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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Beat Sex by Strive 38/11 @ 11 minutes 20 seconds ago

The implicit trust in the random anonymous sexual engagement for me was the most powerful driver to my behaviour. A unspoken contract that you won't hurt me as you touch me intimately and touch me be with me sexually. These oh so precious moments of
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Family issues (incest family) by Strive 38/11 @ 20 minutes 11 seconds ago

Choose to shine on the shine
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Family issues (incest family) by Strive 38/11 @ 21 minutes 53 seconds ago

Power up brother
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: Top Ten Funny Yet Inappropriate Shop Names by victor-victim @ Today at 09:09 PM

these are some of the restaurants i have found, including a couple from my city.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: exhausted and agitated/anxious by don64 @ Today at 08:51 PM

Thanks for your support Freeman and Mike. Today has been very interesting in that I expended about three times the physical energy I normally do. One of the features of my damage has been limited physical activity. I have had to much damage stored
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The age we become 'stuck'? by don64 @ Today at 08:40 PM

For me, referring to myself as getting stuck at a certain age doesn't really capture how I feel about it. Because of the trauma of my abuse in infancy and early childhood, parts of me necessary to experience joy and mental health and physical health
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: sex is bad... by Strive 38/11 @ Today at 08:28 PM

Ramble as much as you like Tryingtolive. I'm evidence in belief that the brain can change. The science is called Neuroplasticity, also known as brain plasticity, is an umbrella term that encompasses both synaptic plasticity and non-synaptic plasticit
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts sex is bad... by Tryingtolive @ Today at 06:49 PM

it is ingrained in my head that sex is to be kept a secret... Relationships are suppose to be secretive... No one was to find out the acts i was doing.. I was very scared/paranoid someone would find out what i was doing with my brother.. i crave love
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The age we become 'stuck'? by Strive 38/11 @ Today at 05:42 PM

Having to read somehing out to a person who has power over you that subconsciously replicates the power in the act abuse is going make you act your abuse age. It's so unfair mentally handicapped by your abuser.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: A song I would like to share by Strive 38/11 @ Today at 05:30 PM

Wow I'm not there. Thankfully.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Shine on you crazy diamond. by Strive 38/11 @ Today at 05:22 PM

Hey Mike, Yes me too. Making my statement already gave me a great lift. I was in passive avoidance hole, now I'm back working towards things. Thanks for being brave to comment, I appreciate it.
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: Top Ten Funny Yet Inappropriate Shop Names by betrayed boy @ Today at 05:14 PM

chinese rest. in ny KING DONG I so wanted to go in there and tell them how that looked lol
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I'm sorry. by lapchinj @ Today at 05:04 PM

(((((((((( Magellan )))))))))) No don't go brother, please. There is nothing wrong with anyone with a disability. It is really disgusting with people who treat the disabled as below their dignity. Tell those people to fuck off. My message to you is
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I have to ask something by lapchinj @ Today at 04:53 PM

Hey ((((( magellan ))))) Nothing can be so far from the truth of everything you say and assume. My father (who is 100 years old) has been hearing impaired for a couple of decades. My mother treats him like shit like him being hearing impaired is a p
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: the movie creepers by unhappycamper @ Today at 04:19 PM

Watched it twice, read the book. There was some controversy about Carcaterra's truthfulness, since he billed the story as autobiographical, but it doesn't detract from the power of the story. The acting is great--loved Dustin Hoffman as the burnt-ou
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: A Good Book *Trigger Warning* by dark empathy @ Today at 03:57 PM

I'm not sure about the s/x bit there gart, this lecturer I am thinking of had little of that whatsoever. MAny of the ultra feminists I've run into of that persuasion tend to be either violently aggressive and a s/xual as this lecturer was, or still w
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation In Media
Jump to new posts Re: Triggers and How to Handle Them by lapchinj @ Today at 03:36 PM

Hey Mike You know that before I went up onto the bus I figured that since it was by the driver's area I would be OK. But then again I could not refuse the job because i was the one with the skills to fix. Also it would look like "don't bother m
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Why Would Anyone Say A Victim is a Liar by KMCINVA @ Today at 02:32 PM

I like the Frank Zappa quote because it is what I did for a lifetime. I tried to escape and bury the emotions of the abuse but life only got worse. Trying to escape the past without facing the past only leads to a lifetime of pain and hurt.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Family issues (incest family) by Tryingtolive @ Today at 02:25 PM

My parents tell me to get out of my room ... Why are you like this ? ... What happened to my fun loving son I use to know? I ask the same questions to myself ... ... They try to show they care but deep down I know they're hiding something ... ( I
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: A Good Book *Trigger Warning* by gaatt @ Today at 02:18 PM

Hi Dark Empathy, Yes, some women can be pretty vicious. Warren Farrell, the author of the book, served on the board of NOW (National Organization for Women in the USA). He left when they started demanding that child custody be always awarded solely
Ask The Website Committee
Jump to new posts Private Forum by MariaAnna @ Today at 01:21 PM

Why are there no private forums? There are some questions and things I'd like to discuss that I do not feel comfortable being publicly accessible on the internet.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts the movie creepers by Tryingtolive @ Today at 01:09 PM

i recommend everyone who has been sexually abused to watch this movie... Sleepers its a great movie.. it was triggering for me (Some spoilers ) It brought back some memory's of how my innocence was taking from me ... My childhood gone ... I like
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts A song I would like to share by Tryingtolive @ Today at 12:35 PM

http://youtu.be/naQApyEaipM I should have posted this somewhere else but ill leave it unless a mod wants to move it madness curing sadness
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: A Good Book *Trigger Warning* by dark empathy @ Today at 11:30 AM

One of the most unpleasant people I've ever had the missfortune to meet was a femiist lecturer. She was intimidating, harmful and malicious. She once attempted to shut down the student philosophy society I was president of because she'd taken slight
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by Nothing Man @ Today at 11:19 AM

Goran, discovering who you really are is the first step toward happiness. Accept who you are as a beautiful person deserving of love, life and happiness. Mike
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