jump to new posts Combating isolation by peroperic2009 @ Yesterday at 01:41 PM

I've been trough my therapy collided with some terrible feelings of isolation lately. Recently in one session at the end in talk with my therapist we have had decided to tackle it. Those feelings have been surrounding me no matter how hardly I've bee
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Jump to new posts Re: Another dream, same theme by Candu @ Yesterday at 01:36 PM

Interesting.
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Jump to new posts Re: sitting in a movie theatre party of 1 by Magellan @ Yesterday at 01:03 PM

I've been trying for 30 years now, and I still can't figure it out. I'm not getting something. I simply don't get it. I've literally done everything that people have suggested over the 30 years. There's literally nothing left for me to try. Oh, the
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Jump to new posts Re: Time to tell, but how to start? by Suwanee @ Yesterday at 11:49 AM

I'm sorry I just now got to read your thread. I just went through this last month... You have a lot of sound advice here, so I don't have much new to add. To reiterate a couple of points others have made: Take a measure of your current relationship
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Jump to new posts Re: Some Family Healing by Suwanee @ Yesterday at 11:23 AM

I'm happy to hear that you have some good news! Reading between the lines, it sounds as if you went into things with very low expectations---but have been thoroughly (and authentically) pleased with the outcome. I've been riding pretty high lately,
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: calling all christians by nltsaved @ Yesterday at 10:46 AM

When I was baptized I had spent the entire night before getting filthy drunk . I thought I was having a conversation with myself but it turns out it was The Spirit whispering in my ear " your getting baptized today" I even argued " I a
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Jump to new posts Re: sitting in a movie theatre party of 1 by dark empathy @ Yesterday at 10:33 AM

Hi Magellan. It's not as difficult as you'd think, indeed if an intravert like me can do it I'd say anyone else can. It's just a matter of learning how to make smalltalk, make people laugh, be honest without being scary and pick up people's emotion
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Jump to new posts Re: Time to tell, but how to start? by BuffaloCO @ Yesterday at 09:59 AM

Thank you everyone. Everything you all have said is encouraging. I know this is another step in healing even if I don't know how it will end. As my Pastor says it is time to cross the chicken-line. The fear that comes up is not from who I am now,
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Jump to new posts Re: desperate measures (ibogaine) by Magellan @ Yesterday at 09:46 AM

I would really like to try this for myself. I will mention it to my therapist. Thanks for posting this.
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Jump to new posts Re: sitting in a movie theatre party of 1 by Magellan @ Yesterday at 09:44 AM

Hi Dark Empathy, Thanks for your reply. Seems you have much better skills than I do, somehow getting people to open up to you and bare themselves. I don't know how to do that, and I wouldn't be able to tell you what I needed to improve, either, I'm
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Jump to new posts Re: desperate measures (ibogaine) by Notreally @ Yesterday at 09:09 AM

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/iboradio1/2011/10/30/dave-1st-hr-and-bovenga-2nd-hr This is a report of a mans experience who was sexually abused by men who threatened to kill him. He says he was treated in one session. The audio quality sucks. I forg
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Jump to new posts desperate measures (ibogaine) by Notreally @ Yesterday at 09:02 AM

I was raped as a toddler. You all know what the burden is like, no need to go into that part. I do yoga 5-6 times a week. It helps free the pain retained by the body. I go to therapy twice a week. It shines some light in the dark places. I can feel m
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Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by toysoldier @ Yesterday at 08:47 AM

When your Heart speaks take good notes!
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Jump to new posts Re: Inspirational Quotes by toysoldier @ Yesterday at 08:40 AM

“In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. ”
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Jump to new posts Another dream, same theme by cant_remember @ Yesterday at 08:26 AM

A few weeks ago, I had a dream that I was at a house party and was kicked out for "upsetting the family." Last night, early this AM, I had a dream along a similar theme. I was with a group of guys and we were late for a class but didn't s
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