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Jump to new posts Re: What shall I say to them? by ALovingMum @ Today at 05:51 PM

Thank you so much for your replies. @Esposa - No, this was not said by a therapist or in respect of giving my son therapy, it was said with a view to say that child sexual abuse is not harmful to the child. And that the child should be forced to go
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Thanks guys! by jj78 @ Today at 05:37 PM

I'd like to thank everyone for their interest in the Songs for Survivors thread which just surpassed 100,000 views. When I started this thread nearly 4 years ago shortly after joining, it was my way of expressing my feelings and thoughts about my
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Please help me by Going forward @ Today at 04:33 PM

I am so sorry to hear what you are going through I have lived such a similar life that I can relate to everything you are feeling. I would like to share a few things with you; as much as we want to know every detail of the lies and infidelity at this
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Alone and Feeling Isolated by kcinohio @ Today at 04:15 PM

Hi Phoenix, Yes, making the decision to distance oneself can be difficult. Sometimes, it is the only way to open oneself up to a better experience. I've found no matter what I do, I only have 168 hours in a week. If time and energy go somewhere, eve
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what is masculinity? by 1islandboy @ Today at 03:28 PM

WoW, this is a really smart post... With all the emasculation and feminization I received, the subject of masculinity really messed me up. What it is not. I certainly tried a few of those. Chasing the hyper-masculine dream. What a waste of time.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what is masculinity? by dark empathy @ Today at 02:13 PM

Finalyhere, thanks fot he encouragement, however bare in mine my abuse wasn't entirely at the hands of boys, it was literal public gang rape by teenaged girls with a good serving of s/xual humiliation. That is why I say were I female and the gender
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Catch 22 by Carol Ann @ Today at 01:44 PM

Thank you Sugarbaby for your words of support! Sometimes the stress of feeling like I'm responsible for breaking up the family gets to be a bit much. One good thing though, my son did check out this site one time and I am hoping that he will come bac
U.S. & World News
Originally Posted By: OcellarisAs a follow up to the Bryan Singer case, we have another survivor who can't find justice in the legal system. I feel for Michael Egan. If anyone wonders why so few survivors every report their abuse, it's because of out
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My regret is growing everyday by Still @ Today at 01:36 PM

At this point, what does a new university student want? IMO: any familiarity accessible, any support to not feel alone in a very strange world with no reasonable break from it, someone to talk who already knows him. A "fixer" of problems th
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: What shall I say to them? by Esposa @ Today at 01:35 PM

I have to say I have heard of this. I have heard of therapists of young children try to de-stigmatize abuse in order to lessen the trauma of it. In Latin America, where 1 in 6 is more like 5 in 6, this is a very common therapeutic approach. For ex
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Please help me by HD001 @ Today at 01:29 PM

Hello. I don't know how much I can help but sometimes just knowing you aren't alone offers some small comfort. My previous thread was about my lonliness. I've tried so hard to reach out to H despite the lies that continue to be uncovered. This la
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: What shall I say to them? by VASurvivor @ Today at 12:13 PM

I am so sorry that this is happening. I am not savvy on the legal side of things, but it sounds like you need to consult an attorney who has experience handling sexual assault cases. Additionally, I would contact a private child psychiatrist of yo
Ask The Website Committee
Jump to new posts Re: What shall I say to them? by Chris Anderson @ Today at 09:58 AM

ALM, Please email me directly at canderson@malesurvivor.org. It will be helpful for me to know where specifically this is and any other details you can share (please don't post that here, but rather put in the email).
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Jump to new posts What shall I say to them? by ALovingMum @ Today at 08:07 AM

I need your help again please: I was told by the court appointed guardian for my children that any child that has been sexually abused should not be allowed to have a negative view of the abuse or that abuser if the abuser is the father!!! So a chil
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts What shall I say to them? by ALovingMum @ Today at 08:06 AM

I need your help again please: I was told by the court appointed guardian for my children that any child that has been sexually abused should not be allowed to have a negative view of the abuse or that abuser if the abuser is the father!!! So a chil
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what is masculinity? by finallyhere @ Today at 08:06 AM

Davo - I completely understand your request for respect in return. I too have a strong faith. Many of us probably do, did or maybe want too yet the things we have experienced without having answers or feeling so, so alone conflict with our actions, t
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: A bit about me. by Bluedogone @ Today at 07:09 AM

Hi woodenshoes and welcome, I think you've written more than you'll ever know. There's just something liberating about writing, or about saying to someone, or even saying to yourself the words - I was abused. It's the first step (and a damn impor
Introductions
Jump to new posts What shall I say to them? by ALovingMum @ Today at 05:58 AM

I need your help again please: I was told by the court appointed guardian for my children that any child that has been sexually abused should not be allowed to have a negative view of the abuse or that abuser if the abuser is the father!!! So a chil
Humor
Jump to new posts Re: lawyer jokes by ALovingMum @ Today at 05:28 AM

LOL...how true! Thanks for making me laugh.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: A bit about me. by wild_turky @ Today at 04:49 AM

I feel your pain stay strong keep moving. First step taken.
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Visitation by ALovingMum @ Today at 04:16 AM

What???? If you still need this please go to Dr Claire Reeves. She is a highly respected expert in this field and she will be more than happy to help you. Her website address is www.againstsexualabuse.org and you can reach her there by clicking con
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: THEY GOT HIM !!!!!!!!!!! by ALovingMum @ Today at 03:56 AM

I'm so so happy for you! Sorry I haven't been on here for such a long time. Been dealing with my son's issues. How is your nephew and I hope that vile creature got put away!
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: A bit about me. by traveler @ Today at 03:50 AM

woodenshoes - congratulations on having the courage to come here and to speak up. and welcome to our community! my timeline was pretty similar to yours - around 6 yrs old to about 15-16, with multiple perps - both adults and peers. i hope you ha
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Please help me by journey4two @ Today at 03:49 AM

My survivor husband and I have been making great strides in our marriage. I have shared as much here. But tonight during a particularly tender time when we both felt safe, he revealed something he thought I already knew. In his words that while we
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: What shall I say to them? by ALovingMum @ Today at 03:18 AM

I am not sure if this has been posted in the right section or not. Can anyone point me in the right direction please as I need urgent replies and assistance please.
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