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Survivors of Female Abuse
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I still have no idea what I'm doing in navigating this site or putting down this information, but hopefully this is the right place for this post and hopefully it can help me to move forward and help any of you to share or move forward as well-. This
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U.S. & World News
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http://blog.blacknews.com/2013/05/judge-...ml#.UaFCiZz3Wlc Originally Posted By: Blacknews Mark Ciavarella Jr, a 61-year old former judge in Pennsylvania, has been sentenced to nearly 30 years in prison for literally selling young juveniles for cash
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Male Survivors
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A friend of mine here at MS directed me to this thread just so I can throw in my 2 cents. I was abused for 9 years 7 of those with my judo teacher. My parents were always in Florida and left me at home alone more or less. I don't know my history be
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Male Survivors
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When I "remembered" the abuse of my youth, the PTSD reactions became much worse. I'm not sure why that was. I had some very strong reactions to guys who seemed to physically resemble the abuser. These were the reactions a kid might have
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Survivors of Female Abuse
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thanks jeff. it feesl good to know someone is giving this some thought, helping me sort it out. what you said makes perfect sense to me.
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Poetry
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Very Nice Poem however@ Victor I wish I had a sensi to teach me this art I am a willing student I think I have what it takes to master this art but I am not sure ? need to to know what to heal first
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: Farmer Boy She is one very pathetic individual. Ken I owe you an apology. I just realised what a shitty thing that was to say. There is no way that I would think that if the roles were reversed. My Bad!!! I guess the gender b
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Male Survivors
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you are not only greater than you imagined, you are greater than you can imagine.
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Male Survivors
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Nurture Your mind with great thoughts, for You will never go any higher than You think~!
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Male Survivors
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what she did was wrong. having been through many similar situations, i know exactly what you were going through.
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Introductions
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hi doug. welcome to the forum. looking forward to hearing more from you.
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Male Survivors
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WOw Ken. I have to say that was without a doubt ASA. Technically you could call it oral rape. You said No...You did! There was penetration. I wouldn't liketo test that ina court of law though. There is still a huge gap in gender equality. The parall
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Introductions
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welcome tim. i am 52 and still learning. i have learned a lot on this website. hope it helps you.
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Male Survivors
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StrugglingGuy Thanks for sharing your story. I am truly sorry for what happened to you. No kid deserves that. You have come to the right place to find guys like you. I have to agree with the others in saying that your friend's dad abused you pure a
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Introductions
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Hello Tim and welcome to Male survivor! You found good place for dealing with issues that you went trough. It is sad fact that many of us have similar problems that last for so long. It is much easier when knowing that we are not alone. So we are he
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: SuwaneeYou're right. I revisit those times frequently with great results. I do it through writing about it, posting here, and immersing myself in a music playlist that recalls the good times. I don't often post about this sinc
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Male Survivors
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Hey Victor, congratulations on your come back. I'm sure it will get better with time! I love coming back, meeting coworkers, sensing familiar atmosphere...
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Male Survivors
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I am so sorry to welcome you here. For me, I have discovered it is not so much recovery as discovery. I have discovered an amazing amount about myself with the incredible help of everyone here. And I have learned to trust my feelings and thoughts.
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Male Survivors
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StrugglingGuy, Welcome to the club of struggling guys. I'm sorry we all had to come together like this, but I've found it very accommodating and helpful. It's also encouraging to realize that there are so many forms of CSA that we bring to the table
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Introductions
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welcome here. you can pm me any time. i have many similar issues.
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Male Survivors
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txb, I have found two ways of dodging the dreams and nightmares. 1) I smoke pot. One of its lesser known qualities is that it decreases dream activity. 2) I find falling asleep on the couch in front of the TV, while not exactly healthy, also keeps
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Male Survivors
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Magellan, You're right. I revisit those times frequently with great results. I do it through writing about it, posting here, and immersing myself in a music playlist that recalls the good times. I don't often post about this since my regimen could
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Male Survivors
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Quote: I want to beat him to death with a baseball bat. I sometimes fantasize about running into him at a bar and just beating him with my fists. The son of a bitch took everything away from me as a child when I didn't even stand a chance. Fuck him.
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Male Survivors
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Originally Posted By: Magellan Before that time, I was careless, happy, and free. This is who I need to recover. EXACTLY! Wish I had more to say... but hope it helps to know someone else has had the same realization as you, and I'm sure many oth
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Introductions
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Hi everyone, I am a new member here. I have been on other support boards before. I am so glad to have found your group. I am a struggling survivor who at times still feels like a "victim". I am a 45 year old man and I have been married
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