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Jump to new posts Escape from Planet Earth by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 02:56 PM

I love it when you guys scream what I can barely speak. I feel this way often each day. It comes and goes, ebbs and flows. The rip tide rips deep inside. Ripping a hole through my soul. Ripping my heart completely apart. Anguish is a dee
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Silence is Broken by Obi @ Yesterday at 02:43 PM

still, don't know, but agree that it could be.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Silence is Broken by Still @ Yesterday at 02:14 PM

WOW! Everyone needs to hear this! Great song! Is this supposed to seem 100% applicable to CSA?...cuz it duz!
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Jump to new posts Re: Life/Karma by Magellan @ Yesterday at 02:12 PM

Me neither. This planet sucks and I want off. I didn't deserve this. None of us did.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Life/Karma by Obi @ Yesterday at 01:51 PM

Life - OK! OK! You can stop with the beating me to a pulp every day, shoving crap down my throat! i'm sick of it! Karma - You can kiss my fat ass for taking this several year break. It would be nice if you would even out the shit that Life keeps sho
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: taking a break from this website by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 01:27 PM

Tryingtolive Thank you for sharing with us your story and support. Only you can make the choice, and sometimes stepping away and not being constantly reminded of the past is a welcome relief. If you ever need support remember we are here for you. W
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Silence is Broken by Obi @ Yesterday at 01:10 PM

Jump to new posts San Diego support group update by 86 @ Yesterday at 12:26 PM

Hello, I have set a time and day for support group. We will meet every Sunday from 7am-8am at 1613 Hoover ave. National City, CA. I am willing to move the time to what suits the needs of the majority of the group. Like most all peer support group, t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts taking a break from this website by Tryingtolive @ Yesterday at 12:00 PM

Thank you all for the support... i cant keep looking back at my past and looking back at my post.. makes me even more depressed than i already am..... Thank you all who reached out to me.. I cant stop my mind from racing .. and this website isnt help
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: A song to help with depression by banterings @ Yesterday at 10:55 AM

Tryingtolive, Here is a youtube video for a cover of Godsmack's "Serenity." When I have a stressful day, I let it play in the background as I work on the computer. I sing it as a prayer asking God for serenity. This version is very peacefu
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Porn by GoodHope @ Yesterday at 10:42 AM

Dolhin Boy, there are therapists who specialize in porn addiction (look for CSAT certification) and there are also 12 step groups that deal with this Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) comes to mind (for the partners of porn addicts, some people have found
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: does the lying ever stop? Really struggling here. by GoodHope @ Yesterday at 10:35 AM

BlueDog, Thank you for your thoughtful response. I understand where you are coming from. I would also point out that your own experience with abuse and control issues colors otherwise non threatning interactions with non controlling partners. Con
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Hey JayBro When people who were never in the military ,adults and especially kids, found out that I was in the USAF they all wanted to know if I flew an airplane. My usual answer is "no, someone has to change the tires, wash the dishes, etc&quo
Male Survivors
I must be stupid also then because when i read your original post yesterday I felt kind of excited for you, I thought it sounded like the relationship had potential. I thought you should at least make a move, maybe with some caution, and see what hap
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Every Day Mindfulness by bluesky @ Yesterday at 08:48 AM

Mindful how so many people in my life recently have said that I am important to them that I am loving and compassionate. Bluesky
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Jump to new posts Re: I am falling apart by bluesky @ Yesterday at 08:43 AM

Thanks Freeman the prayers and love iseans a lot and does a lot. I was able to talk this over with my wife and explain what was going on with flash backs and how it was affecting me. She was right there did not flinch even though this is affecting m
Sexual Identity Issues
I don't agree that we are all born bisexual - not that I have any evidence for this belief. Just that it doesn't sound right to me. Sure you can have an orgasm with either sex, but it doesn't mean you liked it. It's just a biological response. One of
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: WHEN is it appropriate to tell som1 you like them? by Magellan @ Yesterday at 08:29 AM

You're right, bluebegone. I must believe in myself, however, I can't. Sent the guy a text message "Hey dude how're you doing" and he never replied. I've had this happen to me too many times, and each every single fucking time, I'm confuse
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts PIP by txb @ Yesterday at 08:06 AM

Sorry for the stupid title, but it's about disability benefits, which they call PIP. After I failed at my job last year and was admitted into hospital my social worker suggested that I apply for it. I read over the descriptors and there is very littl
Health and Wellbeing
Originally Posted By: Becoming Other Certainly I would advise no one to ever talk to any kind of a therapist until that person has shown proof of their activism in obtaining justice for the victims of familial abuses, rather than just trying to have
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Originally Posted By: lapchinj I would love to be of help along those lines but unfortunately I wouldn't be able to get through the first few minutes of the job. Me too. I'm very glad there are people out there who are able to do the job though. Th
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Ups and Downs by sorryson @ Yesterday at 06:27 AM

Kevin I am sorry everything seems to be coming at you at one time. Don said it right you have been earnest with others and give hope to so many of us. You found a woman that gave you the same, and you deserved it. You were lucky. My brother said s
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