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Poetry
Jump to new posts Déjà vu by nltsaved @ Today at 05:17 AM

Déjà vu I sit alone in this room in my head Where death and despair keep me living on edge It gets lonely being the only company I keep Intrinsically seeking freedom from the stink and decay from rotten yesterday's presence Insomnias fragrance
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Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ Today at 03:48 AM

Originally Posted By: BluedogoneHAVING AN OPPOSABLE THUMB IS NO HELP UNLESS YOU CAN GET A GRIP pure genius, and completely original as far as i can google. i was unable to search any similar version of that edifying epigram. thank you dearly
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: God Sign by victor-victim @ Today at 03:39 AM

Originally Posted By: pufferfish big bump!
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Jump to new posts Re: Doctors are in control of my life, is there hope? by victor-victim @ Today at 03:31 AM

i can totally relate to your current state. my sympathies. wishing you well. sending you hope. i got lots to spare. somehow all my sudden physical and financial problems have failed to permanently dampen my spirits. how have you been feeling
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: rave review by victor-victim @ Today at 03:17 AM

i just got certified by my union after completing the first course of a brand new initiative to combat workplace hazards (bullies) that have been causing health issues including suicides. I had no idea this bullying/harassment problem has apparentl
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Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by victor-victim @ Today at 03:05 AM

you got me reeling, brother. this is some powerful stuff. it's like i can hear the message behind all the static, and it sounds like a distant and distorted version of my own voice, talking in a foreign language i have never heard, yet i can under
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Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ Today at 01:38 AM

you know i love the blues Originally Posted By: BluedogoneIt seems is it wasn't for bad luck you'd have no luck at all
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I feel for you I worry about getting in a similar place. Deep down I know I need help just seems overwhelming. I am going to see a new psychiatrist this month. Never been to one, I have only been to a therapist but never discussed this part of my l
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Jump to new posts Re: Ashamed and hating myself by smc1972 @ Today at 12:46 AM

I wonder and I am sure I know the answer but does the issues "triggers" ever go away? Will I always have to deal with this and will it always be a part of my mind in sexual situations. I know I should not have this shame and I truely appre
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Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 11:22 PM

It seems is it wasn't for bad luck you'd have no luck at all HAVING AN OPPOSABLE THUMB IS NO HELP UNLESS YOU CAN GET A GRIP Good luck and best wishes as you return to physiotherapy.
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Jump to new posts Re: Doctors are in control of my life, is there hope? by Bluedogone @ Yesterday at 10:43 PM

iaccus, I'm really sorry it's so frustrating. More doctors and more medications must seem like an endless merry-go-round, where you have to keep paying for tickets to ride. It's just one more part of life where it seems you have no control, and no
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Jump to new posts Learning to Respect Myself by Magellan @ Yesterday at 09:37 PM

I think I might be learning to like myself, finally. I've been working at this a very very long time, but felt like I was making no headway. I've spent years wiping away the wreckage of my mom's upbringing, and abuse, neglect, and CSA issues. I've
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Jump to new posts Re: ouch again! by victor-victim @ Yesterday at 09:08 PM

thanks for the cheer, brothers. i am expected to return to physiotherapy tomorrow, but as of now, my left hand is still unable to grab or grip without extreme deep pain. i can move my fingers ok, but any pressure on the palm causes instant OUCH!
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Jump to new posts Re: Doctors are in control of my life, is there hope? by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 08:06 PM

iaccus You can do it. Having two psychiatrists will require you to make sure they talk so as to ensure medications are complimentary and not toxic or result in complications. You should provide both doctors with the list of medications. If you feel
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Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by Sterling @ Yesterday at 07:45 PM

then I want to do this. I want to have a girlfriend. But he kept me shut-up. I had nothing food. over and over. and I am regressed to little kid. And I am scared about tomorrow. I even see myself eating -like away from me. my dad
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Jump to new posts Re: Doctors are in control of my life, is there hope? by iaccus @ Yesterday at 07:23 PM

Thank you michael, that means a lot to me!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Doctors are in control of my life, is there hope? by Michael1965 @ Yesterday at 06:42 PM

Iaccus I want you to know that we are here for you and support you through ever step of this journey! Your victory is close my friend! Mike
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Jump to new posts Doctors are in control of my life, is there hope? by iaccus @ Yesterday at 06:31 PM

So this morning, another 5 vials of blood drawn for "further testing". This afternoon, 2 more. I see my T, I see my psychiatrist's (yes plural), I go from visit to visit. It seems my whole world revolves around doctors and medications at th
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Jump to new posts Re: back and ready to make more progress by AndrewT @ Yesterday at 06:12 PM

Thanks guys. I went back and started rereading Not Quite Healed http://www.amazon.com/Not-Quite-Healed-Survivors-Childhood/dp/0825442702/ and it reconfirmed that I just need to be patient with myself and start with where I am at and not get frus
Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: Family Blacksheeping and American Inheritance Law by Becoming Other @ Yesterday at 05:30 PM

Disinheritance Law Kindles Passion in Louisiana http://www.nytimes.com/1989/12/01/us/the-law-disinheritance-law-kindles-passion-in-louisiana.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sydney_B._Nelson http://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/25...=211061733614
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: Who's in chat? by manipulated @ Yesterday at 05:10 PM

Could this topic and link be stickied so it doesn't slide down? This has been a useful tool.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: back and ready to make more progress by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 04:59 PM

AndrewT Welcome but sorry you had to return. You seem focused on your issues and that is a positive in gaining control. I think we all have to come in for a tune up every so often. You are taking all the right steps. Good luck and remember we a
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Jump to new posts Re: back and ready to make more progress by Bardo @ Yesterday at 04:35 PM

Welcome back, although its too bad that you have to be here. Sounds like you have a really healthy attitude about where you are and a plan to help you get where you need to go. With the support of your obviously wonderful wife, I think you are on you
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Jump to new posts Re: free association & freedom of expression by Sterling @ Yesterday at 04:12 PM

thank you so much! Tomorrow morning I am going to my doctor. I plan to have him see me naked. Which is so frightening. for me. I never knew my sex. so I don't think I can analyze this. I am very afraid. Anyway, back to job-shopping! Love y
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Jump to new posts back and ready to make more progress by AndrewT @ Yesterday at 03:51 PM

I have been away for a while...I thought I was "fixed" and done with the majority of my recovery. Now old/new feelings are coming back and my addict really wants to medicate them away. I am not willing to let him cause me more pain and de
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